Loving your pet....
I have such an amazingly intense love for my cat Boots and I know I will never feel that way with any person/ human in my life. Our bond with each other is indescribable. Does anyone feel the same way about their pet?
shareI have such an amazingly intense love for my cat Boots and I know I will never feel that way with any person/ human in my life. Our bond with each other is indescribable. Does anyone feel the same way about their pet?
shareDo you call him Boots because he's a puss in boots?
shareShe's actually a girl and that was her name the shelter gave her before I adopted her so I didn't want to change it. She is an orange tabby with blue green eyes; she's stunning! We also have an amazing connection. I love her beyond words!!!!!
shareI watch a lot of animal videos on YouTube. I've never had a pet on my own. Growing up we had a pug, and later adopted a kitten born in our neighborhood by a stray. Our pug died relatively young (8 years old) due to some condition that I've forgotten the name of. But that's years ago. I recently searched for old pug videos (not videos that are old, pugs that are old) and it made me cry.
https://www.youtube.com/c/LexCinnabon/videos (Orange Kitty!)
https://www.youtube.com/c/ShadowTheRat/videos
https://www.youtube.com/c/SaveAFox/videos
https://www.youtube.com/c/PawMeow/videos
https://www.youtube.com/c/HowlOfADog/videos
https://www.youtube.com/user/TheDodoSite/videos
Thanks for the videos. I will check them out!! :)
shareI love Cinnabon, the orange kitty. It's also been interesting to watch the owner's evolution from indifference to cats to a real cat guy.
Dodo site is the best for variety. It has turned my mind around pit bulls. They can be cuddle bugs! I also love watching pet pigs and rescued farm animals (cows and donkeys are so sweet, even chickens can be affectionate)! I never knew rats could be such great pets. And I am so grateful towards people who operate sanctuaries like SaveaFox!
I love watching the "dog reunited with person" videos, like when a soldier returns home after a long deployment or a student comes home from college. Very sweet.
shareI think pet lovey-dovey people are crazy. For me it's a clear sign that the human race has become seriously dysfunctional. Of course it may well be that the human race has always been seriously dysfunctional.
I wish I could feel the sort of unconditional love and uncritical acceptance towards another human as I feel towards my pets, but relations between humans are always complex and fraught with difficulties. Even parents who think they love and accept their children unconditionally and uncritically are layering the relationship with unrealistic expectations, and the helpless adoring infant becomes a human with a mind of its own, and the relationship becomes as complex as any.
So I just value the relationships I have for animals as a good thing in itself. it doesn't affect my relationship with other humans one way or the other, and the more love in the world the better.
My wife and I have a hound/ rottweiler mix and his name is Abel. Our kids are grown and moved out. Abel helps us with the "empty nest" He's a good dog and we love him dearly.
shareI 100% agree with you Otter. Relationships with humans are very complicated. Relationships with your pets is all about love and nothing else.
shareWell said, Otter.
I don't animals have more value than humans. However, I had a boxer that was intuitive, conscientious, and exceedingly friendly (not anthropomorphizing, seriously*) which elevated his humanity value above many people I have met. His death felt like losing a son.
*He would adjust his play style to accommodate his blind dog friend and even stop her from running into things. He would gravitate to people who were sad or going through something and sit with them without being called. He had a huge vocabulary and never needed a leash. With new people he would slowly establish touching behavior before leaning his head on their shoulder or testing a lap. etc etc etc.
I have a dog I take care of...but after 4 years I still can't stand him.
I don't think he likes me either.
I love cats...I always have. Big fluffy, furry cats.
I've had dogs and cats my whole life but when my current dogs tenure is up, I'm sticking with cats. They are more wonderfuller!! ;)
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