Dewey


This morning I received the message I hoped that I would never receive.
It began like this "If you are reading this then I'm gone.."
After roughly a year of illness our dear Dewey has passed away.
He was courageous in dealing with it all and my admiration grew and grew.
He maintained his wicked sense of humour till the end when I forbade him to die, his reply was "You have no jurisdiction in the US"

He leaves behind his wonderful girlfriend who took the time and trouble to acquaint herself with the weird world of MovieChat to write and keep us updated when Dewey was too poorly. They were each others world and my heart goes out to her.

Dewey was a splendid person, a friend. I was his big sis, we spoke about everything. 215 pages of pms and I cannot believe I'll never hear from him again.

If you'll forgive the cheesiness I think and hope Dewey would approve of this poem...

Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.

Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message 'He is Dead'.
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.

He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last forever: I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now; put out every one,
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun,
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood;
For nothing now can ever come to any good.

Edited to reflect the poet's name. W.H Auden

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I simply cannot believe what i have just read
You are no troll so i take your words for truth...i wish you were a liar but you dont seem so
This is a stunning blow
God bless that fellow
Im shaken by this
Dewey
This hurts

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This is numbing and surreal !

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Honestly, im floored
I was charmed by dewey
Tyson couldnt hit me harder than this

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It's a bolt out of the blue.

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Very much so
Ive been in other online 'communities' before but none had the class and humor that we enjoy here
dewey was a big part of this place, probably the biggest
Classy, clever, silly and kind

We will not meet another like him
RIP good man

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Trust me shogun I wish it were a lie too.
I know he enjoyed every single poster on here. I think he came to see this place as sort of therapy a place to escape when he was unable to sleep or had a bad day for some laughs and banter with his friends.
He was a unique person and a gentleman.

I will mostly remember that sense of humour of his.

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I believe you and know you are a decent person
Im terribly sorry to hear this about our guy
Loved that fellow
Thank you for letting us know
Im a bit shaken

I think that i will do some silly posts now to 'walk it off'
Be well

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I think he'd definitely approve of silliness.

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Not Cheesy at all.
Thank you for letting us know.
My sympathy to those who loved him and knew him well.
To me and to many here, he was a dear sweet man. He will be missed more than he could ever know.
He will definitely be remembered fondly.🍺 To godewey!

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Here's to Dewey, if I had some Mongolian vodka I would be raising a glass of that.

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Although not on the best of terms right now...I want you to know I'm thinking of you...and I'm as sorry as I can be.

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He was a damn good egg. Does Cat have internet at the moment?
I know he will have told her but I'm guessing she'll be very distressed, I hope she's ok.

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Oh my god. I'm so sorry for your loss.

I never spoke to him myself, but I did enjoy reading him. My thoughts go out to his family and friends.

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I think he'd love the idea that his posts were enjoyed.

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Well, I'm at a loss for words. I wish we could've had a little more time with him and said our goodbyes. It's been a while since I last spoke to him. I'm gonna miss the guy. Rust zacht.😢

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Whenever I see the word Snollebollekes I will think of you and Dewey having a laugh and derailing threads!

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May you hear that word for a long time to come!👍 I certainly will forever be reminded of my friend Deputy Dewey Boy. Snollebollekes!🍻

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I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. My condolences to his family and friends. He seemed like a good guy.

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He was indeed, the best.

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All I can bring myself to say right now is today is a much less wonderful place than it was.

We've lost someone very special.

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There are no words really are there?

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Oh no! Not Dewey!😭 I will miss this witty man. He made me have so many laughing tears. Now they are sadness tears for a sweet man we didn’t know personally, but yet we did know him. His wonderful persona came through loud and clear.

The following poem would suit our Dewey (except for the old age) because for sure he fought the good fight!

Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Though wise men at their end know dark is right,
Because their words had forked no lightning they
Do not go gentle into that good night.

Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright
Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,
And learn, too late, they grieved it on its way,
Do not go gentle into that good night.

Grave men, near death, who see with blinding sight
Blind eyes could blaze like meteors and be gay,
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

And you, my father, there on that sad height,
Curse, bless, me now with your fierce tears, I pray.
Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Dylan Thomas

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Beautiful, I know you had a great affection for him.

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That I did 😔. “Do not go gentle into that good night...” were the first words to come to mind after reading your post. Strange....I do feel as if I’ve lost a friend.

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One of our many funny moments:
Me:
I remember one time my dad was out of town, so I took advantage of the situation. I didn't drag in until 3 in the morning, turned the door knob (didn't lock our doors back then) and just as I did my mom met me at the door in a white night gown! I thought I had died. The angel was there to collect me! Oh, Lord don't take me yet!

[–] godewey (16502) a year ago

“LOL. That is awesome. I've had some of those experiences too.

I grew up in a small town in the midwest during the 70's and 80's.
Experienced most things those decades had to offer. We were the same way.
Had a group who were the first ones to the party and the last ones to leave.
Everybody trusted everybody. We never had any problems with each other.

There was one weekend where I went to Chicago on a Friday after school.
I never told anybody. Had a time to remember to say the least. We were getting served
in the bars when we were 16 and 17. I got back on Sunday only to find out my mom
had called the cops and issued a missing persons for me. She hadn't seen me since
Thursday night. Dad was not impressed to the say the least.

The Four Seasons had it right, Oh What a Night.”

I dedicate “Oh What a Night” to our friend Dewey:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3Rqx14kkpK0

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