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Ever have someone die in your high school?


I was a senior this past school year (2005-2006) and after christmas break we started school. On February 27th one of my closest friends (and crush) died in a car accident. I was torn in half. Everyone took it hard. People were screaming, fainting, and sobbing in the middle of the halls. They had his funeral at our school in the auditorium I went and just stared cuz i cried all i could the days leading up. We were close. We talked a lot. Teased each other and everything. I'm gay by the way and we were finally talkin it on that level. But we were to shy to admit we liked each other and i knew he liked me (girls and some guys know what i'm talking about). But i was so sadden and the worst thing is i never got to tell him how i felt neither did he. But i will aways remember him. Just goes to show you that just cuz someone is here today don't mean they're guaranteed tomorrow. I say to you all tell each person how u feel and how much they mean to you. Cuz they might not be there to hear you tomorrow. You don't want to be in my shoes asking "What If?"


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two kids in my school were murdered 3 years ago, i was 16 and they were 17

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This kid at the all-boys school across the street accidentally shot his sister to death. He was playing with a loaded gun, I guess he had found it and was like "hey look at this" and somehow...someway...the gun just went off and it killed her...now he really needs help because I've heard he's obsessed with guns now.

At another boys' school, there was a meningitis outbreak and a freshman died. That was just this week. Really sad stuff.

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yeah when I was in high school there was generally at least one kid who died a year. First in 8th grade (which was actually middle school for us) some kid died from cancer, 9th there was a car crash (the guys best friend, also in my hs was driving), then a couple more car accidents, suicides, and one kid's house caught on fire and her whole family (excluding the mother) died. Then again I had at least 2000 kids in my school.

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I knew one kid that died when I was in highschool, but I remember after I graduated at least 5 kids in my class either got murdered or committed suicide. I went to 5 funerals the summer after I graduated, it was so depressing.

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when i was in 4th grade a 3rd grader died from a brain tumor. When i was a sophmore this a senior died in the bathroom of a heart attack my friend found her... From another school a guy died of an enlarged heart i didnt know but he was well known.

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yup...a boy died in a car crash last year.

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a kid i knew died in a car accident but the school never mentioned it.

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I knew of 3 kids from my school. In Junior High, a boy was killed in a house fire.

In High School, one boy died of cancer and the other had some sort of spot on his heart. He was at a party crossing the street to another party and just collapsed on the road and died.

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I live in Australia and am horrified by how many people have been mentioning how murders occur frequently at their schools. Fortunately, here we have gun laws and other such things- which may be why we would rarely get more than 2 teenage homicides a year.

However, at my school we have recently had a rather full-on last two years. We had only ever lost one student before in the history of the school, and then last year a friend in the year bewlow me took his life. Less than 2 months later one of the school gates fell on a 6 year old boy and crushed him to death infront of several students. Then towards the end of the year we lost 4 teenage boys in one crash as they had been travelling together after a party. Then earlier this year a yr12 girl took a deliberate drug overdose.

Overall it's been a rather difficult few years for everyone, and i offer my sympathies to those who have experienced this sort of grief all over the world.

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When I was in grade nine, a girl in grade eleven died in a car accident. I guess she was a really popular nice girl. Everyone liked her. So every year now they do an award for someone in the eleventh grade. If someone matches her qualities they get it. Then the summer between grade nine and ten a guy killed himself. When I was in grade twelve a kid who got made fun of a lot killed himself, he was in grade eleven. A girl I knew who was about to start grade ten died in a car accident. We are a little town too.

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In middle school a girl and her mom were beaten to death by the father and the next year another girl died during a surgery...something was wrong with her breatheing.

In high school a boy hit a van head on, he died on impact, but he was thrown from the car and his best friend was a volunteer fireman and was the person that found his body in the ditch. The three people in the van he hit died also.

The worst part is when the school had a moment of silence for the boy one student was going down the hall "whats the big deal with him? all i hear about is him. whats the big deal?" I honestly don't know how that girl didn't end up getting beaten up b/c of saying that (we went to a tuff school).

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password, I am wondering the same thing
Even if it weren't a tough school, I probably wouldn't have been able to stop myself from beating up that girl who obviously
does not understand the value of humans and has most likely never lost someone close to her, but I would never wish that on anyone.

Less than a year ago, a boy named Brian at my brother's school took his life. I never knew Brian personally, but when my brother
told me about it, I was heartbroken. My brother and he were both 7th graders then, and I was a junior in college.
The thing that really got to me though was how anyone could willingly take his or her own life. I guess I sort of understabd. I mean, I
have been severely depressed, and I considered suicide a few times during high school, but I just didn't have the guts to do it.
I thought about my family and my friends, and I almost felt ashamed for even thinking about taking my life.

My sympathy to everybody's lost, loved ones

...and to Brian's family

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My Senior year in high school (2005-2006) I lost two of my oldest friends, Brianna and Sierra, I had know them both since second grade. We had gotten out of school at 12:00 because it was spring vacation and they were driving up to Portland to visit Sierra's Dad. But a half an hour into their trip Sierra lost control of the car and were both pronounced dead at the scene. I t was really tough finishing our senior year with out them. I miss them everyday!

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A guy in my high school died of a heart attack while at football practice. And a guy in my grade died when after Thanksgiving his brother in law was driving a car and swerved to avoid hitting a Christmas tree on the road (How messed up is that) I mean it was like a week after Thanksgiving. It made Christmas very hard.
When we found out about it, we went to their house, and his real brother was just sitting on my friend's bed staring off into space. I don't think I have ever felt so bad in my life. Not even when relatives have died. The look of utter desperation on his face was something I won't be able to forget. As a matter of fact, it's making me cry now. And it was over ten years ago.

And as for the part where you never got to tell him you liked him, I can relate.
I am married now, but there was this one guy in high school, I really really liked. I never told him.
I really love my husband, but to this day, I wonder if he would have felt the same. I must say, always say what's in your heart. Whether he had reciprocated or not, I would at least know what he would have thought of me.



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I'm a sophomore...3 people died last year at my school but none this year so far.

And a guy I used to be friends with in 7th grade died back in his high school in Louisiana...I would say that counts.

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When I was in sixth grade a family of four (a mother, a father, and two daughters, ages 2 and 4) who lived in my neighborhood were in a car crash on the interstate, caused by drunk driving. The four-year-old girl named Tori was the only one who lived, and she now lives with her grandmother, who is a very good family friend.

And junior year of high school my boyfriend of one year, Peter, almost died on prom night. He was dropping me off at a friend's house, where we were having a girls' sleepover, at about one o' clock. We had just eaten at an all-night diner and had a ball telling jokes and goofing off and were now saying our goodbyes. I stood out in the driveway with my overnight bag, watching as he drove off down the road. There was a parking lot to an elementary school off of the road, and just as he was driving past the entrance a Chevy truck flew across the parking lot at about fifty mph and went right out into the road like it was about to cross it, into the ditch on the other side. Peter didn't hit the brakes in time, and he ran right into the side of the car, in which were two drunk boys from another high school. I immediately ran down the street to the crash, and as I did so I called my friend, who got her parents to call 911. The driver of the other car was not hurt at all, and his passenger only had some nasty cuts on his face and arm from where the window broke, but Peter had hit his head really hard on the steering wheel, and then hit the back of it really hard on his headrest when the force pushed him backwards, the doctors determined. He was rushed to the hospital with bleeding of the brain. I do not think I have ever cried as hard as I did that night. I wanted to stay with him until he got out of surgery, but my parents made me come home. A friend slept over to keep me company, but neither of us slept at all.

The next day I immediately called Peter's parents. The surgery had gone okay, but he was in a coma, and the nightmare began. For two weeks he was unconscious, and it was said that the boys who had hit him would be charged with homocide if Peter died. When he woke up at last, I was at school, in math class, and they called me to the office to tell me. On the way to the hospital I almost broke down crying, thinking that he might have amnesia or have gone blind or something (hard hits to the head can do both of those things, I learned in science class). All he had was a killer headache, though.

We have been together ever since then - two blissful years. There have been no complications from the accident. For those two weeks, I really thought I was going to lose him.

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Well Thank God we survived! That story seriously almost made me cry. I'm glad he's alright.

When I was a freshman in High School, A girl I was friends with in elementary school (but kinda lost touch with) Was hit by a car. A woman who was heavily medicated on anti-depressants and should have been driving drove up on the curb and hit her. It was said that it broke every bone it my friend's body and she was in a coma for a day, then she died. Then my Senior year a kid and his sister were shot in a drive by shooting by a gang. Appartently he was in a rival gang. She was just in the wrong place at the wrong time. From what I heard, He jumped in front of her, he died at the hospital, she only suffered a shot to the arm. Then in the Fall on 2006, I lost a good friend of mine. He had a heart condition that no one knew about and he had a heart attack and died in his sleep. He didn't feel any pain which I'm thankful for. I miss him soooooo much. Everyone in my graduating class ws surprised. He was that last person we'd ever expect to go first. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him. I even cary his picture around in my purse. It might sound cheesy but that way I know he's always with me.

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When I was in 1st grade a 4th grade girl went to a beach for some photo shoots because she was modeling for an agency. She and a friend of hers were found dead and taken home by an ambulance. According to the official version both of them drowned, but the parents of the girl that was in my high school didn't want to know what really happened. Many think that it was a murder.

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This guy at mt school died about a month ago right before the exams, he was comlaining all week about a headaches and then, i thinkit was a wednesday, he got a seizure in school, they had to call ''école sécurisé'' (it means secured school=you have to stay in class, no one can go in the hallways even if you forgot ur binder or have to go to the bathroom..) anyways, he got driven by an ambulance to the hospital and he died there, apparently he had this desiese or something when ur veins that are in youre head flatten so the blood can't pass. It's sad cuz he was only 14 and in the 9th grade. Alot of 9th graders (especially girls) were crying in the hallways during lunch..some who even din't know him were crying.

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Here's a story for you. I've been out of my highschool now for about three years. Here we start Highschool in grade 10, end at grade 12. So three years of highschool. In grade 10, around November this kid Derek (great hockey player) decided it were best to commit suicide. No note, no apparent reason. He was still with his girlfriend, average guy.

Grade 11, my next door neighbor dies from MS. He wasn't supposed to live past the age of four, his twin brother had past on years before, and he got sick. He decided to stop fighting it and just die.

In Grade 12, I was walking up the road to the store. I see this guy, stop we have a great conversation. He says he's going drinking at a party, blah blah blah. Three days later he was found in this feild with one tree. He was dead since that night. I was the last person to see him alive.

Every year since, there has been a death. One boy has jumped off a bridge after receiving a huge scholarship. Another fell off a cliff, and the last one shot himself.

In all cases other than my neighbor there has been no reason for suicide. No suicide note, great life. The usual reason for thinking about it is your love life, yet they had all great relationships.

The weird part is all six of those boys, were all the Prom King type of guy, all jocks and braniacs. Everybody knew them.

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Last year when I was a freshman, this girl named Angela (who I went to grammar school with) died in a car crash on March 29th. Her passing really upset the school. (But i didn't know her well)




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My school's pretty small. Not too many kids. 100-250 kids at most.
No one has died really...except for my favorite art teacher. He was in his fifties. Got a heart attack. We were all devistated. My brother, who used to have him and graduated, was sad too because he was also his favorite teacher. His name was Mr.Wallon.
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