Dude named “Ashley”


Cmon man. Why they give that guy the name “Ashley”

I was so confused when Scarlett is talking about being in love with someone named Ashley. I knew she couldn’t be lesbian in a 1940 movie, so I didn’t know why she’d be in love with someone named Ashley. I was shocked to find out that Ashley is a guy

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Appearantly, it is a gender-neutral name.

https://www.behindthename.com/name/ashley

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Ashley was originally a male name, and remained so until the mid 20th century when he began migrating to be a female name. It still is used for boys, but rarely these days.

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At least he wasn't named "Meredith." I've heard of men having that girly name too.

What really irritated me about Scarlett (among many things) was she spent the entire F-ing film pining for this weak little milquetoast of a man that had no interest in her at all, and was kept as far away from her as possible. Meanwhile, Rhett Butler, who was perfect for her, was right there and she didn't appreciate a damned thing about him or what he did for her. It's one of many reasons I'm not a big fan of this film.

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Yea she practically threw herself at him. And he constantly told her it wasn’t meant to be. Get a clue! Have some dignity Scarlett.

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Trouble was, Scarlett was a spoiled brat and had always gotten what she wanted...until she wanted Ashley.

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Scarlett clearly had a lot of issues going on, but I guess that she only wanted Ashley because she idealized him without really knowing him.
It is probably also a matter of her wanting him just because she couldn't have him.

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Meredith is a last name turned into a first name. So is Madison, which became a popular girl's name because of the movie, Splash.

Shirley used to be a boy's name, too. Evelyn was a boy's name.

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In France, Michelle is common among boys because it's French for "Michael."

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Ashley was a surname. Surnames were more popular with boys until later last century. A lot of boy's names went to girls but never went back to boys.

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Good to know. But it did throw me off the first time watching this film!

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I think Ashley was his middle name. In the novel Melanie receives a letter addressed to Mrs. George Ashley Wilkes. Just like Scarlett’s name was actually Katie Scarlett. Don’t know if using middle names was a big thing back then.

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'Ashley' isn't at all unknown as a boy's name

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That is true. When I was in high school I had a classmate named Ashley. My mom said that his mom probably read Gone with the Wind. At that point I had not read the book yet. So I didn’t know what she meant.

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With the popularity of John Wayne, I'm surprised Marion never became a popular boy's name.

Or even Sue, for the Johnny Cash fans.

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