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I love you too, my friend :) Thank you R_Kane for those wonderful words. :) It was a tough period in my life but I'm much better now. Those people were, in fact, cowards who hated themselves. When/if I ever see these people again, I will not be the same person I was back then. I'm sure they will quickly tuck their tails and run. Its okay :) I've accepted the things that people in the past teased me about and nothing bothers me now. I'm confident and refuse to let anyone even try to bring me down. Glad you had a group of friends! I hate that you had to deal with that during HS, which is tough enough already, who needs all that extra shit to deal with. I like you a lot too Catbookss, no worries! I totally understand where everyone is coming from. :) I don't see it that way. I totally understand. I like you very much as well :) No, I know that they did because I remember laughing at it. I remember thinking how silly of a statement it was. I think bullies exist simply because they feel weak and need to pick on someone to make themselves feel better. I've been picked on but hardly ever while in school. Once I got out of school, it seemed to really be a fun thing for people to do, pick on me and make sure that I felt bad about myself. I'm a really easy target too, my teeth are messed up and I'm fat. Also I'm southern so you can imagine the generic jokes I've heard in the past. [quote]Tattoos are chemical burns disguised as art.[/quote] This question has been asked before and someone else said that exact same thing! Can anyone find that for me? I'd love to know who said it. I meet a lot of people with tattoos as well, working in retail. This older woman comes in every once in awhile, she's probably 70 or older and has several visible black ink tattoos. She's got a short blonde haircut and always dresses in white clothes. I can't remember what they actually are or if I even know in the first place but I like that she has several. I live in a small bible thumpin' southern town so when you factor all that in, you can understand how odd it is that she has them. I don't smoke cigarettes but I do know a lot of people with tattoos that do. The tattoo artists I've been to have always smoked. I don't know what draws people to cigarettes. I've tried them for a few months when I was a teenager but got tired of them pretty quickly. I'm glad they don't turn you off though, I always find that statement harsh. I've always been scared of spiders until I moved to the sticks and SPIDERS everywhere. Big fuzzy ones. The kind you get your S/O to kill because they are so terrifying. Always heard this study too! Who did that? Who volunteered for it? That's what I'd like to know. I think its just one of those made up things but who knows maybe they do crawl in there. Odd that you made this thread though, I literally thought about it last night haha. yet another example of these #metoo whores getting together and taking down a man in power. I'm so sick of hearing about this! It breaks my heart for men out there. Thanks Pete! :) I appreciate that so much. I hardly ever hear a complaint from a man about my tattoos. Most of the time its just a look of disapproval, but from older women. Maybe once I have more, I'll hear that line of talk. My dad has asked that I not get one on my face or neck but I kinda want a daisy behind my ear. Mr. Mercedes Nurse Jackie Sausage Party might sprinkle another movie or two in. Let me know what you think of It Comes At Night. I really enjoyed certain parts of that movie. I was 27 before I got my first one. (I turned 32 Saturday) charliekelly had told me about how people react to tattoos but I hadn't experienced it first hand. He has about a dozen so he knows how people look and treat him. My ex husband had forbidden me to get any, thought they were disgusting and vile. Plus he didn't like needles so he made that decision for me like many other things. Anyway, it is hilarious to see the difference in opinion. I work in retail and mine are visible so I get questions some times but mostly looks until the person gets to know me and they realize that I'm not a felon or "low-life." I've always loved movies and television so I've got a sleeve planned with that in mind. So far, I have a bobs burgers tattoo and a green clover from its always sunny in philly. (charliekelly and I match with the sunny tattoo) On my other arm, I have a pink/purple carnation in honor of my mother who passed away (cancer) when I was 12. They mean something to me, not to anyone else and that's okay! I personally think everyone should have one if you want one. I love getting them, I love looking at others, I love thinking about them, I love planning them, etc etc. They make me feel sexier. yes and I want several dozen more. I love everything about tattoos. Same here, ROLLLL TIDEEEE. Hate it Its okay, nothing I can't handle. What did you think about the Bama game?