Much of the film was disturbing, but something that bugged me big time was the way the girls allowed themselves to be compromised. When I was a teen, I knew girls who blew guys for coke- those girls were hard-core ADDICTS, not just girls out for fun!
Also, do girls today really think that being on your knees sucking off a guy is empowering? And do girls really have to PAY MONEY to get in a party??
When I was a teen girl, the guys worked, paid, and danced for MY attention, not the other way around...I felt more powerful under those conditions than I would on my knees!
"...if only you could see what I've seen with your eyes!" Roy Batty
Being a slut is one thing, being a slut AND giving over money to guys is being both a slut and stupid! I guess what I'm asking is: are girls today that stupid lol
"...if only you could see what I've seen with your eyes!" Roy Batty
No this isn't representative of teens. Directors always think it is more authentic to have kids say *beep* over and over, drink, do drugs, and talk about sex non-stop but its not authentic at all. Of course there are kids like that but not even close to being the majority or even the norm.
No I did not grow up under a rock. Lots of people are into really bad drugs, too much sex, violence.......but not the majority.
In the 1990s they came out with that movie Kids and it was supposed to be a "wakeup call". A wakeup call to what? There are *beep* up teens out there? Have been since the time of the Greeks/Romans. Move along nothing to see here.
When I was in high school (graduated in 2005), by my junior and senior year heavy drinking was pretty much present at all of the weekend parties, especially with popular cliques who could afford big keggers. Kids at that age mostly haven't learned moderation yet, and with heavy drinking obviously comes blacking out, and with blacking out (not even a requirement really) usually comes some kind of sex activities in those kinds of mixed-gender raging hormone environments. Weed wasn't uncommon at all, either, and some kids (not many) were into some harder stuff.
So while I'm someone who graduated a while ago, I doubt much has changed at all, but if it has I'm guessing it's probably only gotten worse. My point is, by the time I graduated a very large portion of kids in my graduating class had either gotten *beep* drunk, stoned, or had sex (or reached one of the 'bases') on more than just a few occasions (all three for a pretty good amount). My (male) cousin just graduated last year and from what I could tell just by talking to him things weren't much different. My other (female) cousin who is a junior now says the same is going on. After seeing how girls pose in facebook pictures they put up without any second thought I don't think it's ridiculous to think they're very promiscuous these days.
No offense, but I think you're either naive or in denial.
I graduated in 1999. By the time I graduated I had sex, drank, smoked weed, yadda yah.
Typical stuff. I never said kids don't do this. I said these movies act like every single kid is this hardcore party person that gets drunk, does drugs, and *beep* around everyday. All these "wakeup call" movies are exactly the same.
If you remember Kids from 1994 it has a similar message "OMG kids these days, 13 and running around giving each other AIDS!" The whole thing is silly panic mode nonsense. There has always been and will always be extreme kids but it is not the norm. In Megan is Missing these like 13-14 year old girls are parting with men who look to be like 40. This is not typical.
It's no surprise kids do all sorts of things they're not supposed to, but the characterization of teens in this movie feels a bit caricaturish - and given that the movie's supposed to be a 'cautionary tale', it's almost like the director is saying, "ooh, look how bad teens are, somebody needs to set them straight", and is trying a little too hard to get that point across. Not to say that anything in particular that happens in the movie isn't plausible, but altogether it felt really forced. As a comparison, Larry Clark's Kids were into a lot of questionable *beep* but they were at least believable.
A lot of those kids reminded me of the ones I went to high school with, some not all. But it could be because of my area and how I viewed my peers as a bunch of Ken Park rejects.
"I'll go,because I am Cinema!" - Ben (Man Bites Dog)
At my school, only the trashy kids acted like this. I did hear rumors of popular kids smoking marijuana, drinking, and having sex but they didn't brag about it publicly and wear it as a badge of pride like the kids in this movie. Most popular kids at my school were too busy focusing on getting into the best, most expensive college and being the best athlete on their sports teams rather than drugs and sex (or at least that's how they acted at school; who knows what people do when they get home?). Only the people who looked like potential guests for the Jerry Springer Show acted like that publicly though.
I would love to say that they aren't, but this film really hit home for me. I'm 21 years old, so I would have been 14-15 when this movie is set. I wish I could say I wasn't like this but honestly, I kinda was when I was that age. I was an unpopular outcast in 6th grade, but had an older sister, with whom I occasionally experimented with drugs and alcohol with. Well, once people saw that side of me, I was the most popular girl at my school. People thought I was so badass for swearing, drinking, hanging out and hooking up with guys (THOUGH NEVER TO THAT EXTENT). I was even idolized at our "sister" middle school, and was well known for being popular and fun. Honestly, I hated myself during this period, but I loved the attention I got, so I got worse and worse. The boys I dreamed of dating when I was in 6th grade now considered me hot and the girls I envied (yet despised) now idolized me. I was obnoxious, rude, drank (even at school), did everything rebellious I could. When I entered high school I started hanging out with an older crowd, and finally felt that I could be myself and dropped that "popular party girl" faze. I continued partying but with true friends, who respected me, and appreciated the person I was. Unfortunately, some girls I know still haven't found themselves or the people that appreciate them, and are still like this. I try to hide this part of my life because I am insanely ashamed of the person I was then and the things that I did. I really hate that I was like that because if you knew me, you would HAVE NO IDEA I was ever like that. This film was really hard for me to watch, for so many reasons, but for me personally, the thing that hurt the most was knowing how these girls feel and why they act the way they do. At least from my experience, girls act like this at this age because they want to do everything they can to get attention from their peers, and to separate themselves from their parents morals. This becomes idolized by other teens, and especially by peers who have troubled family lives (as I did).
parents are to blame too. not paying attention to bullying or not handling it properly. thinking its just harmless when kids talk to random people online. its better to be alone than to have negative attention or popular friends who really hate you or want to use you or just think you look attractive so you are an accessory or something
Very well said. I also felt that I could relate to the girls in this movie. Sadly I was doing a lot of the same stupid crap when I was 14 - 17. But eventually I realized that that's not who I really was or wanted to be. So I dropped the facade. I like your post because you're being blatantly honest. Some of these people who are posting about how over acted this movie is seem to have grown up under a rock. They have no idea that yes, this IS how the majority of teenagers act around that age.
That sucks. I never did any drugs or drank or anything. I was fairly unpopular in middle school. If I did any of that stuff my momma would've whooped me for sure lol