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Heartbreaking scenes...


Which were your favorites?

"What difference does it make when one's heart is breaking?" - Carole Lombard [My Man Godfrey]

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Thought I'd bump this, as this was a very good, thoughtful thread.

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I got a lump in my throat during the scene where Gould leaves Big Edie. After he leaves, she stands in the foyer looking a little lost and then starts to make her way up the stairs. She doesn't make it to the top, instead she breaks down crying. It showed her in a dark light, as if she were lost in the shadows which I found interesting.

The scene where the Maysles are filming Big Edie in the bedroom, she is talking and Little Edie is sitting at the top of the stairs on her own in the dark.

The sight of the house before the raid. One poster mentioned the decaying piano which I thought was good. The sight of the car was also sad.

Another sad moment is that Little Edie really did impress Max Gordon without even trying, just by being herself. I started to think what if Edie had had Judy Holiday's career. What if she had beaten Bette Davis and Gloria Swanson for the oscar in 1951. Its sad because its believable. She definitely was damaged goods.

"What difference does it make when one's heart is breaking?" - Carole Lombard [My Man Godfrey]

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"Another sad moment is that Little Edie really did impress Max Gordon without even trying, just by being herself. I started to think what if Edie had had Judy Holiday's career. What if she had beaten Bette Davis and Gloria Swanson for the oscar in 1951. Its sad because its believable."

I also thought it was very sad that she never got to find out what would have happened had she attended the audition. She was a gorgeous woman, full of charm, and with an extraordinary personality. She very well could have been the movie star she dreamed of becoming, but instead had to wonder "What if?" for the rest of her life.

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yes, that was such a turning point. I kept wishing she had just come to New York on the day of the audition (not the day before) and then gone to see Krug afterwards, as he had planned. The thing with Krug would have run its course eventually, but if she had gone to the audition....who knows. Things might have been quite different.

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When she was at the junction looking at the road signs, my friend and I were shouting "Go to New York! Go! Go! Go!".

"What difference does it make when one's heart is breaking?" - Carole Lombard [My Man Godfrey]

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The scene where Little Edie is ripping and cutting out her hair while screaming and sobbing really got me.

Also, the scene where Little Edie surprises Julius at the hotel not knowing his wife was there and says to him "What we had was special." To which he dryly and flatly responds, "What we had.......was sex." The look on Drew's face really gets me. Utterly devastated and crushed.

The ending scene at the screening of the documentary when Little Edie is applauded by the crowd and tosses the flowers into the audience really gets me as well. She truly felt she had made it, she was finally a star.

Such a powerful, beautifully acted film. All I can say is....

"If this film doesn't get 90 awards....." !

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The whole movie was full of heartbreak but you couldn't help but admire the two women....okay, like the two women. I love eccentric personalities. Their lives were one great big heartbreak but, even at the end, they were upbeat and hopeful.

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"I also thought it was very sad that she never got to find out what would have happened had she attended the audition. She was a gorgeous woman, full of charm, and with an extraordinary personality. She very well could have been the movie star she dreamed of becoming, but instead had to wonder "What if?" for the rest of her life."

green laundry,
as much as i like little edie, i don't think she had any talent. she also claimed she could sing and dance, oh sure! the little we saw of her singing and dancing was atrocious.

i have to wonder if the max gordon thing was the same as her being engaged to joseph kennedy jr and j. paul getty jr. how would she have met all those people who were so incredibly attracted to her?
i think both ladies had incredible imaginations especially on cue for the cameras. they loved being filmed and i think they played it up with all they could muster. i honestly doubt there was any truth to their claims.

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When Gould leaves Big Edie; when she dances and sings Can't Help Lovin' That Man with him; and when, many years later, she describes him and her happiness singing with him in her wonderful house. Incredibly poignant. Breathtaking acting by Lange. Pretty good singing and dancing too.

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When she pulled out the wedding jewels that she had hidden away. That was such a beautiful mother/daughter moment. I had tears running down my face.

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There were so many; I just thought of another...

The movie's climax where Edie runs out of the house, angry and frustrated, and her mother feebly calls after her and then weeps.

Edie calms down, takes a seat, and little Whiskers comes meowing to her. I think she realized the symbolization when she said to him "You ran away, didn't you?" and then "She needs you."

The delivery of those lines to just a little kitty brought tears to my eyes. They both wanted to leave but came home because Mrs. Beale needed them.

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This is a fantastic thread...I have to say I'd never even heard of the Edies or their story before I saw Drew discussing this movie on a talk show; I got curious and watched it, and I can't seem to STOP watching it every time it's on any HBO channel, even though it sort of kills me every time. It's hauntingly disturbing, and really my heart ACHES for Little Edie so much I can hardly stand it at points. Which brings me to this quote in this thread...

That final shot with the quote that her mother gave her such a great life. And you want to just die. The mental illness was so genetically pervasive, yet also so learned, and also so done unto her. Oh gosh. Tragic.

HilaryElizabeth9, that's perfectly put.

And this...

I also thought it was very sad that she never got to find out what would have happened had she attended the audition. She was a gorgeous woman, full of charm, and with an extraordinary personality. She very well could have been the movie star she dreamed of becoming, but instead had to wonder "What if?" for the rest of her life.

Gordon was sooo completely taken with her, and when you think about how many young women were trying to impress him on a daily basis, for him to notice anyone like that really meant that Little Edie had the goods and had them in spades. I truly HATED that she didn't go to that audition!

I'm so terribly sad for Little Edie throughout the film that the end, when they tell us she did indeed leave Grey Gardens after Big Edie's death, and that she lived in New York, and Montreal, and California, and Florida before she died...it just truly moved me. And that she got to do her routine -- I don't care how good or bad the show actually was, just how happy she was doing it, and in front of an adoring audience to boot -- was, for me, a wonderful, wonderful ending.

I'm curious to watch the documentary...

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Grey Gardens is a good movie. There were quite a few moving and affecting scenes that were written into the script.

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There were three scenes that really got to me. Two were mentioned a few times on this thread and they were...

-when little edie runs in the house screaming and cutting off her hair and her mother comforting her.

-when everyone was applauding her after the premier of the movie and she throws the flowers to the audience.

But the last one that really touched me was when the filmmakers were finished and they're packing up and getting into their car. Little Edie is saying goodbye to them and, for some reason, I just started crying. I think it's because she finally got the attention she wanted so badly as an actress and dancer. She also finally has some contact with the outside world and there was a hint of childlike innocence and ambition when she tells them, "this film better win 90 awards!" When she says "goodbye al!" I just thought it was so childlike and sweet how close they've become throughout filming. It was just so touching; I'm even tearing up just thinking about it.

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I found something heartbreaking in the earnestness with which Little Edie, in one of the early documentary taping scenes, explained how she chose her layered outfit, with the skirt that could be removed.

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For some reason, I was really touched by the scene when Jackie O first arrives, not that scene itself, but when you see the two Edie's huddled over a little box of food, eating in silence - there was just something so upsetting and moving about it - these two women who had once had so much and such talent to give to the world - now old, on their own, cold, in squalour, huddled over a little box of what looked like take-out, eating in silence, that really got to me :(

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I've posted this on the website for The Beales of Grey Gardens...but for those who want to see a heartbreaking scene, I'm copying it here, too.

After seeing the new HBO film and revisiting the original documentary, I ordered The Beales of Grey Gardens from Netflix...and was blown away by the new footage with Edie's creative "revolutionary" costumes. When she sang a few bars of one of the most poignant songs ever written, "Spring Will Be a Little Late This Year," my eyes filled with tears. I'm wondering if she remained in love with that "married man" all her life. I think this song may be a nod to that long ago relationship. If you've never heard this WWII song, it's on You Tube. One particularly good version is by the popular singer of the early '50s, Joni James. Just haunting...just like Little Edie

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There was another scene that stuck in my head and remained stronger than the one I had written down all these months ago. The one where Little Edie finally comes home after that desperate crying and pleading from Big Edie on the phone. Just so happened that the cat had disappeared also and as Little Edie comes through the door after staying away and trying to make a life for herself, she was carrying the cat who had been wandering around outside. Big Edie ignores Little Edie's return to home and sheds love and affection on the cat instead. Grabs the cat and covers it with kisses and won't look Little Edie in the eye. Those kisses and all that love belonged to Little Edie and Mama gives it to that damned cat! Little Edie looks at her mother and simply just sadly walks away.

Boy, a lot of that love, all of that love, went unspoken. It was hurtful to watch.

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So many heartbreaking scenes, most of which have been posted, such as BE sitting all alone in that huge house after Gould leaves. You can't help but feel her loneliness, her emptiness, her total despair. It’s no wonder she gave all that love to the cats.

At one point BE is talking on the phone to a creditor looking for money and she asks "What would you do if you had a reversal of fortune?" Very telling, I thought. She knew what she had lost.

But when Big Edie is at home while Little Edie is at the premiere, the phone rings and it's a reporter asking if she has anything to say. Big Edie says "It's all in the movie." I don't know if this actually happened as so much of the HBO movie is artistic license, but BE had only seen the portion of the film that the Maysles had screened on their wall. And from what she saw, that's what she had to say. Imagine ... your entire life summed up in less than 2 hours.

On another note, so many of you have posted that you haven't seen the 1975 documentary. You have to see it. Then watch the HBO movie again. If you think you're addicted to the HBO GG, just wait till you have something to compare it to. Too bad there isn't a GG 12 Step Program.

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Don't remember the exact context, but the line "It's all in the movie" is a direct quote. Apparently Big Edie wanted to make the point that she was not going to die with anything left unsaid. I thought that the whole reconcilation between mother and daughter in this film was quite beautifully done--with Big Edie saying that she should at some point have encouraged her daughter to return to New York, and by implication, to go on with pursuing her own dreams, and Little Edie responding that she could have just left at any time. Just that momentary awareness that they truly had in a sense trapped themselves--pretty chilling!

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Just the premiere scene.
I'd seen both documentaries before watching the HBO movie & throughout the movie version was seeing Little Edie & Big Edie rather than Drew & Jessica (I didn't need to try hard either, superb performances both).
So at the Premiere, I was seeing the joy/pride/happiness on Little Edie's face finally realising her dreams. I really hope it happened exactly like that for her.

It broke me that scene. Not at all ashamed to admit it either.

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