So was Amanda Heard gang raped by blacks at the bar?

she has a black gangbang - jaelyn fox style

Guess getting drunk and stripping is an effort to show off ones intellect and not a cry to be taken advantage of. Rapes happen every year at Mardi Gras. Is it deserved? No, but that's the position they put themselves in. What do you think is going to happen when testosterone fueled males get wasted, start using their little head more than the big one and everyone begins to lose inhibitions? The frontal cortex where decision making is made doesn't fully mature until 25, so dumb, young, drunk, horny people make bad decisions naturally.

My sister or mom would have more sense than to go to what is basically a foreign country where they are already a target and act like that making themselves more of a target.

I'm not sick or twisted or even heartless, just a realist and def not what is wrong with society. Stupid people doing stupid things are. My mother has been raped. My cousin has been raped. My good friend has been raped. I've even been raped. I've helped countless rape victims and domestically abused women and been an advocate for many as well. So I'll stay up on my high horse.

The victim role of some young girls gets old quickly when they put themselves in those situations. Like a girl told me once "I drank a lot, then went into his room, we were making out, then he took off my shirt, laid me down and that's the last thing I remember, I didn't expect it to go any farther than that, I think he raped me." Umm...really? Where did you think it would go after all that with no resistance? You think some drunk frat guy is going to stop by reading your mind, you'll be lucky if he even notices you passed out. People wanting to blame everyone else since they aren't responsible enough for themselves is what is wrong with society. Some of these girls in a college town out late on a Friday night having fun, thinking they're invincible and think they are fine just because they have a DD or didn't drink much. Yeah, that sounds like a good plan until you come into my ICU and I'm having to do CPR on you then tell your family we're hoping you make it. Was the night still fun for you? You may be able to drive fine, but the drunk idiot running the redlight coming right at you doesn't care. If you have no reason to be out that late other than partying, why do it and increase your odds of something bad happening? Happens every weekend, somebody is hit by a drunk driver and another girl is raped and 90% or more of the time it could have all been avoided with some common sense and if they weren't where they had no business being.

Just like cheating, don't put yourself in a position where you might cheat on your spouse if you don't want it to happen. Simple as that. The easiest way to not get raped is to not put yourself in a position to be raped. She did. This is the real world with real sickos and predators everywhere, just google sexual predators and see how many there are and how close they are, this isn't some utopian world society where everything is flowers and rainbows and you can do whatever you want with no consequences. Are those consequences right or wrong? Who cares, they are still going to happen and they are still traumatic. People are dangerous. Maybe "she deserved it" was a bit strong to say, but she def didn't do herself any favors at preventing it which could eliminate the majority of rape cases. Nobody is more responsible for you and protecting you, than you. You wouldn't walk into a prison and start yelling racial slurs and expect nothing to happen just because you "never deserve physical harm." In a perfect world maybe. But this is the real world and if you do something so stupid, things will happen.

You can say all day that "they should know better" or "know not to take advantage of you after you're wasted" or "they should know it's just wrong after I've thrown myself all over them and given them every other signal" but who the heck knows what they know or how they were raised or what mental state they are in? Why should they know better? Because you say so? Because it fits into our society? It's already been established our society can be pretty sickening, just watch the news any night of the week, and in her case, she wasn't even really in a 1st world location so that's even more presumptuous. Because you assume everyone has a perfect life with perfect mental health and social interaction and should be incapable of making a bad decision? Impossible. So why give everyone the benefit of the doubt and allow yourself the chance at being a victim?

I'll just stop now since apparently not thinking the world is full of love and peace is crazy and I'm sick because of it. I mean, I've only been there and lived it and all..