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How old were you when you first saw this film?



I was 13. Though I was quite a young 13 (child-like, whereas other girls in my school were more teenagery), I was immediately captured and mystified. I began to keep a diary and made it look '70s', decorating it with old pictures and cigarette cards, and filling it with all kinds of embarrassing 'why are we all here?' crap.

Anyway – the first viewing of this film marks a time where I became more interested in film, pop culture and general growing up (the theme of suicide was not my personal main focus), and now as an adult I'm wondering if anyone had a similar 'growing up' experience, with this or any other movie? I doubt it would have had the same impact on me if I’d first watched it at 22 instead. Sometimes it's as if with films, books and even songs, the age you are when you encounter them means just as much as the sentiment within the thing itself.


I hope this post is more coherant than I feel right now.

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When I was 16, I'm 19 now and just finished the book a few days ago.

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13 or 14.
I don't mean to impose, but I am the Ocean.

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It came out when I was 14 but never watched it until I was 23.

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Well, I watched it when I was 15 and it was a difficult time for me. My parents were going through a divorce and I, like any typical teenager was questioning what my purpose in life was and going through an ennui of sorts. This movie seemed to be made for me, and I loved every single thing about it. Somehow, after watching it I didn't feel so hopeless. I can imagine that if I watched it at an older age,
I would dismiss it as just another wonderful movie. It wouldn't have made as great an impact. Your absolutely right about that.

Obviously Doctor, you've never been a thirteen year old girl.

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I was nineteen or thereabouts, having read the book a few months earlier. At thirteen I'd have found it quite difficult to understand the film properly (not that it's a film that can ever be 'understood' in the traditional sense).

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21.
What a great movie.

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6 or 7



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I was 24 (saw it today). It reminded me of my childhood and it made me to think what made me become of how I am today. It is painful experience for me.

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