All my friends agree, he was out of his wife's league!
Kevin Costner was sort of the matthew mcconaughey of his day. Your mid-western style of good looks. He was a "star". His wife in this? Amy Madigan? Forever known as "Buck's girl" as in John Candy's movie "Uncle Buck."
I have no problem with her being five years his senior, as Kevin (who was 33 when shot) could pass as late 30s.
I do have a problem believing that he would have chosen her out of a plethora of sexy chics who's head he would have turned.