being bedridden
The movie came out in 1971. Filmed in 1970, so we'll use that for our math.
Jack Albertson, aka Grandpa Joe, was born in 1907. Meaning he was 63 at time of filming. And the movie states they've been bed-ridden for 20 years. So he's been bed-ridden since approximately age 43. Assuming all the grandparents are of similar ages, how do four people, who happen to share a grandkid, all end up bed-ridden at that age?