Well, I have been told all my life that I am beautiful, gorgeous, hot, a "10", etc. I modeled for a while from about 1989-1993 and hated it. I also danced for a while. When I was in my late teens, twenties, I only went after and wanted really good looking men. The amount of money they had was never important to me and never has been. I'm as far from a gold digger as one can get and I want to beat the crap out of women and men who are. Anyway, I worked out all the time so I went for the men that did the same, toned body, gorgeous face. I married my then best friend who looked exactly like Tom Cruise. But, my feelings for him never really went past the friend zone and we eventually divorced. We're still good friends to this day. I noticed my attraction to men changed and yes, I still dated plenty of lookers, but I also found myself dating men who were more on the average side and plenty of Dad bods π My hubby is 6'5", balding and weighs about 250 (I am 5"6 and weigh 120) and to me, he is the sexiest man EVER. He is a wonderful husband, an amazing father, incredibly smart, funny and I just love being around him. What attracted me to him was his shyness, vulnerability and then as I got to know him, his personality.
So, for me at least, the shallowness left as I matured. I think it does for most people. Most, not all.
Sorry for the novel, lol. I just wanted to make sure I answered your question as much as possible π
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OnanTheBarbarian (12589)
a year ago
Oh, I love hearing some background.
But I do have one question: We're you a pole dancer? π€£
However, how many times do you see a short fat bald guy with a gorgeous woman? Actually quite often. And the guy always has money.
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StinkyPoopyPants (3156)
a year ago
I was a "stripper" yes. Many of them like to be called dancers so that's why I used quotes. I worked in a very popular club and did private parties as well.
"However, how many times do you see a short fat bald guy with a gorgeous woman? Actually quite often. And the guy always has money."
Sadly too much. But, you know what they say, ignorance is bliss.
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OnanTheBarbarian (12589)
a year ago
My sister was a Playboy model in the 90's. It was just a part time job for her. She worked for an engineering firm and that's how she was "discovered", her boss had connections.
But yeah, the older I get the less I care about looks and more I look for substance.
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