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Was I in the wrong in this situation?


Before Christmas, I texted a coworker a funny yet crude Christmas picture, she doesn’t like and tells the boss. He pulls me aside for it one day, saying he’d fire me if I did something like that again. I didn’t know sending the pic would’ve gotten me into trouble.

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Yes, it was inappropriate.

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Yeah, but could this have not been handled better than going to the boss and potentially getting the guy fired to start off the New Year??

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Not saying she’s right, but he gave her the ammunition. If he hadn’t have sent it, she wouldn’t have had anything to moan about.

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https://youtu.be/GM-e46xdcUo?si=HbBFsTOTegQCI7rH

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I’m not trolling nor am I bot

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Of course not.

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You say that like it's a bad thing.

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Bleeeeeping hell!

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I tried the link but it said I had to follow a bunch of sign-in prompts to prove I wasn’t a bot. And, I’m not kidding about this

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Wait are you asking me this?

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Gotta know your audience. You can text funny, crude pictures to friends you know will appreciate that humour. But to someone you describe as a 'coworker' rather than a friend, or just generally in a work context, it's never wise.

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I receive dozens of jokes everyday from all over the world on WhatsApp, but I still vet them before sending them to my friends

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Yeah. Gotta know your audience.

I was in a shop about six months ago, and there was a woman giving another woman hell's abuse for being Polish. Me and a couple of other customers swung our heads around to look disapprovingly at it -- and the Polish woman just said 'It's fine. She's my best mate. We always talk to each other this way. It's just jokes. It's hilarious.'

And we all went 'Oh, thank god for that. You do you.'

You gotta know what's going to go down OK with people and what isn't. It's all about context.

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There’s a group of guys that I meet in the pub on Fridays and we call each other every word under the sun, but I’ve got other mates that I wouldn’t dream of using such language in front of.

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"hell's abuse"

I never heard this expression before - where does one say this?

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Well, I'm British. So it's possible that people say it here. I may have heard it somewhere? But, to be perfectly honest, I don't think I've ever used the expression before. I think I meant to write 'dog's abuse' and just had a brain fart.

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I JUST SPENT 20 MINUTES GOOGLING WHATSAPP...I LEARNED SOMETHING...THANKS.

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For me, it’s amazing. I can send texts, videos, Gifs, whatever and phone people internationally for free.

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It was a gay Rudolph meme picture.

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Not controversial at all then 🙄

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“My philosophy is basically this.
And this is something that I live by.
And I always have. And I always will.
Don't ever, for any reason, do anything to anyone, for any reason, ever, no matter what. No matter where or who, or who you are with, or where you are going or where you've been, ever.
For any reason, whatsoever.”
— Michael Scott


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Yes it can be construed as sexual harassment.

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https://youtu.be/GM-e46xdcUo?si=HbBFsTOTegQCI7rH

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Riker is so smug.

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Nevertheless….

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You know who's Riker, right?

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Absolutely! And the OP never happened, right?

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Need a description of the picture to know if it was an overreaction. Did the boss say he saw the picture or does he simply take the word of the complainant?

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https://media.discordapp.net/attachments/781330901765324853/1321359500082417735/IMG_8794.png?ex=6778282e&is=6776d6ae&hm=245d1faedc26352f49f91b2efdff873a0b120f6d39d8b590cb98848f1dc0e580&;

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LMAO...SHE DID THE RIGHT THING...YOU ARE A THREAT.🤣

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I'm afraid to click on the link. What is it? Are there boobies?

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SEXUALIZED RUDOLPH WITH AN APPLE ASS.

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Any wieners?

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NEGATIVE

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Just a hiney made out of an apple?

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RUDOLPH LOOKING READY FOR ACTION...WITH A FAT ASS...AND A CAPTION ABOUT RIDING ON SANTA'S FACE🤣

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Oh. Yeah. That's a No-No.

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It’s inappropriate for the workplace but it’s a cartoon illustration that you can open it without fear about anything visually explicit.

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Thanks ♥️

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https://youtu.be/GM-e46xdcUo?si=HbBFsTOTegQCI7rH

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I eventually got up my nerve and clicked on it. I'm just a bit leery of links.

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Santa: "Rudolph with that ass so tight, won't you ride my face tonight?"

I never heard of such an act but I suppose there are fecal fetishes...

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I thought it was funny 😓

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Was the gal at work someone with whom you have a relationship that would somehow provide context? It’s not exactly comedy gold to justify cold-texting this to a lady coworker. She probably should’ve handled it without the tattle to the boss but you got off with a warning so it seems like the punishment fit the crime.

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My brother sent the image to me. I then sent it to a few other coworkers via text because I thought it funny. I had no idea I was gonna get in trouble for it.

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how old are you? ballpark

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Take a guess: -
https://moviechat.org/general/General-Discussion/6775b2cf0b50f90a6ca54d1c/Im-only-24

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thanks.
jeeez, I had better business acumen at 16...

these kids these days.... ami right???

I still blame shitty parents for all these types

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I sense sockery!

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it's not me

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EVERYONE IS FAIRLY CERTAIN YOU KNOW MORE ABOUT BEING 16 THAN YOU ARE LETTING ON.

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I’m 24

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https://youtu.be/GM-e46xdcUo?si=HbBFsTOTegQCI7rH

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If Frakes says this thread is fake, that’s good enough for me.

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😉

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