the last time i fooled around with a man i didnt feel anything, but i wasnt really into the man either. weird..........is all sex pleasurable or is it just with certain people.
shareFor me (as a man), I've never not enjoyed it at least a little, but there are definitely varying degrees of enjoyment from meh to earth shaking. The person matters, for sure. I tend to regret the meh ones, though.
shareI think person matters a lot. There is probably nothing wrong with you it's just that you were not attracted to that person. (In case it is not obvious from the username, I am a guy)
then don't do it... end of story
shareMaybe you need a new partner.
shareMaybe you've just become immune. I hear that often happens with people who masturbate often. They no longer find pleasure in it.
shareTry to figure out what really turns you on. The problem with people today is they just "do it" without really knowing what it is they really find enjoyable.
Also, porn has ruined sex for a lot of people. They try to have sex like they do in porn, but porn isn't really sex the way people do and enjoy it. It's just a lot of theatrics and bullshit, but no kink or eroticism. Sex is supposed to be erotic (lots of playfulness, kink, teasing, leaving lots to the imagination, buildup). So maybe try to find some romantic softcore or something to kind of show you the more sensual side of sex--you know, stuff that's erotic. Maybe some Zalman King, like Delta of Venus or Lie with Me. And then try to find a guy who's erotic. If you can't find one, then teach him how to be erotic like the characters in those types of movies. Maybe watch a softcore film with him before you do it.