Wow, I was about to say the exact same thing (though probably not as good)
Thanks!
The issue they were going for is that being good is about getting actual good results - i.e people who only think they are being nice and good aren't really good people unless they actually make other people feel good.
Exactly. A lot of people think that happy thoughts and "doing something" nice without finding out what makes the other person happy first or examining your own motives is "good." But "nice" and "good" are not the same thing.
I thought the season was nicely paced out in that they Showed us Chidi's indecisiveness and how he hadn't actually done anything really good in life through the season before they finally spelled it out with the fake wedding flashback. They even kept that fairly subtle in that his friend was exasperated with him, but was still devastated by his death. Being Good isn't about how many friends you have who care about you, either. That's just treating your friends like stuff you can't take with you.
And then we got the real payoff with Eleanor's parents backstory and the day of her death. Eleanor was an Eleanor Rigby (from the Beatles song). She was a lonely woman who was parentified as a child and learned early on that if you are good to people and take care of them, they will walk all over you. So, of course she was allergic to the Cult of Nice. What did "nice" people ever do for her? It didn't excuse her own actions, but it hardly let the "nice" people around her off the hook, either.
I've seen people comment on here that the show makes it really hard to get into Heaven and that medieval Christian Church writings taught this. But if you look at various religions around the world, you do really have to work at it to gain Paradise, whatever you believe. Even people who don't believe in a personal god, or even any kind of deity or afterlife, believe that improving your life here and now
is really hard to do.I don't think the (original) intent behind that universal belief is to bully other people into thinking like you (though some sure have subverted it to that) or to say that People Suck. I think it's based on the fact that any smart person recognizes that the ultimate moral rule is to leave the world a better place than you found it. And that's actually not very easy to do.
We are imperfect creatures, full of temptation to make it all about ourselves. So, thinking about others--humans, animals, plants, nature in general--and then figuring out how to do things that genuinely fix the problems around us, that make the world happier and better rather than wheel-spinning that makes *us* feel better, is not very easy at all. And, probably, most people do fail at it.
Doesn't mean we shouldn't try, but it does make the scenario of the show, and the people in it, more realistic.
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