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OT - What are your non-political unpopular opinions?


I saw someone post this on Facebook, and thought it might be a fun idea. What are some of your opinions that tend to go against the general consensus or what most people you know feel about something or someone? Remember, please keep it civil and keep political opinions out as much as you can. Just prepare to read some things you may not like.

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01. Emma Watson is a bad actress. I like her as a person (as much as I know about her anyway) but her acting is overdone and cringe-worthy at times. She was absolutely miscast as Belle in the upcoming Beauty and the Beast remake.

02. Ryan Gosling is overrated. I was never googley-eyed over him at all.

03. Santa Claus is a ridiculous concept. I never believed in him as a child and I don't see how going to great lengths to trick kids into believing in him is beneficial to them in any way.

04. I hate cats.

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oh i love when we have these on 4chan

1) friends are more important than romance. A lot of people like to claim this to be true but their actions always betray them. and its okay if they disagree its not something i feel snooty about or look down on others for, romance is pretty *beep* great. I just notice most peoples friendships (most peoples) outlast their relationships, yet we tend to push them aside to give priority to our romantic partners. always bugs me. but i am of course biased cuz i am generally a single man who just likes to hang with his buds.

2) thanksgiving is way better than christmas.

3) we should teach our kids to dress as something spooky on halloween, not heroes and princesses. i just like the tradition.

4) Christians and other religious people are just fine. This opinion is obviously only unpopular with atheists, but i have had so many atheists friends just blatantly talk down about anyone with any sort of faith and it enrages me. i had one in particular who believed himself to be the super intelligent atheist guy, but his job was being a waiter at buffalo wild wings. love the guy to death but the ego people develop around their atheism really upsets me.

5) something political.


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"Christians and other religious people are just fine. This opinion is obviously only unpopular with atheists, but i have had so many atheists friends just blatantly talk down about anyone with any sort of faith and it enrages me. i had one in particular who believed himself to be the super intelligent atheist guy, but his job was being a waiter at buffalo wild wings. love the guy to death but the ego people develop around their atheism really upsets me."

I actually have found just the opposite. They actually did a social experiment with religious people and kids vs. non religious people, it seems to be the non religious ones are actually kinder and more giving.

I would rather be an atheist instead of a religious person who picks random parts of the bible to support and ignore the rest and be hateful and unaccepting.

This is coming from someone surrounded by know it all religious people who tell me all the time I am bad or going to hell because I don't believe what they do, yea real nice people.

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those people are bad people.

but when someoen who is an atheists touts that anyone with any form of faith is dumb thats pretty bad too.

im not saying to pick a side. im not saying you can only have atheists or only have christians. just that there's nothing wrong with being religious in and of itself.

if someone who was religious was telling you that you are lesser / worse / going to hell because of their beliefs than they are not better than the atheists who say the same thing to religious people.



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Jennifer Lawrence is overrated. I don't think she's a bad actress, but I think she's overrated.

Like how a single word
Can make a heart open.
This is my fight song.

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1. Taylor Swift is obnoxious and I find her unbearably annoying.

2. Tom Hiddleston is not attractive and will never be attractive. He's 35 going on 60.

3. Cake is so much better than pie. The two shouldn't even be mentioned in the same sentence unless pie is being insulted in said sentence.

4. Red lipstick doesn't work for everyone.


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I agree with all of your points, esp, Swift. She gets on my nerves.

Like how a single word
Can make a heart open.
This is my fight song.

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im torn between cake and pie. until recently i would have readily agreed that pie is far superior, but ive been on a weird cake kick recently.

its like asking me to choose between my kids (who i happened to name cake and pie).




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Cake will ALWAYS win. If you told me I could never have pie again I'd shrug but if I was told I could never have cake again...things would get ugly...and then I'd go eat cake because I do what I want.

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01. I don't get Snapchat or Instagram. I don't have time for these. Facebook is already distracting enough.
02. New Year New Me. Ugh.
03. I don't get people who make their houses look like magazine catalogs.
04. I don't get getting engaged, married and having kids at a specific time feeling like you're ticking out stuff on a list and then looking down on people that have their priorities set a different way.
05. I think the latest bouts of superhero movies have all been kind of sucky and overrated. Stop trying to make me hyped for stuff before it premiers and instead just produce quality movies!
06. French Macaroons are overpriced pieces of versatile colored fluff.
07. So are cupcakes. Most of them taste like cardboard anyway.
08. Stop trying to make cake into art when it's clear that it won't taste good. That is what cake is for! Stop trying to make everything about how good it looks on your social media when it's shabby in real life.
09. Pancakes are overrated. Waffles are superior to pancakes.
(I have a lot of opinions about food)
10. People who are native English (especially those who only speak one language) speakers making fun of people who speak English with an accent. This I do not and will never get. That accent means that they are already more versatile when it comes to languages than you.

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>cupcakes are bad

ill wreck you m8 i swear to my mum


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YES to waffles > pancakes! All waffles all the time!

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waffles are better but honestly if neither of them even has chocolate chips or something added then what are we even doing debating this?


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Agreed I'm obsessed with Belgian waffles. Far superior to pancakes.

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Pancakes get soggy like instantly. No bueno. Plus waffles have pockets that perfectly catch syrup and butter.

...And now I'm hungry.

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for the finale we should have a waffle party.

i make mine with raspberry sauce.


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Would that make it a red velvet waffle?

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i just wrote a really long post about an unpopular opinion i have but ihonestly am not sure i can post it without upsetting people cuz im not sure i can explain it right.

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You should give it a shot.

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I find diversity in media to be overrated, and in some cases ruining what could be amazing shows / movies. please hear me out.

i love boys club type films, but it feels like there's rarely any boys clubs becuase they have to shoehorn in at least one woman. i LOVE black widow. but it would be really fun to see an avengers thats just dudes hanging out and kicking ass. and it just feels like i rarely ever see anything thats just a bunch of dudes hanging out.

there is something about pure masculinity that is really fun to watch.

but i feel the EXACT same way about girl power. PLL was ruined by boys (and the writers, sure, but also boys). a tale of 4 girls rediscovering their friendship and taking down an anonymous internet cyber stalker is amazing.but when they spend more time with thier boyfriends than with each other it makes me sad. the show was 90% scenes of them with their boyfriends and 8% with other people and 2% with each other at one point. there were entire episodes where the girls only saw each other in hannah's kitchen in the morning and spencers bedroom at the end of the episode... and that'd be it.

Pitch perfect is an amazing example of pure feminimity. It's all about girls struggling to beat the boys and learning and growing from each other. the romance exists but is underpalyed and by the time the sequel came out the main romance was entirely irrelevant.


as far as racial diversity goes, id appreciate a little more purity as well where its relevant. I honestly dont think I've ever seen a show that was all asians that wasn't produced in asia.

most TV shows starring almost exclusively black people tend to be family oriented when there is clear potential outside of that. OITNB for example. Taystee and her crew held down season 2 single handedly and left me begging for more. With piper rumored to be leaving i really wish they'd just make it the taystee show and just let everyone else orbit her and her posse's team

in a show like 'how to get away with murder' the diversity is organic, natural, beautiful. but when other shows create a predominantly white cast and then tack on a minority, or balance it out so its every single minority, it tends to fall flat. OITNB also comes to mind as a show that (while i think it wuold be more powerful focusing on taystee and her friends) manages to handle diversity really well.

organic diversity is a great thing and its lead to amazing dynamics like in 'new girl' and 'misfits' and 'how i met your mother'. but when its become necessary to make every single piece diverse, it gets in the way of some really great story telling.

the worst scenario is when they tack on an extra character just to add in a minority or female. if you isnist on diversity, than just cast an existing role as a minority or change him to a female, that way its real and organic.

i had a friend who had an amazing story, one that starred almost exclusively african americans, but she tacked on a skinny white female... as the main character. and it didn't need to be. it wasn't even desuburbanization.

TL;DR i love diverse programming, but dont think that every show should be forcing bad diversity into the programs individually.

i really hope i explained this right.




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I get what you're saying. Diversity in Hollywood really isn't diversity. It all seems disingenuous. I personally believe it's that way because the people who still write, produce, direct, and have the power and control are all or mostly straight white males and they only add a woman, or a black person or two in their productions to meet a quota so they won't be considered sexist or racist.

That's my own opinion. Until the people behind the scenes become more inclusive, then all the stuff they put out while seem fake.

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i dont disagree, but i know it snot entirely true.

definitely true on the white side i can gurantee that, and definitely on the male side, but there is a large large large large number of gays in producer/writer/director (though less in director) roles than you'd think. probably why gays are being shoe horned into everything these days as well.

but yeah, diversity is being used as a quota and it gets old fast.
How To Get Away with Murder is a great example of organic diversity as is OITNB.

but then you get shows like scrubs that reduces its characters to their race within the first five seconds of meeting them. Turk becoems a much more balanced character as the series progresses but in the pilot the literal first conversation hes shown having is him saying 'be whiter!' and then commenting on whether or not soemone can say *beep*


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Oh I agree, I know there are a lot more gays in Hollywood now then there's ever been but they still are white and male. And they can only seem to write from that perspective when they do have characters of color on the show.


How To Get Away works so well with 'diversity' because they have Shonda Rimes as a major producer behind the scenes and other people of color. She knows how to write from people of color as human beings and not just reduced down to the color of their skin, with awful stereotypical gimmicks, for lack of a better word.

Ryan Murphy is a good example of a powerful gay man in Hollywood who can't write women well or people of color well...as evident by his many shows. He also has issues with continuity but that's a story for another time.

I have mixed feelings about OITNB so I will leave that alone.

I really don't like the word diversity anyway. It gets thrown around too much and what we're seeing in Hollywood is not really diverse at all. In front the camera or behind it. A prime example of this is Matt Damon, whom doesn't seem to understand that having diversity behind the camera is just as important, if not more important than having it in front the camera. But that also lends me to asking is having a majority white cast, with one black person and two asian people diverse? Is that really diversity or is that quota filling.

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my friend and I are working on a bit of an experiment where were writing a web series without any thought to race. just the typical people in their typical problems, majority male, female love interests.

then what we want to do is hold an open casting call with every race and gender ( especially trans ) are able to come in and audition for each role, and see how that goes. i like the idea of seeing characters deal with the kidn of regular problems a writer would come up with before thining of race or sexuality or anything like that. especially for Trans cuz i feel like all their limited plots have been about being trans.

and if two females or two dudes or trans people get cast into the roles that were coupling up in the show, then that would effect their orientations as they play out.


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I hope you and your friend are successful. I think this is the type of process it should be. Staying true to the characters that are created and whoever auditions for them will be suited, no matter, race, sexuality, or gender.

I think that's a very organic and fluid way of creating.

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it'll be fun to say the elast, and its gotten into my mind that im considering it before casting in other mediums.

theres one show im working on about super heroes, and i had this established dynamic of two dudes and a chick and now im like 'maybe the chicks a dude and the other dudes a homo'. well see how it pans out.

i can understand why people have certain ideas in mind as far as gender go, but there is a LOT that could be flipped around. i mean just switching one of the liars to a dude wouldn't be so fun imo, or just taking a boys club kinda movie and adding a girl bums me out, but there are a LOT of instances where switching a gender would be great.

kinda like in the recent film arrival. the role was so neutral that a man or a woman could have handled the role and it makes me curious how it would look if it was switched around.


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01) Athletes get paid WAY TOO MUCH MONEY and are hero worshipped to a sickening level. Also all of their games are boring and take up valuable TV space.

02) Not exactly an opinion but definitely not a choice the majority makes: I am 100% childfree (I'm never having kids) and I don't get why people care so much. When I say this people act like I just announced plans to drown puppies.

03) I hate Chinese food. Gag.

04) Seinfeld isn't funny.

05) A beach vacation is my idea of a nightmare.

06) Dear Beyonce. Please stop. Love Me.

07) I love the movie Batman and Robin, the one with George Clooney.

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chinese food is awesome and you should feel ashamed.

I totally udnerstand what you mean by kids. whats worse is when people say you are selfish for not wanting kids. like what? selfish for not bringing imaginary people that dont exist into this world? they act like there's some line of souls in a waiting room somewhere who are being cheated out of life, it so stupid.

i didnt like batman and robin, it was watchable. that being said i LOVE batman forever. Robin was a childhood crush of mine (no homo tho). when he kissed poison ivy i was super jelly.


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I can't even stand the smell of it. My poor husband, he loves it so much and he knows he can never take me out for it.

>Selfish. YUP. I am SO selfish. I've heard that like hundreds of times. I still can't figure out wtf they're even talking about.

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you too? im gay and i even get it, like all *beep* need to want kids now.

is there some secret were missing out on? like was there a whole course on how humanity is secretly dying and we need more children to fight the oncoming aliens and you and I just happened to be sick that day or something?

i could understand why abandoning your existing children is selfish, but to just not want kids? makes me want to punch people so hard.


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I decided when I was 16. That's when I first heard it. "Oh you're just in a selfish teenager mindset. You'll change your mind."

Yeeeeeeeeah. I'm almost 27. And still a selfish teenager I guess. I'm "Selfish" because I'd rather try to take good care of myself in this life than fail at being a parent. Because I guarantee you I'd be a terrible one.

But I should totes risk it because a child deserves to be born even if it's unwanted! ...Thats basically what I hear when someone calls me selfish.

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people are so messed up. i personally think id make an awesome father, but i still dont want to have kids and thats okay. you don't need to make any excuses, no one should have to.

whether you'd be good at it or not the choice should be yours for whatever reason you want.

im very happy remaining an uncle.


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I totally agree that I don't need any excuses. And usually I don't give them. Most of time time the convo goes something like this.

Person: Do you/when are you going to have kids?
Me: I'm not.
Person: Oh just like not yet?
Me: No. Never.
Person: *Appalled* But why?!
Me: I don't want to.
*Blah blah blah other stupid things are said*

But I mean I'm self aware enough to know that beneath all the "I just don't want to" is a terrible parent. Hahaha. Especially because I hate being an aunt (or being around children in general TBH). My niece is so annoying that I left my family Christmas earlier than I planned because she was driving me up the wall.

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i love being an uncle and have taken care of kids for long stretches of time and enjoy it, its frustrating, but enjoy it.

but i would be a terrible parent in the sense that i wouldnt want to be a parent. even with the kid there id just be like 'im either spending too much time with you or not enough, and i still want to go do other stuff'.




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01) Athletes get paid WAY TOO MUCH MONEY and are hero worshipped to a sickening level. Also all of their games are boring and take up valuable TV space.

I train sports on an international competitive level and I agree with this. Especially football (soccer for those of you who live in the US).

02) Not exactly an opinion but definitely not a choice the majority makes: I am 100% childfree (I'm never having kids) and I don't get why people care so much. When I say this people act like I just announced plans to drown puppies.

Again. I might decide to have kids somewhere down the line (I'm 25 now) so this might not be how I will choose to live my life, but thank you, thank you, thank you! I hate the whole obnoxious children-mania and the overwhelming mommysplaining everywhere around me. When people say stuff like "You don't know love until you're a mommy" like really? So the love I feel for my partner, my family, my friends is all just a facade? And if I never have kids will I never have known true love? Please. In my opinion if you need to make "having kids" as the only thing that defines you and belittle everybody that doesn't have them, or wish to have them (or act like they want to drown puppies) then you're probably not really confident in your life choices.

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this happens so much. dont get me wrong a childs love is special but most of the people IVE heard talk that way were girls who got pregnant in highschool and then decided that being a mom is the most important thing in the world.

and just for any moms who might read this i love you and its great that you have kids and all that, this isn't anti kid, and the bond IS special, but everyone else does feel love too.

that seems to be a pattern though. ive had similar experiences over me rarely ever wanting to date, people act like its a sin to be single or individual and you're missing out cuz their love is so perfect.

lvoe is love, even platonic love, if were all doing what we want, whether its romance, or having kids or just hanging with buds.


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I also find the whole "Oh, you're single. Don't worry, you'll find someone." thing to be horrible. So, without a SO you're just a sad empty person? And usually when I bring this up people take it as a sign that I'm not happy with my SO which is so not the point of this statement. Yes, I love my SO but my life would not be some sort of abysmal, pointless black hole without them. I am quite happy with myself and other relationships (friends, family, teammates, etc.) that I'm in and I would not be some hopeless, lost soul without having someone to come home to in the evening. Married with kids is not a goal that everybody should have. Life is not some sort of a 100% survey where you try to tick off as many things as possible to get a high grade in the form of a life satisfaction. Life is what you make of it yourself and you should never let anyone else tell you that something fundamental is missing from your life just because they wouldn't live the same way.
The "life is a test" way of thinking can also be quite harmful because you might tick all of the typical things off the list: house (x), marriage (x), 1.9 kids (x), and then you're still missing something because these things don't automatically bring you happiness. I have known many a person that have made this error and had to re-evaluate their life because of it.

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>you'll find someone

is definitely annoying and insulting but not as bad as people who insist you're wrong for being single. some people just don't understand i suppose. My mother's always like 'you'll find someone' and im always like 'nah im good...' 'no, dont worry, you'll find someone'



people definitely fall into that checklist trap though. i have one friend who is depressed and he refuses to take advice from our other friend because 'what do you know, you're already married'.

he acts like its a race and that being married cures the problems and *beep* pretty dumb.


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I hate Seinfeld lol. It's just not funny and after hearing it be hyped up so much I expected something much better.

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1. Taylor Swift is an over-rated, oblivious to her own privilege, conniving, non-singing artist, that I wish would stay away forever.

2. Selfies are stupid.

3. Cats are spawns of the devil.

4. I never got the hype about the following actors: Jake Gyllenhaal, Tobey McGuire, Brie Larson, Amy Adams, and so forth and so on.

5. Friends wasn't that funny. I mean it had its moments but not pay the cast one million dollars per episode funny.

6. Big Bang Theory as well...Two Broke Girls can be added to the list.

7. Gilmore Girls is over-hyped. I prefer the Creek.

8. Miley Cyrus can sing.

9. Christmas is so commercialized, I don't look forward to it any longer.

10. Shay Mitchel isn't that bad of an actress.

11. The New England Patriots, Pittsburgh Steelers, Dallas Cowboys, and Alabama are all over-hyped football teams.

12. Twilight was a decent movie series.

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7. Gilmore Girls is over-hyped.


I have to agree with this. I'd seen random episodes of the show because my sister watched it but never saw it all the way through. Last year I started it and got to season 3 or 4 and stopped because I kept waiting for it to blow me away and it never did. Plus the opinions I did have on the show seemed to be the "Wrong" was according to the majority haha.

12. Twilight was a decent movie series.


I actually agree. I like the books too. I mean they are total garbage, don't get me wrong, but they're good fluff, I need a mindless read, kind of story. But the movies actually cut down a lot of the things that made the books so hard to get through and make it a much more fun series.

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I never could get into Gilmore Girls and I didn't get the hype then or the hype for the reboot. From what I heard the reboot was trash so.


The books were okay until that last book. I literally threw it when I was done. I was working at a camp one summer for the NSA and all the kids had their heads buried into this book. So I snatched one up and began to read it and I saw why they were so invested but talk about a disappointment in the end.

Very rarely is a film better than the book its based off but the last Twilight film was loads better than that last book.

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i agree with the sitcoms. i loved 2 broke girls when it started by they flanderized Max really fast.

instead of being a quirkly but hard edged girl from a troubled life shes just a whacky cartoon. Also, she looked wayyyyy better before she lost the weight.

and all Caroline does is get *beep* on. many times literally. they just find a way for something unfortunate to happen to her specifically and while i do find her irritating i dont see why punishing her is going to amke it any better.

agreed on christmas. honestly if it was just thanksgiving with green and red colors id be super fine with that. dont get me wrong i love presents but tehy come at too high a cost when people take them too seriously. not just the people getitng them but the people giving them.


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I love Gilmore Girls but I admit most of it is due to nostalgia because I end up ranting and complaining about the show whenever I watch it. Kind of like my relationship with pll but with less drama.

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1. I irrationally hate Bradley cooper. He has a punchable face. If you ask me why I don't like him, I can't even tell you.
2. I love the movie Enchanted but I cannot watch the beginning with the cartoon mice and roaches.
3. Monica and Chandler are the best friends on the show, Friends. They actually show their friends love and unconditional respect.
4. I don't like any Ryan Murphy shows.
5. Emma Stone is not a good dramatic actress at all.

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I don't really have an opinion on Bradley one way or another but he totally has a smug grin that I can see why you find punchable. Kinda like how I felt about Noel Kahn. I always wanted to smack that smirk right off his face.

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>i dont like any ryan murphy shows

I like the first season of AHS. i like the spooks of the future seasons but one of my unpopular opinions is that ASylum is not as good as everyone claimed it was and it got really *beep*

scream queens coulda been great but god it was awful, never bothered with glee.

>emma stone is not a good dramatic actress at all

the only drama ive seen her in was lala land and she did alright, but i can see why you'd think shes not good. the entire time i was thinking it would be way better if they got two independent actors playing the roles instead of her and gosling.


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Hollywood always goes overboard with their pairings. Ryan and Emma never have chemistry in their films together but they continue pairing them up. I think Emma Watson and miles Teller were supposed to be in their roles originally but they got fired thank goodness. Emma Watson went to the Emilia Clark school of method eyebrowing.

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Woah, do you know why they got fired?

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actors arent generally fired in these situations its usually that they were in consideraiton and talks, but one actor drops out, and while trying to get him back the other actor gets busy with a project and so on and so forth.

in many cases there are pay disputes and scheduling issues and the like that stop it from happening.

not like with a TV show where a character randomly departs cuz an actor got let go.


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