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The REAL problem with the abortion ' theme'


Now I'm against abortion EXCEPT IN SPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES, a woman becoming pregnant by her father equals a definite possibility of a child with mental deficiencies being born.

So, here's the problem, the film tries to give you an EXTREMELY rare situation, I mean had they just had a pregnant woman in need of an abortion to live, that would be reasonable, but no, the film tries to create a situation so bad, that the audience says, okay, she should get an abortion.

Doctor Larch wasn abortionist who probably had killed hundreds of premature children, healthy children that the mothers just didn't want and by all likelihood gave money to Mr. Larch to perform the abortion.

That's why this film is a liberal piece of sh^t, not because the abortion of the to be retarded child.





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As the good Dr Larch would say, the OP is sick of ignorance and fanatism.

I am among those who thinks that is better a safe and legal abortion than a dangerous and illegal one where not only the baby but also the mother could die.
We cannot force our morality on others. We cannot decide what a woman should do when she is pregant. They have the right to choose.

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If you can be trusted with a choice, how can you be trusted with a child..

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The previous post makes no sense. Did you mean to say "can NOT be trusted with a choice"?
Havign a child means you have to make constant choices.

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Random thought I wanted to throw out there.

You grant the Rose Rose situation an exception because of the chances of the baby having developmental problems, but c'mon...it would have been born into a family of apple pickers. Ever read or see Of Mice and Men? That could have been an ideal situation from a work ethic standpoint.

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Some of you are saying you would only advocate an abortion in rare circumstances such as the mother dying if she has the baby or rape. sounds like you are advocating telling someone else when they can't and can have an abortion. I don't agree with that. That is why I am against abortion but still pro-choice. by the way if you are advocating only in special circumstances I believe you are still pro-choice.

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I don't get why you people just tack your unrelated comments onto the last post rather than onto the original post that you're actually responding to.

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Come on, this film is hardly making a moral stand. It's a crappy hollywood adaptation of a book which is quite long, so the film has to contract every issue into a few formulaic sentences. I certainly hope no-one is going to base their opinions on this movie

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I believe that deep down, only a woman can make her own choice. However, she should NEVER feel alone. After an abortion, she should have counseling because this is the taking of a life, and mothers, young and old know this. They know it is the end of a life if it is a miscarriage, a still birth or an theraputic abortion.
That being said, if a woman or girl decides to end her pregnancy, she should be fully informed of the consequences. Even in a serile medical facility, a woman can become:
1. Scarred
2. Sterile
3. Infected
4. Emotionally harmed
5. Have remorse for years to come
and will have
6. numerous questions


Patients should be shown at what stage their baby is at the time of the operation and ALL questions should be answered. For so many other operations (tubla ligations, lapraoscopies, etc.) there is a full knowledge of the procedure and the possible out comes. If a woman does NOT know the answers then it is not truly a choice. To deny her these rights is to undermine her maturity and mentality. I think so many doctors are in it for the money and have very little compassion. "Let's get this broad aborted and outta here and go golf."
There are some doctors who have empathy and compassion, but there are very few. Woman need to be informed so that they can make a real choice.


*The shape-shifter is in and will take your calls now.

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Frankly, I'm not pro or against abortion, for me if you need to get one then do it but if you can financially handle and raise a child then you need to!

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I agree that the case was extreme, but so are many circumstances where abortion is wanted. At least back in that time.

Not to mention, it had to be extreme to get the point across. How else would Homer change his firm, anti-abortion opinion?

"Contempt loves the silence, it thrives in the dark" -Merchant

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First, the OP was being extremely combative and anyone asking why are people insulting him should look no further than the statement "That's why this film is a liberal piece of sh^t, not because the abortion of the to be retarded child." That kind of hostility doesn't serve either side.

As to whether the movie is "liberal" or "conservative", one could argue that it's both. But as has been pointed out already, it is not "pro abortion" but rather pro choice. And yes, there is a big difference.

Staying on topic with the movie, Dr. Larch most certainly did have a basis for what he was doing, whatever any individual viewer might think of his choices. He'd seen first hand two things that are very relevant to the issue:

(1) Women who sought abortions from unskilled practitioners and died or were horribly injured in the process. He believed that they had a right to decide for themselves whether or not to have the baby and that if they chose not to, that choice should not carry with it a death sentence.

(2) He also ran an orphanage. He knew the realities of the lives of unwanted children. And a certain balance was shown that some were indeed adopted, presumably into a good life, while others never were and lived out their lives in an institution. That is still a real occurance today.

Adoption is a wonderful thing and a beautiful opportunity for some women who can't (for whatever reason) or don't want to keep a baby and people who want a child but can't for some reason have one to help each other in an amazing way. But the notion that adoption is some sort of magic fix and that every unwanted pregnancy can end in adoption is naive at best. Does the demand (pardon what seems like a cold word) match the supply (again apologies)? Are there people lining up for all those children? For the minority children as well as the blond white ones? For the ones with medical issues as well as the perfectly healthy ones? And are people also lined up to care for the women as they endure the pregnancy? {And please, before anyone tells me that it's a beautiful experience and not something to be endured, let me say that yes it is something to be endured. And can also be a beautiful thing but not always. I was lucky. My pregnancy was mild and enjoyable on almost every level. My sister's was difficult, scary and painful and she fought for my nephew at every turn. He's perfect and healthy, I'm happy to say.} But projecting the idea that all births result in a better fate for these unborn children also ignores some of the painful realities of the world we live in. Those born to drug addicts can have multiple defects that plague them their whole lives and inhibit their development. Those born to people incapable of caring for them sometimes endure abuse, neglect and even death. Those born to reluctant parents sometimes endure years of being told they weren't wanted, etc. And sometimes the parents genuinely try their best and still can't give the child the care he/she deserves. Where are the pro life activists then? Some are right there, offering assistance, compassion and care. Far too many are sitting at home complaining about supporting other people's kids with their taxes, making deragatory remarks about "welfare babies," and passing judgment on people who "have no business having children." If we are going to claim to value life while forcing decisions on other people, we should also have to take part of the responsibility for those choices. Otherwise we're just hypocrites.


To try to paint the abortion issue as a simple, black and white situation with easy solutions and no room for individual circumstances is to deny the realities of many, many people's lives and the reasons they make that choice.

And labeling this movie simply "a liberal piece of sh^t" shows that the OP either didn't actually watch or comprehend it or he had an agenda to push regardless of what the movie depicted.


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I remember I could not enjoy the movie. My grandmother, my mother, my uncle…they all loved it. And I could not, because I hate abortion, and I found the movie manipulative. Dr. Larch is presented as a philantropist (I don't think he charged money, by the way) and Homer who is disgusted by the practice is "converted" when he sees the extreme situation Rose finds herself in. Virtually everybody in my family is pro-choice. I'm not. And I don't understand why so many people always presume that somebody who is against abortion is a) probably male, b) right-wing and c) does not know what (s)he is talking about.
I think I know. I made two self-induced abortion attempts when I was a teenager, and I think at least one of them was succesful. It was like a gallon of blood gushed out, together with some unidentifiable tissue. But I felt more than simple disgust. I was really sorry for what I had done. Yes, I was desperate, otherwise I would not have done something that could have been fatal for me.
And yes, there are people who actually propagate abortion. It is true, most people who identify themselves as pro-choice aren't really pro-abortion. But there are some, like German politician Jutta Ditfurth, for example. These people believe having an abortion boosts a woman's self-confidence. It is also not true that it is always a tough decision. To some people it is like having a tooth pulled. I went to college with such a woman, and her abortion and especially the way she handled the issue ended our friendship. Also, some people actually remember their abortion as a positive experience. I once took the time to read the online guestbook hosted by a Dutch abortion clinic. A woman wrote how she took refuge in the Dutch clinic because her late-term abortion would not have been legal in Germany, and how she and her husband celebrated the abortion with a candle-lit dinner. I also wonder on what kind of statistics the politician who presented the bill on abortion to the British House of Commons based his claim that most women who want an abortion are mothers who already have several children. I think that is bogus. I once read an interview with a Polish doctor who offers (illegal) abortions, and he said all kinds of women come to him. Pregnant teenagers, college students, homemakers with 5+ children, poor women, rich women. No particular majority group. For once, a pro-choice advocate who is telling the truth, I thought.
To make it clear: I have friends who are pro-choice. And I still have a good relationship with my family…most of them are pro-choice. It might sound a bit weird that I wanted to give myself an abortion while my parents are pro-choice. But I also had the idea that they treated their underage children as their property who are not capable to make an independent choice. But I still love them.

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