Times you DIDN'T sympathize with Helga?
I really love Helga a lot and empathize with her due to her home life and relationship with Arnold. However there are a few times when I DIDN'T feel bad for her.
1) Girl Trouble:
Usually when Helga bully's Arnold (for obvious reasons) she always shows some remorse towards him (to his face) and makes amends with him afterwards (Summer Love for example). But in his episode, despite her "I love Arnold" scenes, she didn't apologize or show remorse to him on the phone like Arnold did. Plus if remember clearly, only Arnold got detention and she didn't.
2) Helga Vs Big Patty:
She had no right to make fun of Patty's size, b/c in reality, Patty was a pretty nice person, it was only when Helga teased her that Patty wanted to beat her up. I don't condone violence, b/c 2 wrongs don't make a right, however, she DID deserve the fear and tension she experienced in this.
3) Phoebe Breaks a leg:
Again.....as much as I liked Helga, why would she take advantage of her best friend as much as she did in this ep?? When Phoebe decided to take advantage of her, I felt that she needed a taste of her own medicine to see how it feels.