In my experience I'd say yes, they all are subject to this condition. The one I dated in 1988 was so sweet for a couple of weeks, then she showed her true colors. Not that it was a total shock to me I was 23 and felt the rage/spoiled behavior coming from day one. She was a lot like Sharon Stone, alcoholic, friendless, and no impulse control whatsoever. I remember she telling me a few things about herself and it was all I needed to know to get away from her as fast/permanent as possible. The fact that I even hooked up with her in the first place was proof enough she was a complete trainwreck.
2nd girl I met in 1994. So sweet, very very loving. I read recently that a promiscous women will always find a simp. Well, I was the simp but I didn't know it. At the same time my friend visited New York and noticed all these attractive women with these ugly, rich guys. He said "A woman will be anything you want her to be if you've got money". His comment stuck with me. Man, she hid her true self very well for a long, long time. Over time I realized I was the simp, and didn't want to be one. Then, and only then, did she completely change her personality. So callous, mean, with no apology whatsoever. The day came to say goodbye, she wouldn't do it she turned around and walked away. Later she would send emails trying to play nice but I simply would not reply.
I've admitted to my mistakes, which there are many. I've never ever heard my exes admit to one and you know what, I don't blame them. They always get what they want but they're never truly happy.
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