Did Gen Xers think Bender was cool?
Kinda just something I thought about, did kids looking at this film when it first came out in theaters think John Bender was a cool dude?
shareKinda just something I thought about, did kids looking at this film when it first came out in theaters think John Bender was a cool dude?
shareI didn’t. I disliked him and Ally Sheedy in this. He was just a dick, and she just annoyed me. I am a massive lover of 80’s films because it’s when I grew up, but for some reason this was always one of the ones I wasn’t crazy about. It’s watchable to me and I have watched it probably 100 times in my life, but still never a favourite. But this was a good question and I look forward to seeing others replies.
share>I didn’t. I disliked him and Ally Sheedy in this. He was just a dick, and she just annoyed me.
100% agree with you.
I’ve known kids like him during that time. I didn’t find them cool. I’ve found them annoyances and sad individuals.
shareIf you got beat by your father and treated like shit by your classmates and teachers and school administrators, you didn't think he was cool. You identified with him.
shareHe was cool for his crowd. Claire was cool for her crowd. Andy was cool for his. Heck, Brian was probably the king of the dorks (just like his character in Sixteen Candles). Alison had no crowd to be cool of.
I was a teenager when this came out. I didn't like his character - reminded me of guys in my junior high that picked on people. I wasn't a jock per se but I definitely identified with Andy and rooted for him the entire time.
You identified with the guy who taped another guy's buns together in a locker room?
shareNot giving him a pass at all (I was bullied when I was a kid), but his character focus was how he succumbed to peer pressured by everyone - his father, his coach, his teammates.
I absolutely understand that as I was peer pressured when I was young by my father and friends. That's why I identified with him the most out of all of them.
Ah, I see.
shareSometimes I feel like I tape lemming asses together in the politics section.
sharereminded me of guys in my junior high that picked on people. I wasn't a jock per se but I definitely identified with Andy
In the movies , including this one , isnt it the sports team jocks always picking on the nerds? not the trenchcoat bender types ?
thats who he was talking about , keep up dickhead!
YES!...BENDER IS ONE OF THE ICONIC "COOL" GUYS FROM THE 80'S...THIS FILM INSPIRED MY TEENAGE FASCINATION WITH LONG COATS AND EARRINGS AND BEING A LOUD JERK WITH A HEART OF GOLD...AND IGNITED A LIFELONG CRUSH ON ALLY SHEEDY.
shareAND BEING A LOUD JERK
It was a combination of feeling sorry for this guy from the wrong side of the tracks, but respecting him for being rebellious. So yes, I guess he was sort of cool.
shareI'm a millenial, but I think it's funny that such a shitty actor putting on such a mediocre performance in such a crappy movie made such an impression 🤭
I mean, I enjoy She's All That and 10 Things I Hate About You, but I don't think any of those characters were cool (ok, Heath Ledger was pretty cool)
Half a fookin retard ova here ...
share So , who were the on screen cool guys in your era?
also, "millenial" has at least two definitions , so to clarify, when were you a teenager?
I never really liked the character. He was too angry and hot headed for my personal tastes. At the time, I preferred Andrew. It's not even that I dislike Judd Nelson as a person, but he really didn't play many characters in the 80s that I liked very much. My younger self did have a soft spot for the cool, bad guy, but Bender always felt like he was trying too hard to be edgy.
shareI think he's one of the coolest, most complex characters ever created in film.
You're supposed to dislike him, until you realize that he is an abused kid who has been failed by every single adult in his life, including those at his school. And even after his abusive homelife is revealed, he is still able to drop his defensive walls enough to find ways to relate to and bond with everybody in detention with him. And these are all people he'd normally envy and detest, or mock and ridicule.
Ultimately, I think he's a guy who is desperate to stay in high school, because his home life is so atrocious, and he has been abused and conditioned into believing he has no future.
One of the greatest characters ever, in my book.
Ultimately, I think he's a guy who is desperate to stay in high school, because his home life is so atrocious, and he has been abused and conditioned into believing he has no future.
WOW...I JUT REALIZED BENDER IS LIKE A JUNIOR VERSION OF THE KING FROM KING RAT...HE RULES HIS CURRENT SURROUNDINGS BUT IS SCARED TO HIS CORE OF LEAVING THOSE SURROUNDINGS.
I don't know what 'King Rat' is but yeah, sounds about right. School is the only place John can escape to from abuse and misery at home. He may be looked down on as a bottom-feeder by the Jock and the Princess initially, but he also has his own circle of friends who love, respect and even look up to him.
I think the scene where he's sparring with Vernon and keeps racking up week after week after week of detention shows his subconscious desire to stay in high school as long as possible. His parents have convinced him that he's worthless and will never be anything, and even Vernon basically says it.
"You wanna see something funny? You go look up John Bender in five years."
KING RAT IS MY FAVORITE BOOK...WRITTEN IN 1962 BY JAMES CLAVELL AND TURNED INTO A LESS THAN STELLAR FILM STARRING GEORGE SEGAL IN 1965...THE KING IS AN AMERICAN SOLDIER IN A JAPANESE POW CAMP...HE RULES THE CAMP BY TRADING,CONNING,BASICALLY WHATEVER WORKS TO KEEP THE UPPER HAND AT ALL TIMES...HE EATS EGGS,SMOKES CIGARETTES AND LIVES LIKE A KING WHILE THOSE AROUND HIM STARVE AND SUFFER AND DIE...THE THOUGHT OF THE WAR ENDING AND GOING HOME IS THE WORST THOUGHT IN HIS HEAD...BACK HOME HE IS A NOBODY...BUT IN THE POW CAMP...WHERE HE IS FORCED TO BE...HE RULES.
shareSounds interesting. Just ordered a copy.
shareI may check it out.
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I enjoyed your comments on the Bender character - I think you have him mostly nailed, and I agree that his character is fascinating and well acted as well.
Where I disagree is when Bender was sparring with Vernon for continued weeks of detention. I think a character like Bender would do such a thing only to look tough in front of the group, not to just stay in school longer. I also think if he was the only one in detention that day, he would have eaten the crap that Vernon was spewing to avoid such a long punishment.
Good point. To clarify, I think he did it, on a subconscious level, to remain in high school as long as possible. On the surface, conscious level, I definitely agree that he did it to look tough or cool in front of his peers.
I don't think he would have eaten Vernon's shit if he hadn't had an audience that day, though. I'll agree to disagree on that.
I don't think he would have eaten Vernon's shit if he hadn't had an audience that day, though.
Hm, that's a good perspective on it that I didn't think about. Personally, I didn't like his character even though I feel sorry for him. He's pretty true to life. He treated the girl terribly yet she still goes after him. I know a lot of people love him but I don't find him very likable at all. He has a lot of good lines though.
shareYou're supposed to dislike him, until you realize that he is an abused kid who has been failed by every single adult in his life, including those at his school. And even after his abusive homelife is revealed, he is still able to drop his defensive walls enough to find ways to relate to and bond with everybody in detention with him.