I know EXACTLY what you mean about kids being on lock down! I was at my son's high school a few times to "sign him out". I had to sign out my 16-17 year old son! I fargin had my own car at that age and went to my classes by myself! Not only that, it was a totally quiet and sterile environment, even in between classes when the kids are in the halls. Some of us went out for a smoke in between classes, but I think now even the teachers can't smoke anywhere near the schools.
Now, I grew up in what would be sanitized suburbs, on the outskirts of Austin and today live on the outskirts of Anchorage. But in the 1970's, most suburban kids that were age six or older had some degree of self-sufficiency! The Generation Joneser and X'ers, mainly those born in the late 1950's to early 1970's, were BAD! Meanest and toughest generation to ever grow up! Fathers that drank those shortneck Budweiser and Coors beers with red faces, screaming and cursing at their kids were not uncommon.
When I played little league baseball, you could heckle the opposing team as much as you wanted, harass your teammates like Lupus, etc. But there was the mandatory "good game" handshake with the opposing team at the end
Summer camp. I was a counselor several years back before I retired from the Air Force for kids of deployed parents. Summer camp was for the most part, Scouts or not, at least half the day of unstructured time! Now one hour if you're lucky and it's supervised! You don't want any boys sneaking unstructured time in the woods because God forbid they might start jacking off!
I know I'm being judgmental, but I really despise much of the generation that has been born in the 80's and 90's! Not all their fault, the No Child Left Behind and helicopter parents afraid of kids making the same mistakes they did crippled them more. Many can't find or hold a decent job because they weren't given enough real world and real life skills. Even worse off than the X'ers.
And one of my wife's friends has four boys between 5 and 13 years old. They NEVER go outside to play, just sit in the house playing video games, eating crap, and have a complexion like Darth Vader under his mask.
As a final note, Jonathan Martin needs to get his big boy panties on, LOL! I despise bullies today just as much as then, but nobody is given the skills to deal with them!
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