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Why didn't she just have marriage annuled? I would have!


In movies, very unusual things often happen to add drama to the plot.
But seriously - in real life, wouldn't any normal person simply have gotten an annulment? I realize she must have loved him. But any remotely honorable man would have disclosed that the marriage could not be consummmated BEFORE the wedding. Being deceived like that would kill my love real quick.
A dissolution of the marriage would have been far preferable to frustration, misery, adultery & an illegitimate child. Not to mention being murdered!!! I'm assuming they were Catholics. Today, Catholics have even received annulments after children have been born!! Which is absurd, of course.

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Divorce was simply out for such a proud noble family like the Favrinis. The fact they were Catholics played just a minor role. I still cant recall when did Maria realize he dream is over.

Oh,those cults. Everyone in black...Judgement Day.
No, that's us. Catholicism

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Divorce may have been "out" for Favrini, but she wasn't a poor, powerless peasant anymore. She was a famous, powerful movie star. I bet she could have divorced him without his consent. She didn't strike me as a "victim" type, but a woman who could be strong & stand up to people when needed. The whole tragic premise just didn't ring true for me.

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It was certainly very wrong of him to not disclose that before the marriage. However, I find it sad that some here say they would have left him. Was their love based only upon the hope of sex? I hope there are more reasons than that to fall in love and get married. A marriage can't just be based on sex. The lack of a normal sex life can sure make for marital challenges, but doesn't have to be the end of love. Besides, there are other ways of pleasuring, and children can be adopted.

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tiz best not to analyze the plot holes in these old costume tales. Just enjoy the visuals and the performances.

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Sigh - I wish I could turn off the "analyzer" & enjoy! But plot holes ruin movies for me - things have to make sense for me to really like a movie!!

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No, I'm not saying love is only based on sex. Not at all. If her husband had been incapacitated after marriage, I would condemn her for breaking her vows. I just think it was totally deceitful & cruel of her fiance not to be upfront & honest with her before the marriage took place, so she would know what she was facing and allow her to decide if marriage under those terms was acceptable to her.

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I don't see it as plotholes sue, just a different take of what you would've done. I didn't see Maria's actions to be solely motivated by the need for sex, but by the need to fulfill her husband's wish, to have a future for the family through children, & in her own fantastical & unusual sense, her actions were logical.


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I totaly agree, maria did love her husband, otherwise she wouldn't have married him in the first place, and as a woman loves a man, she can bear not having sex with him as long as she is with him.she saw the unhappy man/count inside him and wanted to make him happy by giving him an heir,and of course she knew he will know it's not his, but she was risking alot (which apparently she didn't realize)and so she never got the chance to explain herself to her husband.

Here's looking at you , kid !

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Yes, I agree wholeheartedly with that last assessment. Maria realized that the FAMILY, and the continuation of the Favrini noble line was the unattainable fantasy for her husband.

Her goal was to fulfill that fantasy by giving him an heir. She even tells Harry (Humphrey Bogart) that very thing the night she is killed.

That she totally misinterpreted how he would react, with him placing the "family honour" above any thought of carrying on the family name, is the tragedy of the story.

And it IS a tragedy in the ancient Greek sense: a destruction of one's self brought about through one's own actions.

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I noticed that the chauffeur/valet/whatever-he-was sure looked like a ‘natural’ relation to the Count. I think the actor playing the character was putting that across.
Poor Maria didn’t realize all the implications; she just saw someone with the correct appearance to pull off an heir; I always wondered if another reason the Count shot them both was for “Oh no, you don’t scheme your way onto the right side of the blanket!”

Considering that most female servants didn’t have a choice to say “No”, this is where the Count loses sympathy points. He could have had all that wealth and security go on and stay in the family, after all.

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You must have loved "Inception".

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I think a man and woman who live together without ever having had a sexual relationship and no hope for one in the future are called roommates. Of course, it's a little antique to think only one type of sex was possible.

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I agree w/ you Frodo, I share your sentiments to the letter. It is disturbing & very wearisome to think that many people's so-called love is based solely on sex, & sex alone, perhaps that's one of the reasons 50% of marriages in America end in divorce while the rest of the world tries to catch up to that percentile.

But after watching this movie, I was initially surprised that Maria turned to adultery in a mere 3 months, perhaps w/in a month or 2 after her marriage. & to clarify, my surprise was far from positive or neutral, but I have a different take on her motivations. As was indicated by her conversation w/ Boghart, it seems the whole affair was merely an attempt to give her husband what she believed he wanted, a future he could not have. Having a child, even if it was from an affair was her way of fulfilling her husband's wish of a future. Sure, it may not have been the best way to go about it, the worst actually, but her intentions were pure, despite her disillusioned fairy tale logic. Maybe she did know her husband well enough, maybe if she wasn't caught off guard, he would've agreed to have kept the child w/ her. Maybe after the birth of her child, she intended to devout herself completely & only to her husband. But maybe, it was just another misguided illusion of hers. But one thing seems clear, in Maria's mind, she was devoted & loyal to him, & him alone.


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She loved him?

And, despite what our modern culture tells us very second, there IS more to love and marriage than sex.

He should have told her before the marriage. That, I agree with.

It wouldn't have been an illegitimate child if she'd been able to talk to him about it. He would have accepted it as his own.

But, of course, he killed her and other man before she could tell him.

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That's an excellent point - the only logical reason for her staying is that she really did love him. But unfortunately, he did not love her, IMO. You don't murder people you truly love, no matter what.

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Ahhh...but people love differently. We don't love the same way, others are more passionate than others & react differently to certain situations, it was clear that at that moment of catching his wife w/ another man, he lost himself to passion & killed them both. I believe he did love her but I agree that holding off on his secret was incredibly deceitful & selfish. If he truly loved her (loved her more is what I mean), he would've been upfront about it before the marriage, but I guess his love just never extended that far.


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I just watched this movie on PBS this afternoon, seriously for the first time, all the way through. I've seen parts of it over the year and always admired Ava Gardner's looks and wardrobe but never knew the whole story line. Actually, it makes me want to read a bio of Gardner; I understand she lead an "interesting" and probably not very fulfilling life.

Anyway, Harry pointed out to Maria that he agreed that neither she nor the count could "help" themselves. Both were very flawed people and lived in separate dream worlds though yeah, he took things too far, and she followed suit. Maria said she loved him and told Harry she "knew" her man but she most certainly didn't when she believed she could cheat and bear a child by another man. So the count didn't "know" Maria, either. You have to question their "love" for each other all the way around. A mature honest love would have been the count's telling her the truth up front and far quicker than he did, out of genuine love and concern. And they could possibly have gone from there, married, been good buddies, adopted kids - but hey, that's a whole other movie, ha-ha. Not gonna happen in a story like this, we all know. Maria was no virgin anyway, who are we kidding here, she'd been around the block. But of course she deserved the truth. Oh, well.

Next movie up is "Three Coins in the Fountain." Anyway, I guess you have to put reality out of your mind with these movies and just admire the classy clothes, scenery and music in these movies. Like a preacher I know says, more "genteel" times. I personally find myself wishing these days were more like those.

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I don't know about adopting kids, there's a reason the count & his sister never adopted before, the title could not be passed unto adopted children, they have to be biological. & the title or family lineage was what was foremost in their minds. Of course, an added reason would've been that many people don't turn to adoption, many prefer to have their own or none at all, like my father.


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Titles of nobility do, in fact, get passed on to adopted children. It has happened many times. And sometimes when there's a female heir, the husband will be allowed to take his wife's title. That happened when the Duchess of Alba married -- her husband took the title as well, so that their child could be the Duke. And Baroness Philippine de Rothschild's never took her husband's name (because of the marketing importance of her own name, and the fact that she would inherit the wine business). I don't know this for a fact, but I suspect that her eldest son will be Baron de Rothschild. Her ex-husband Jacques Sereys is still on the board of the company and presumably wouldn't mind.

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Not to mention that when enough power/money/right to inherit was at stake: It’s not hard to imagine a little baby swapping going on.
Or: “I followed my husband on this Crusade, but we decided I should come back and give birth here at the ancestral seat. Yes, that ocean air certainly works miracles!”

People do what they do. If only it was always for the absolute best reason, and ut worked out that way…

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“Maria was no virgin…she’d been around the block.”
But I think that’s why she was picky. I think she probably had had to prostitute herself for survival here and there up until a few years before the three guys see in her In Spain. That’s why she flees. Not that again.

Remember the dance in the gypsy camp? She entices and invites, but don’t touch. She throws the gambling money to the guy just because, money is needed and she sees it to throw.

Now in Beverly Hills, she DOES go and spend the night with the guitarist we hear. We see her shoes later.
But on the yacht, she refused the Eyebrow Millionaire and clutched her robe to herself when she saw all the guys leering at her; then she turns the moment around and owns it. That’s a hard thing to pull off.
I think she re-virginizes herself for the Count, who overheard that frustrated tirade at the Casino, saw that chaste toss of the money; he draws his own conclusions, with fatal results.

The one jarring note for me was how unreal most movies had been under The Hays Code and then suddenly when she meets Crew (Bogart)while shopping, she tells him of the Count’s gentlemanly behavior for a whole 6 weeks and he’s shocked! Shocked, I tell you!

It’s an odd disconnect between the way the movies usually discussed premarital desire or sex outside of marriage, and while there’s certainly some realism there, the moment is more of a sledgehammer of foreshadowing, just in case we didn’t get all the anguished but dignified hints in the brother-sister conversations.

Oh well.

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What the story may really be about are the scars of childhood abuse and the consequent withdrawal from the world. Most likely Maria was abused and never disclosed it, instead taking refuge in an imaginary world. Her relationship with Favrini was also mostly in her imagination as she never explored enough to find out everything she should have before marrying the guy. Her attempt to preserve that precious imaginary world no matter what led to her death.

In what way in your life has your refusal to deal with painful realities led to problems? This is what the film is asking you.

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I agree with Rheli - the scene with her family shows that she had a reason to always be running away from something, or running to something. All the men she picks as lovers are all dysfunctional, and she is always running away from the more socially acceptable men to go slumming and dancing with the men who are more like her, a peasant at heart. The count wants her only as a trophy, no one would do what he does (marry under false pretenses) to someone he really loves. Her need to "give" him an heir is completely irrational. In a situation like an italian mantle of nobility, it was ALL about "blood" inheritance. People like the Count did have children out of wedlock - they were called bastards because they were born out of wedlock, and were not considered to be worthy in inheriting a title. If Ava has a child that was not his blood that child would be considered a bastard and not eligible to inherit his title or his fortune. It would also be a dishonour and humiliation to the Count as a man, and this in part has something to do with his need to kill her as a means of revenge for dishonoring him. It may sound medieval but that is precisely the point. Add to that his jealously in finding out that she has been with another man - she is his property and he controls her and she went out and slept with another man - does he love her? Could someone murder the person they love? It happens EVERY DAY - the jealous husband/boyfriend/lover kills HIS woman because she ran off with/slept with/left him for/fill in the blank another man.

I really love this movie. I think of it as something of a guilty pleasure, but the dialogue is great and Ava just looks magnificent. It's my favorite Humphrey Bogart film - everyone loves him in Casablanca, but to me this part, and his wonderful narration, just seem to be perfect casting. Any time I happen to see it I will end up riveted to the end as usual.





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I think the chauffeur was a ‘natural’ relative. What Maria saw as a plus (looking alike) would have been the final humiliation for the Count, because probably everyone in the area knows everything about everybody.
So the Count may have shot them both BEFORE she could become pregnant.

Considering that the Count’s male ancestors may have helped themselves to the local women and women in service at the estate for generations, yes, he is out of touch.

He has a chance to make things right in more ways than one. Not for him! Marital aids? Not for him!

Do we absolutely know for sure his sister is infertile, or is the title supposed to go through the male line anyway? Not for her!

Yeesh

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Today, Catholics have even received annulments after children have been born!! Which is absurd, of course.


It is not absurd - not at all.
Failure to consummate the marriage (if that is what you're alluding to, and it seems that way) is just one among the many possible causes for annulment.
There are good websites listing all the causes and procedures that apply, but at this point let me mention just false pretenses, undisclosed mental illness, mental reservations at the time of the wedding - not to mention the discovery of a previous marriage, of course.

Anyway, this film was supposedly based on Rita Hayworth and her life.

And BTW... in my experience reality can be, and often is, FAR more "odd" than any fiction. ;)



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Although not quite 21 when I first saw it, I was profoundly affected by the tragedy, even at that young an age.

Life, every now and then, behaves as though it had seen too many bad movies

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Catholics receiving annulments after having children is not absurd. It completely depends on the basis for saying the marriage was not a true marriage. Fraud, for instance, can be discovered after children are born. In that case annulment is the proper remedy.

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I think it helps to remember the time period when the story was written and set. In the 1950s, divorce wasn't anywhere near as common as it is today. In fact, divorce was heavily looked down upon and a woman who would willingly leave her husband could very well become socially ostracized, even if she were popular. Look at what happened to Ingrid Bergman when she left her husband for Roberto Rossellini. It created a huge scandal, and she was publicly denounced on the Senate floor.

As for the Count, I agree it was wrong of him to withhold the information. But I could understand his hesitation. After all, what man would want to admit to his would-be wife that he was emasculated and could not father children? Suppose she dumped him on the spot? Such a blow would be psychologically devastating.

I also think that the injury was a way for Mankiewicz to get around the strong moral codes of the time period. I imagine that Mankiewicz might have portrayed the Count as gay or bisexual, but you weren't allowed to do that in a 1950s film.

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I think it helps to remember the time period when the story was written and set. In the 1950s, divorce wasn't anywhere near as common as it is today. In fact, divorce was heavily looked down upon and a woman who would willingly leave her husband could very well become socially ostracized, even if she were popular. Look at what happened to Ingrid Bergman when she left her husband for Roberto Rossellini. It created a huge scandal, and she was publicly denounced on the Senate floor.


Annulment is not a divorce. Also, at least at some point the Church did not consider eunuchs and impotents fit to marry in the first place. A marriage to a eunuch was ipso facto null and void. Not sure when that changed.

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As others have said, it's the 1950s, for heaven's sake. Plus she's married a nobleman. The only tasteful option a woman had when a marriage went sour is to gracefully kill herself or let her husband shoot her.

Of course, this was before feminism.

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It has nothing to do with feminism . . . they married under false pretenses . . . and, yes, an annulment, under such conditions, could easily be procured . . . of course, he is a nobleman, she has a title, comfortable surroundings . . . and,no, she need not have to kill herself, or shoot him . . . technically there is no marriage . . .there can't be . . .

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It was the '50s, silly. It was always the woman's fault.

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No, sorry, this is a clear case--he was wounded in war, and the sister knew this as well, something he kept from his future wife, . . there is no marriage . . . with ease it could be annulled, five hundred years ago or 1950s . . . unless she willing went along with the ruse (which she is, only she's adding to it, by getting pregnant by that cousin . . . sealing the ruse.)

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You need to remember that the story is a thinly-veiled version of Joe Mankiewicz' real life marriage: an exotic European actress who marries a statured film maker and then finds her life with him is not what she thought it would be.

Mankiewicz' wife killed herself (as did many of the Hollywood wives in her circle) instead of divorcing or having the marriage annulled.

Although she killed herself four year after this movie was made, so perhaps it was prognosticative -- or maybe Mank's movie gave her ideas!

In the movie, of course, she's pregnant by another man and her jealous, impotent husband kills her; in Mankiewicz' life, she's bored and empty because once she was whisked off to America, she was expected to raise the kids and forget her career.

Women were more trapped back then, at all echelons.

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Even the Vatican would've granted her an annulment--if she so desired . . .

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You seem to lack sociohistorical perspective.

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Unless something else is going on . . . she doesn't want to divorce him . . . she's willing to stay married to him . . . regardless of his physical condition . . . she obviously proceeds to redeem their marriage in a somewhat unconventional way . . . why? What are her motives?

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'50s misogynistic martyrdom. Like everything else in the world.

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Could be . . . given herself over to somehow perpetrate this noble Italian house . . . he's a good man . . . she can't leave him, no matter what . . . and so she does what she does, and her husband does what he does . . . and all that remains is that statue of Maria, in the graveyard . . .

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Well, she seems to explain her motives to Harry near the end.

She is, of course, upset that she and the Count cannot have sex, but she loves him so much that she wants to give him the one thing that she believes he really wants, more than anything else....namely an heir so that family line can continue.

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