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Whiny Bitch accuses white adoptive parents of perpetuating racism


The only thing his parents are guilty of is sending him to Woke College.

Colin Kaepernick accuses white adoptive parents of ‘problematic’ upbringing, perpetuating racism
https://nypost.com/2023/03/09/colin-kaepernick-accuses-white-adoptive-parents-of-problematic-upbringing/

The former NFL star told CBS Chicago he struggled growing up in a “problematic” household, a throughline he details in his upcoming graphic novel, “Change the Game.”

One of these disagreements illustrated in the novel was a fight over his hairstyle.

Kaepernick, in an attempt to idolize basketball player Allen Iverson, wanted to embrace his blackness by wearing cornrows, but his mother pushed back.

“He’s getting what rolls?” his mother, Teresa, is cited as saying in the book.

In reality, she allegedly told him: “Oh, your hair’s not professional. Oh, you look like a little thug.”

Since then, he’s worked as an activist and advocate for social justice issues and created a Netflix documentary with director Spike Lee that will detail his NFL protests.

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Where's the black side of his family? Why aren't they there for him? Oh right, he got abandoned. He already sold this story to Netflix and hardly anyone watched it. Now he's selling it as a comic book? Who's the one perpetuating this? As for the alleged remarks from the mother, I guess he could've explained it to her better so she learned from that experience on hairstyle.

Actually, good for him. White people learn the hard way when adopting POC that may turn on them. They deserve it for getting more people to denigrate their color.

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He'll make up anything to sell a book, or anything that his publicist tells him to.

Of course, none have sold yet, and he might not even manage to sell a single copy. Especially now that his mother obviously isn't buying. Who really cares about an opportunistic, spoiled whiny racist, unappreciative brat?

I don't know his parents or his relationship with them. And I don't know what else is in the book. Of course his publicist is going to release the juciest, most controversial part (See: Jimmy Connors biography The Outsider, where the only pre-release quote was a subtle 1-sentence mention about Chris Evert aborting their baby). It sold like wild-fire in the tennis community, and obviously outraged Chris. And delighted Jimmy's financial advisors.

Colin's parents have to deserve some credit for him turning into a multi-millionaire. They were obviously there for him, a "privilege" that many young black boys don't have. He should be praising them, not throwing them under the bus.

But Blacks (or pretend-to-be blacks) praising whites won't sell books compared to the other way around.

There seem to be a lot of "pretend blacks" around lately. White Guilt got to them. See: NAACP Leadership. And some "pretend Indians" too. See: Elizabeth Warren.

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Without remotely denying white privilege and male privilege, a natural and inevitable consequence of one or another demographic feeling they're the 'bad guys', is that members of those various groups will seek to identify with the 'good guys' (whether it's on account of race, ethnicity, gender/sex and sexuality). That's why you see so many white people identify as Black and/or Indigenous, gentiles identify as Jewish, straight people identify as gay and bi, rich people make up lies about a difficult and impoverished childhood, and, dare one say it, even as someone who wholeheartedly supports trans rights, a few men falsely identifying as women or non-binary.

It's a bullshit game, where a few bad-faith actors will do the dishonourable thing, and basically play Benedict Arnold, in denying/escaping their actual identity, and throwing other people who share that identity under the bus, instead of (A) taking responsibility for their privilege and/or (B) seeking a fairer/more equitable dialogue in which we don't write-off entire groups of people on account of an immutable identity.

That's one of the reasons I could never endorse Elizabeth Warren, despite agreeing with many of her political platforms. Anyone who feels the need to effectively make-up/vastly exaggerate their 'ethnic' ancestry (and even after a DNA test showed Warren had *some* Native blood, it was so minimal as to be meaningless), in order to escape their privilege, is a fraud and a coward IMHO.

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I could never endorse Elizabeth Warren... Anyone who feels the need to effectively make-up/vastly exaggerate their 'ethnic' ancestry ..., in order to escape their privilege, is a fraud and a coward

Elizabeth Warren wasn't escaping her privilege. You're applying way too much psychology BS to this. She was simply trying to get a free scholarship initially, and later gain minority status in both her college and job applications. It had nothing to do with her "privilege", and everything to do with her gaming the system.

But once her fabrication was discovered, then she had to run with it. Of course as a High School student applying for college, when the ruse was first applied, she had no idea she would grow up to be a (heavily scrutinized) Senator! Whoops!

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Maybe I am reading too much into this, but I genuinely think a lot of this faux-identification is psychological and comes down to an effort to escape one's privilege.

I'm guessing you're a conservative, so I'm also guessing that you see things in very pure material terms (i.e. people do things for money and sex), whereas speaking as a leftist, albeit a self-critical and non-partisan leftist with a VERY LOW tolerance for bullshit, I know how a lot of leftists think, and many of them are as motivated by ego and self-image, as they are by more tangible things like, say, a scholarship or even a job.

Look at how already wealthy and powerful celebrities feel the need to 'spice up' their identities by falsely claiming to be gay/bi, or non-binary, or in many cases, Jewish, Indigenous American or Black despite NO verifiable evidence of such ancestry. These people already have very fragile egos, so it helps their sense of self to be able to identify with the 'good guys' rather than the 'bad guys'.

This is one of the man reasons why relative 'centrists', rather than right-wingers (who are motivated by material power and success) and left-wingers (who are motivated by self-image/ego), are higher on the intellectual evolutionary scale. Centrists recognise the dynamics of systemic privilege, but they don't make-up bullshit and cowardly excuses to escape it. Instead, they face up to it, whilst also reasonably and sensibly refusing to condemn individuals simply on the basis of identities they were *born* with. Extremists see things in strict binary terms. Cowards try to escape any binary identity that frames them as the 'bad guys'. Intelligent, reasonable, well-balanced centrists see things in more complex terms and acknowledge their own personal identities without any BS.

Still, if what you say about Warren is true, and she's simply trying to cover-up for an early lie (and, to be fair, you may be right in this case), I guess she's more shallow than I thought...

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Still I don't see how ANYONE with such a small percentage of Indigenous American blood can credibly argue that they were 'right' to claim any benefit for identifying as a minority. How dare WHITE people who've lived culturally WHITE lifestyles STEAL scholarships from ACTUAL minorities!!! 😠👊🏼

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During the 2020 campaign one of Trump's retweets was great: "Warren: 1/2020 th"

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It's a shame, because I *soo* despise Trump, and it bothers me that white people (esp. white 'libs') who identify as Indigenous American, despite no real verification, will see Trump's 'joke' as validation for their identification. They'll possibly interpret it as some sort of 'liberal' and 'progressive' act, possibly of 'solidarity' with Indigenous Americans, even though many *official* Native American organisations have categorically stated that they regard the practice of *white* people identifying as 'Native America' with little to no proof, to be offensive and harmful.

Speaking as a leftist, appropriating ethnic ancestry is NOT a 'woke' or 'politically correct' act. Ask Rachel Dolezal, who was quite *righly* castigated by Black people for doing this.

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Do you know what else Indians find offensive? Being called "Native Americans". Hey stupid leftists who coined this "Politically correct [fill in the blank]-American" term, they don't consider themselves "American" at all! I have spoken to tribal members in Arizona and they prefer to be called by their tribe names, "Cherokee, Apache, Navajo, Sioux...", etc.

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I generally use the term Indigenous American, but surely 'Indian' is worse.

In any case, if I'm referring to people collectively, it would be semantically awkward to refer to each tribe, especially since I don't know every single tribe.

I could have said 'white people identifying as Cherokee' (because, it's usually Cherokee), but that would then ignore all the white people identifying as Sioux or Cheyenne etc.

Do you see my point?

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Why is Indian worse?

I spoke to a Navajo Indian in Arizona. They hate being called "dash" Americans, doesn't matter if it's Native-American, Indigenous-American, anything-American.

They do not consider themselves Americans.

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Well, they're not Indians, seeing as the US is not India, and it was a misnomer based on the first Europeans' misunderstanding about the land they had 'discovered'.

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There are more white saviors that get upset by the word Indian than anyone else. There are a lot of them around me, and they refer to themselves as Indians. it's irrelevant as to the origin of the name being based on a mistake, it's a name that was applied to these people with no intended offense and it was accepted. It's a case of liberals being offended on behalf of people who weren't offended.

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The more I hear him talk the more I realize he isn't very bright.

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I blame Jim Harbaugh for this. Harbaugh turned that team around lickety-split and made them really good but he pushed it too far and made them arrogant jerks.

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Listen up, parents of Moviechat: this is what happens when you spoil your kid rotten and raise them in a liberal household. One day they grow up to be a loser and a monster like this, that will turn on you and abandon you for fame and fortune they will never have.

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How do you know he grew up in a liberal household? If his mother equated his ghetto haircut to being a "thug", she doesn't sound very liberal to me. I'm probably on "your side" of the Kaepernick issue (I can't stand the guy), but I'm curious where you got the insight that his adoptive white parents were "liberal".

Personally, I'm not so sure it's been disclosed.

If you're saying in general, that a liberal household is going to raise a bunch of whiney, victimized snowflakes, yes that's very true. But I think the story coming out of Kaepernick's book is that his parents were somewhat racist towards black culture.

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10% black, 100% victim.

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right on johnmiller !!

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For years people have reminded Colin, that he was adopted by rich white parents, and he was raised among mostly white people. This is just a rich and privileged person lashing out over the fact that they are rich and privileged.

He’s struggling with his identity, and since His experience isn’t relatable to most black people, he’s searching for something to make himself a victim.

I think it’s far more “problematic” to assume certain things are blackness. You don’t need to grow up poor, you don’t need to be a victim, you don’t need to wear a certain hairstyle, you simply are what you are. But that wasn’t good enough for Colin.

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Colin and Prince Harry should get together...

Or maybe not. The encounter could have toxic consequences.

Rich kids identifying as victims is the order of the day.

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Rich kids identifying as victims is the order of the day.

You've nailed it on the head and I love that phrase. They feel GUILTY for their success and massive wealth, and they think the only way they can be liked, because liberal society teaches us to hate all rich people due to class envy, is to feign victimization.

Liberals and especially socialists, are conditioned that wealthy people "don't pay their fair share", Yet most of them are the ones providing the jobs. The wealthy can hire accountants to game the tax code so that "on paper", they appear to not be paying enough taxes, but they pay taxes on every purchase, and every employer pays taxes.

The liberals never believed in the GOP "Trickle down economics" when it comes to wealth, but they'd better believe it when it comes to poverty! The more you take away from the wealthy, the more they are going to take away from their employees.

Look at the minimum wage hike in the Fast Food industry. The end result: Kiosks taking the place of 3/4 of the counter staff. Whoops.

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I can't say I agree with your politics. I don't want to get into this debate here, but tax breaks for the rich *do not* incentivise the rich to put more money into their employers/workers. Trickle down hasn't been shown to work, because if you cut taxes for the 1%, you're not compelling them to put their money back into the economy/their businesses. You're simply allowing them to accumulate more wealth/interest on their savings.

But I *do* agree with your first paragraph, ironically from a more left-wing progressive POV. I once used to stigmatise people who had the good fortune to be born wealthy, like Harry and Colin, but I now see that they're no more responsible for their good fortune than I am for being born a straight white man.

That said, I htink it's actualaly healthy and important for straight white men *AND* rich people (whatever their sexuality, race and gender) to recognise their innate privileges WITHOUT feeling obliged to *beat themselves up* over something they had no say in.

Recognising one's privileges is not the same as being told to hate oneself, although on occasion the line can be a thin one. That's whyt it's important to say "Black people and women are at a systemic disadvantage because of x" without saying "You're to blame [because you were born a white man]." I think there are ways of teaching CRT (which I suspect you completely detest) without leaving anyone feeling guilty or ashamed of their identity, and, there are other ways which I personally think are unnecessarily stigmatising (I'm not sure that the 'walk of privilege' is helpful, because it singles people out, and turns them into pariahs in some people's mind; you can't help but make a subconscious target for someone's back when you single them out, and no matter how many intersectional factors one accounts for, including race, gender, sexuality, poverty, bereavement, mental health, and so on, there are always going to be discrete factors that one misses out; life isn't simple

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His parents gave him everything. Which is a very bad idea for anybody, because it gives them the impression they're OWED. Just look at Prince Harry.

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