As everybody else attested, it's not just you. I'm discovering there many of us in this boat. A few years ago someone asked me about which celebrity was my type, and after about a half hour, he and I gave up trying to think of someone who actually appealed to me. Things are different now.
I have not swooned about any person i didn't know like this, EVER. I feel so silly about having this giant crush that I haven't told anyone (anyone i know in person, anyway). I'm trying not to let my husband know - not that it's any kind of threat to our relationship, but I feel so ridiculous because this thing is BIG even if it's just my imagination, and I know I'm gonna get made fun of. I hope I don't say his name in my sleep!
I guess I wonder how much of a crush like this is based on any semi-accurate perceptions or information about him as a person, and how much is just based on my projections? Do I care? What the hell IS it about Jemaine anyway? I mean he is attractive, talented, funny, seems smart, his humor betrays what might be some sensitivity and an appealing self-consciousness, etc., and he is the same age as me, but I have no idea why this all adds up to the incredible magnetic (as you mentioned) pull he has for me and, apparently, for others.
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