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Why do I trust a guy who has been married multiple times?

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So? He's cheated on every one of them including Melania...

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3 baby mamas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!? close your legs ho??
can you imagine if Hillary would've had 3 baby daddies?

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True, major double standard, Bernie Sanders had a son out of wedlock, and no one cared, not that it matters but you could imagine what they would have said if Hillary Clinton had an out of wedlock child. Sanders also wrote a newspaper article in 1972 saying that women enjoy being raped and he got almost zero criticism for it, the media just looked the other way.

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it makes me feel sick the way people condemn Trump's every move while at the same time deflecting Hillary and Bill's vile past

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Bill wasn't married three times. And Hillary wasn't an immigrant illegally working in the United States. Bill was a Rhodes Scholar. Trump says he doesn't read books..and it shows. Why do Republicans always vote for the stupidest person they can find?

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Why would Bill need to be married three times when he did just as well having long time affairs (Gennifer Flowers anyone?), etc, etc.

Hillary Clinton have an OUT of wedlock child? Her hubby had to convince her to have one IN wedlock. From what I have read, she aborted the others. But Bill was clever enough to realize that they needed a child to look like a happy nuclear family.

Anyway, how would Hillary's cheating cause a pregnancy? Lesbo affairs don't make babies.

After Bill's big faux pas with Monica, we were told ad nauseum by the left that it was JUST ABOUT SEX! It didn't affect Bill's ability to govern. So why is the left wetting its pants now?


Why does the left vote for the biggest liar it can find? Rhodes Scholar? So is Rachel Maddow. And a stupider bimbo I have yet to hear. They must give away Rhodes Scholarships in boxes of Cracker Jacks.

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Love it !
What a great retort .

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No one has more affairs than Donald "grab them by the p***y Trump.

A gossip, misogynist and a homophobe rolled into one.

No one is a bigger liar than pathological liar and sociopath Trump. He lies about how many people were at his pathetic inauguration, whose paying for the wall, Russia connection (will be impeached LOL), releasing his taxes, Obama's birthplace, voter fraud, etc. How many people didn't he pay after they did work for him? No American bank will give him loans because of his dishonesty. Russian banks are a different matter, of course.

Clinton wasn't an incompetent "who never reads books". Trump needs to stop playing golf and tweeting so much and actually earn the paycheck he said he wouldn't take (another lie) but will now give to charity (another lie since he never gives to charities).

MSNBC pays Maddow 7 million each year for her own talk show. Are you doing better than the "stupid bimbo"?

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Hilarious !
It never takes leftist loonies long to start slinging all-encompassing labels whenever they're extremely frustrated, e.g. " misogynist, " immediately on the heels of the ever popular , " racist, " trailed by "homophobe" and " xenophobe ."
Maddow probably relies on gigolos to take the edge off with her 7 figure income.

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Actually, most lefties are amused by Drumpf's incompetence which has allowed the Democrats to stop his evil shenanigans aka the Muslim ban(twice) and Trumpcare(oxymoron). And SNL has been very funny this season! Thanks Alec and Melissa.

Drumpf is going to hurt his supporters the most if any of his policies pass. That's also amusing.

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Sure....I get it ! Ridiculing has been cathartic . Not to mention profitable for both hypocritical Alec and Melissa.

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I never said Rachel Maddow was "underpaid", just stupid! I never went on TV to make a HUGE deal about Pres. Trump's taxes, only to find out he paid 25% of his income. I never had to have the stupid smirk wiped off my face on election night.

It's not my business what MSNBC wants to waste its money on. But if they want leftwing propaganda, they are sure getting their money's worth. Making money does not equal having a lot of brains. Do you think most Hollywood celebrities or ball players are worth those millions?

Hell, Cenk Uygur called Donald Trump a total failure and loser. Is HE doing as well financially?

The smartest people don't always make the most money. Guess I should have gone into television "news" to shill for the Democrats. Went into teaching instead and we just don't make millions!

No one has had more affairs than Donald Trump? And , pray tell, you know this HOW?? Do you travel in his social circle? Has he been comparing notes with Bill Clinton and they told YOU about it? Anyway, as the Clintonistas told us during Monica-gate, it's JUST SEX! Doesn't interfere with a guy's job!

"Gossip, misogynist and homophobe?" Howza about some concrete evidence? lol Are you sure we haven't run into each other on the IMDB board? You remind me of some of the lefties over there who usually resorted to name calling in lieu of a substantial argument.

Bill Clinton "read books"? Was this before or after all the affairs he had? NOW "playing golf" offends the left? Didn't seem to bother you folks when the last President golfed. Geez, the news of an American journalist who was beheaded didn't stop Obama's golf game. He was out on the course the next day.

NOW '"Russian connections" upset the left? Remember Obama's whispered message caught on an open mic to the Russian President? "After my re-election I'll have more flexibility."

Flexibility? Was Hillary sending those yoga e-mails to Obama? Guess they took a class together.

You might want to look up the late Ted Kennedy's "Russian connections." He offered the former Soviet Union help if they would help unseat Ronald Reagan in the 1984 election.

" Pathological liars and sociopaths"??? Well you ought to know, I take it you're a Bill and Hillary supporter.

Pathological liar? You mean like when Mrs. Bill Clinton gave her speech about Bosnia....running through sniper fire to get to their vehicles with their heads ducked down. Funny how the footage showed a welcoming committee and a little girl presenting her with a bouquet of flowers. Bullets? Bouquets? I get the two of them mixed up ALL the time!!

Where's those 35 thousand e-mails Hillary? Oh she had to delete her yoga e-mails and all the stuff about Chelsea's wedding.

Call Donald Trump a liar all you want, it's a free country. But puh-leeze, don't act as if lying offends you when you are a fan of the pantsuited one and her horndog husband!

And I may not be doing as well financially as Rachel "Rhodes scholar" Maddow, but I AM a helluva lot smarter!

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Obviously, Maddow is smart because she got a bunch of idiots to tune into her show over a non-news story like stale old taxes.

Making money has to do with how much profit a celeb or jock generates. If an actor's movie makes 450 million at the box office, then yes, he should receive compensation in the millions. It's called capitalism. Do you prefer he receives minimum wage?

I agree that Drumpf is a failure and loser. And lazy and stupid, too. Dad gave him millions along with his political and business connections. Dummy Trump had most of his businesses fail. Dad had to bail him out of financial trouble, too. He cheats and steals and has no ethics whatsoever. BTW, we don't know his real networth because he is too afraid to release his taxes. I doubt he's a billionaire.

I hope you're joking about being a teacher considering you don't like gays nor women (lesbo; bimbo - your bigoted terms).

I like the way Republicans continue to bring up past presidents instead of defending the present boob in the White House.

Not way smarter if you believe Trump will help you in anyway.

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Yes Miss Maddow did get a "bunch of idiots" to tune into her show, your words , not mine. She does that a lot!

So what if I called her a lesbo? She IS!!!

Is lesbian now an insult? So I don't like gays or women???? You DO sound like the kneejerk name callers from the old Imdb board! After a grand total of TWO posts you "know" me. HA HA!

I am a female who is not a fan of the lefty, man hating feminists. If you want to call me a "woman hater.", whatever. I do hate when my gender acts as though it is better than men.

While teaching, I have had to deal with a lot of students spouting liberal rhetoric. I tried to set them straight when I could. But the government run schools love to indoctrinate the sheeple, easier to get them to vote for Democrats and their welfare programs which keep the citizenry under the government's thumb.

But of course YOU can call the President 'Drumf' (thinly disguised allusion to his German, I guess Nazi, roots.) And a "dummy" too. Nothing like a little hypocrisy from the left to start my day!! All of YOUR name calling is fine and dandy. You "doubt" if he's a billionaire? What difference does it make to you? First the left is pissed that he's rich, then mad that he's not. I think you're all nuts! lol

"Cheats , steals, no ethics" Now, now! Stay on topic. We were discusssing Trump, not the pantsuited goddess Hillary.

And calling Trump a"boob". Now, now and tsk, tsk! A very insulting reference to a female body part! Sure YOU'RE not a woman hater? LOL


You "like" the way Republicans bring up past Presidents? Then you must have been over the moon and jumping with joy over the way Democrats brought up Bush 43 and Ronald Reagan all during Obama's presidency.

Interesting that you attempt to explain capitalism to ME! YEAH, I get it. IF a performer or athlete brings in millions to his employer, he is duly compensated. No problem there. I agree with that. I was pointing out that it doesn't necessarily make them SMARTER than the average person. It just means that they have something to sell that people are willing to buy. I never said that they should get minimum wage. If they are worth millions to their employer, it is the employer's right to pay them. Unlike what the LEFT thinks, "Oh boo hoo, it is so unfair that some people 'accrue wealth' , 'get' a lot of money, get an 'unfair share' of the money that is out there". Like, yes of course, money is lying around and the greedy people scoop it up!! It's all unfair "income redistribution" to the loony left.

Money is earned, not redistributed!, unless of course you are on welfare or some other government program. Take a course in basic Economics will ya, then get back to me.



And yeah, way smarter than Lesbo Maddow. I don't expect Pres. Trump's help. Like our Founding Fathers, I expect nothing from the Federal government except for it to stay the HELL OUT of my way! You need to read some of the more brilliant economists of our day. May I suggest Dr. Tom Sowell or Dr. Walter E. Williams. Government can do very little to help, but its interference can cause a world of hurt. I never expected anything from government, my late father taught me that. Not health care, not free stuff, not support if I chose to have babies out of wedlock (which I didn't, btw)

Unlike the left, I never saw Wash D.C. as Santa Claus come to my rescue. I mainly voted for Trump (and would've voted for anyone) to keep that evil Hillary Clinton OUT of the White House. Smart? YeaH, she'd make a great used car salesman or a snake oil salesman in a traveling carnival.

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Yes, the word lesbo is derogatory. The word lesbian is fine. A little tolerance goes a long way.

Not too long ago, a working wife needed her husband's written permission to get her own credit card from a bank. You should be thanking feminists for some of the rights that you take for granted.

Father and son discriminated against blacks and Hispanics in housing. His racist father was also arrested during a Klan riot. Not to mention the appeal of Drumpf to David Duke and his white supremacists friends.

Boob: (Merriam-Webster definition) a foolish or stupid person.
Why were you thinking about boobies? Are you a closeted lesbian? LOL.

"Money is earned, not redistributed!"
Republicans redistribute money from the middle-class to the rich all the time. You're going to be paying for the rich's tax cuts when your taxes go up.

"I don't expect Pres. Trump's help."
That's good because you were never going to get it.

YOU were the one crying about celebs and jocks making millions - not the "Left". BTW, making millions from scratch is smart. It takes hard work, discipline, skills and brains. The only one who sounds jealous of them is you.

Right-wing propaganda books. No thanks. Real economic books to read are: Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Kiyosaki; How to Make Money in the Stock Market by O'Neil; The Millionaire Fastlane by Demarco.

"I never expected anything from government...Not health care, not free stuff"
Actually, it's not free when you're actually paying for it through your taxes. You settle for so little in life that it's kind of sad.

I was actually hoping that Drumpf would be independent and smart. Work with both parties to improve the lives of the middle-class who are suffering, lower the deficit, and create a strong economy. His policies are the complete opposite. Trade war, stimulus nonsense, military wasteful spending, gutting programs that prevent out of wedlock babies, repeated incompetence re: military strikes on ISIS, a lazy careless Trumpcare plan, not to mention the bigoted orders he keeps regurgitating.

Total disappointment.

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Okay keelai, thanks for the post. I am trying to be nicer to liberals here than I was on the old IMDB board. Trying to turn over a new leaf. So I'll keep it civil. I hope! lol Okay, I'll use lesbian from now on and not lesbo. But I hardly see the difference when gays are so proud that they march in parades, wearing clown make-up, sometimes dressed as nuns, shoving their lifestyle down everyone else's throats. But I really do NOT have a problem with gays. I have gay relatives (who doesn't).

I confess to making the lesbo remarks just to rile up the straight left wingers who go bananas over "intolerance". They seem to tolerate only those who agree with them,namely NOT conservaties.

Feminists sure helped push for legal rights for women. I really DO know that. I was watching an old Honeymooners episode where Ralph was laid off from the bus company and Alice took a job in an office in the meantime. She had to tell her boss that she was single because it was "office policy" not to hire married women. Yes I do know these things. I am not taking legal rights for granted. My objection to today's "all inclusive" feminism comes from feminists totally disregarding women like Condoleeza Rice, Sarah Palin, Kellyanne Conway, etc, etc, because they are on the wrong side of the political aisle. It's no longer about women , it's about Leftwing women. And heaven forbid if you are a pro-life woman, or anti- abortion ...whatever you want to call it. Today's feminists disregard conservative women and want to emasculate men. According to their "openmindedness" you either agree with what they say or you are the enemy.

Boob? YOU used the term first! So what's with the "closeted lesbian" remark? A slur? An insult? Why insult me for being a "secret" lesbian if homosexuality is so normal and wonderful!! You lefties speak out of both sides of your mouths, ya know that? No not closeted, more like Elaine on a Seinfeld episode. She was the "best man" at a lesbian wedding. "I'm not a lesbian. I hate men, but I'm not a lesbian!!" Me? Just divorced and happily leading a man-free, romance free life. I have found other, more important things to focus on in middle age (if you need to know!).

"Crying" about celebs and jocks making millions? You think some of today's movie stars make millions from their "brains"??? LOL

Seriously? I pointed out a fact and you think I am sobbing! You totally missed my point there! Again, money is earned ,not redistributed, unless of course you want to take into account our welfare system which pays teen-agers to have babies out of wedlock and pays illegals to cross the border and collect benefits.

"Republicans redistribute money from the middle class to the rich". Well you MUST be enrolled in a liberal dumbass college, taking liberal dumbass courses from liberal dumbass professors who teach liberal dumbass nonsense.

Interesting that you call books by Drs. Sowell and Williams "right wing propaganda". Have you read any of their writings or was that just a typical kneejerk, leftwing response? I would suggest that you start small and just read some of their articles and essays on line. Go to Jewish World Review and read some of what they have to say before labeling them "right wing". Dr Sowell in particular was no fan of Donald Trump. Doesn't like him and didn't want him to be President. Both men are way more libertarian than conservative in their philosophies.

Curious that you cite a book about "how to make money" in the stock market. I remember Bill and Hillary excoriating the "greedy Reagan eighties" when people were so gauche, greedy and ill-mannered as to WANT to make money! LOL Yeah, as if they didn't make millions themselves. Hillary just had a lot of "luck" with those cattle futures. ha ha I have no problem at all with making money. It is the government propensity for TAKING money from people who have earned it and GIVING it to those who haven't that I find troubling.

And of course, it's NOT FREE STUFF. That is the point that conservatives have been trying to hammer home to the lefties, without results. Nothing is free. It may be FREE to the recipient, but someone else is paying for it. No kidding. I don't disagree wih you on that.

"I settle for so little in life that it is sad"???? Because I don't expect Big Daddy government to support me?? That's sad? Because I expect to pay my own way and not rely on a bunch of Washington politicians to support me, it's sad? Because I'd rather rely on MYSELF and not Santa Claus in Washington to support me, that's sad?

What did YOU expect from a Hillary Presidency? Free birth control, like Sandra Fluck? Free abortions? Food stamps, free health care? Hillary was all for telling the gullible that she'd provide their heart's desire. Click those ruby slippers together Dorothy. You' ll get what you want. And I AM sad? Seriously , get a clue!! lol

What's sad is that you have bought into the socialist crap that is ruining our country!!

Okay so now Pres. Trump is evil cos David Duke likes him. Why does the left barf up the totally irrelevant David Duke every few years? Does anyone have control over who supports them anyway? Did the left go apesh#t when Reverend Jeremiah Wright said "g##damn America" and Obama sat for it and sat in his church for twenty years?? Was the former President responsible for his pastor's beliefs?

And please don't try to give off that phony narrative about your "hopes" for a Trump presidency. Like most lefties, I really think you hoped he would go down in flames and explode. No need to be insincere.

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Criticizing Trump doesn't automatically make someone a liberal. I have major problems with both parties. I also had major problems with both Clinton and Trump as candidates.

Fiscally, I'm conservative (Austrian economic model - not destructive Keynesian which both parties follow) and believe the deficit needs to decrease or it will destroy our economy. I don't believe in stimulus spending because it doesn't work and is bad economics.

Both Republicans and Democrats DO redistribute money from the middle-class to the rich".
Have you forgotten the $700 billion (really trillions) given to the banks during the Banking Crisis? That's middle-class money redistributed to the banks for losing their gambling bets with people's homes.
Have you forgotten Reaganomics? Tax breaks for the rich who bought luxuries and moved factories to Mexico with middle-class money. Middle-class taxes went up (sin tax and local taxes, not to mention local layoffs due to less Federal funds).

Where I live, real estate developers are getting huge tax breaks to develop luxury housing for the rich. Why do they need tax breaks when there is a severe shortage of housing for the middle-class?

I was hoping the Trump campaign rhetoric was just that and he would make sound policies and help the middle-class. After seeing his hateful policies and incompetence, I have given up on him and would like to see him impeached before he does too much damage. I can't believe that you don't see his incompetence.

Question for you:
Person A wants to achieve a goal. Person B blocks person A from achieving the goal. Does person B create a problem for person A?

Feminist and Republican women don't have the same goals. If freedom of choice is a feminist issue, but a Republican woman is against that, then it creates a distraction instead of staying focused on achieving a goal which is why they are excluded.
If Republican women want to believe that feminists just want to emasculate men, then why are they complaining about being included, anyway?

"Boob? YOU used the term first!"
But, you were the one who immediately thought about female body parts. LOL!

I replied "It takes hard work, discipline, skills and brains - not just brains". So name one rich star who doesn't have at least one of these?

Sowell's articles pop-up in Investor Business Daily. Just googled Williams, and yes, both are right-wing propagandists.
Instead, I recently read "Trumped! A Nation on the Brink of Ruin... And How to Bring It Back" by David Stockman. Excellent book! A Republican writing the truth without the biased nonsense.

"Because I expect to pay my own way and not rely on a bunch of Washington politicians to support me."
The money isn't coming out of THEIR pockets. It's YOUR tax dollars. Why don't you want it returned to you in the form of better services? I repeat, it's not a Freebie!

Like attracts like. Obviously something disturbing is attracting the Klan to Trump. I don't like hateful people. Not from my "liberal" education, but parochial school education. You know, treat others the way you want to be treated. Love others the way you love thyself. Blame the nuns!

BTW, I do appreciate your trying to keep it civil. I am, also. I notice that there is less overall hostility with Moviechat than with IMDB.

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That's true, look at the people at Trump rallies, you can tell just by looking at them that they're inbred morons. It's hard for a sensible person to get elected in the U.S. because there are so many stupid people, gun nuts and religious fanatics out there.

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Tiffany Trump was born out of wedlock, too. Trump had to marry Marla because he didn't want Tiffany to be illegitimate. In contrast, Sanders is a former hippy so who cares?

Sanders didn't write that women enjoyed being raped. The article was part social commentary and part satire re: the changing gender roles during the 1970s women movement. The paragraph about rape had to do with sex rape fantasies that men and women have and the reason for them as it pertains to those gender roles.

Full article link:
http://www.motherjones.com/files/Man_and_Woman_0.jpg

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Even then, Sanders was said to have regret writing the article anyway because of the implication that women enjoy getting raped

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Sanders regretted it publicly, but privately was probably thinking how stupid the American public is for having such low reading comprehension.

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So what's wrong with being "born out of wedlock"? Does the left even recognize that as an actual negative condition these days? The majority of black babies and almost half of white and Hispanic babies are born that way today, thanks to the welfare policies of the left. I'd say that Donald Trump was just bucking the popular trend!

The "low reading comprehension" of the average American is mostly due to the government run education system. Don't knock it. LOL The average Washington politician owes his success to the ignorance of the American voter.

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"So what's wrong with being "born out of wedlock"?"
Marla Maples wanted to marry Trump, but he didn't want marriage. People told her to get pregnant, but she wouldn't for a long time. Eventually, she "accidentally" became pregnant and he was "forced" to marry her since he didn't want his child "out-of-wedlock". She was congratulated for "tricking him into marriage" by the public and the media. True story.

BTW, a single mother is more likely to have children raised in poverty. Also, sends a message that men aren't important in the raising of children which isn't true. Children shouldn't be stigmatized, but what's wrong with marriage?

"The "low reading comprehension" of the average American is mostly due to the government run education system."
Sounds like passing the buck considering that you're a teacher.

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" Born out of wedlock " is now a serious issue to the left ? The same left that champions infanticide ? But then again, maybe there's a consistency there that signals a perverse agenda.

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I'm not speaking for "the left". Stop stereotyping me.

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" A gossip , mysogynist and homophobe, rolled into one. " That's not stereotyping ? It's a favorite tactic of the left. And that's just the tip of the iceberg. You have been; ever encounter the expression " If the shoe fits, wear it ? "

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""Born out of wedlock " is now a serious issue to the left ?"

Why are you assuming I am "the left" and I am representing "the left"? What I write is MY personal opinion. I'm not representing anyone else.



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That true story about Marla Maples, okay if you say so. I never spent much time reading up on her or Trump. I have never thought it was a good idea to "trick" a man into marriage. Sounds like a soap opera plot. You'd think that Donald Trump would've been smart enough not to be 'tricked" into marriage by a gold digger. After all, he must've known where babies come from. lol

Your second paragraph- totally agree with it. Sounds like we are arguing for no good reason. YES, single mothers are likely to raise children in poverty. Not to get too religious here, but God did create the family so that a man AND a woman would raise children together. Unless a woman has a lot of money or a job that pays big bucks, it is so hard to raise children alone The message that "men aren't important"???Oh I totally agree! The 1960's ushered in the era of the welfare system where the father was replaced by a check from the government. A total disaster.

Maybe I worded my post wrongly or stupidly. But I have NO problerm with marriage. It is the best way to raise children. I was just doing a "kneejerk" response to the left's idea that women can do it alone and men are just not important to raising children. Folks on the left often have no problem with single motherhood, it's just another lifestyle. I was thinking that was your belief too. Sorry if I got it wrong! No, I don't think that fathers are not important. Actually, I've spoken to men who have worked in prisons. I have worked in places with incarcerated youths. And the majority of boys (and later, men) who end up in the system grew up without fathers. Children, especially boys, need strong,positive male role models.

"Passing the buck"? Don't blame me! LOL I mostly worked as a substitute teacher and I had to go by what was given to me to teach. For one thing, I TOTALLY hated the "sight reading" way of teaching children to read. It was part of the curriculum and I thought it was just plain stupid. I learned phonics. That was the way we learned to read. The current education model is trying to "re-invent the wheel" and it is so dumb! I tried my best to teach students how to read but I also came up against the politically correct "don't hurt their feelings" method.

It was so frustrating. Students think that "correcting" them means that you are insulting them. I would go out of my way to explain that I was TEACHING, not insulting! We were not even supposed to use RED pencils to correct written work because it was deemed too harsh.

And reading is something you learn through practice and experience. I'd ask kids what they were doing over the weekend or holidays and they were mostly going to play games on their computers. I would tell them, "READ A BOOK!!" lol I have been a lifelong reader. But if the parents of these kids don't step up to plate and make their kids read, how can teachers? I bought my own son many books when he was little. I read to him all the time. However, today's parents don't seem to be that interested in reading.

Not trying to "pass the buck." I'd make everyone get a library card if I could!

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Maybe Trump trusted Marla to take birth control. Who knows? There are photos of Trump being yelled at by his then wife, Ivana, because he bought his then mistress Marla on a family ski vacation with their three children. He's been in the tabloids and my local papers since that time. Journalists love a good soap opera.

The government actively encouraged girls/women not to marry by giving them a welfare check with a free apartment, medicaid and food stamps if they weren't married. Clueless bureaucrats and politicians created the epidemic of unwed mothers. I knew women who didn't marry a live-in boyfriend (with a middle-class job) in order to get a check for their kid.

The out of wedlock children isn't a "Left" lifestyle. There are plenty of people on the "Right" who are doing the same exact thing and have the same attitude. My guess is people didn't want to continue to stigmatize out-of-wedlock children which is why it became acceptable.
I hate to sound pessimistic, but there is a shortage of "strong, positive male role models" which is another reason why women don't want to marry them.

"Sight reading" sounds like "bureaucrats" trying to justify their salary. Reading should be fun. I worked as a tutor in summer school and would give kids comic books because I knew they would read them. Even the right video game could be helpful. Assassin's Creed teaches history and Creed 3 has plenty of text to read about the American Revolution. When I was six, the elementary school teachers had the students walk to the library to get a library card and take out books for the first time.

There are segments of the population that believe a good education makes a person a snob so it's discouraged. I used to hear it in my neighborhood from some people and I know it exists among Conservatives when they use a term like "elitist". Even Trump bragged about not reading books which sends the wrong message.

I didn't know that "correcting" children was discouraged now. Scary. That's a whole generation growing up too thin-skinned to deal with life. I suppose that's where the term "snowflake generation" originated. Self-esteem is important, but so are constructive criticism and learning from mistakes.

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True, didn't mean to imply "out of wedlock" births are a left or right issue. They are mostly an issue of people who don't consider the consequences of their actions, nothing to do with politics! "Clueless bureacrats", yeah! But sometimes I think they are not so clueless as they are clever. They create a dependent class who ends up with no alternative but to vote for THEM because they are financially screwed.

Trump "bragged" about not reading books? Pwople who brag about NOT being readers should be flogged! lol I have been a lover of books since I learned how to read. Good grief! You learn so much that way! Even more than what you learn in school.

Yeah "correcting" students must be done so carefully now, lest you hurt their feelings! I was lucky to grow up with teachers who used the RED pen and made corrections without worying about your "feelings".

I was a substitute, but the regular teachers didn't have much latitude either. The curriculum was set and they had no choice but to follow it. And it has been SO dumbed down! Just one example, teachers seemed to be too afraid to force kids to memorize their times tables! When I was in school we had to write them over and over...and over again. It's a surefire way to learn things. But we weren't supposed to force kids to do actual WORK which might be uncomfortable.

I'd have students in the elementary who couldn't multiple but yet we were supposed to go on to long division. I'd see these same kids when I had class at the junior high.

I'd think, "HOW can you kids be here learning algebra when you can't multiply or divide?"

Our whole educational system is messed up. Students would turn in compositions with spelling and grammer mistakes that needed to be corrected. But like I wrote, we were discouraged from using RED ink because it was deemed "too negative." Well I had nuns in school, and they really did not care if they hurt your feelings! They were just concerned that you learned. Now it's all about feelings.

Anyway, thanks for the post, I enjoy adult discussions!!

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Children born out of wedlock appears to be a worldwide trend except in Asia and the Middle East. Iceland is at 70%.

I remember red pen marks in elementary school, but the teachers used to encourage us with stars. A red star was good, two stars better, but everyone coveted the large gold star. As I became older, teachers assumed students could be corrected without a problem.

My father used to read encyclopedias in his leisure. He bought a set for my brother and me when I was six and we picked up the same habit. I have a great library system in my county. Free books! I'm in there a few times a week.

Trump bragging about being a nonreader could've been his lying, but his behavior reminds me of teens in my neighborhood who used to brag about failing classes.

The educational system is horrible. A coworker showed me how her daughter was taught to do addition using common core. It was very complicated and took a long time.

"How can you kids be here learning algebra when you can't multiply or divide?" It sounds like your school system is passing children from grade to grade without teaching them the skills. That was a huge controversy in my city. I doubt if they solved anything.

I used to work with the public who had to complete forms. Most of them couldn't write a simple sentence without errors.

Thank you for your post, too. It's interesting to learn about what's going on in other parts of the country. Moviechat is saner than imdb was. Most of the trolls from imdb haven't found this site yet. LOL.

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