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What is WRONG with you people?

posted 10 years ago by ginbug1371
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I don't understand how mean & cruel people can be, especially about people they don't even know!!! So what if there is an age difference, or that some may find him better looking than her? You have NO IDEA of who they really are, nor what they see in each other! Maybe if people started looking at what & who a person is on the inside instead of just judging the outside, then maybe we would all be worthy of unconditional love & find REAL happiness!!

So to all of you mean, cold hearted, & worst of all EMPTY people: GROW UP, GET OVER YOUR SHALLOW NEED TO PROJECT YOUR OWN MIRRORED JUDGEMENT ON OTHERS & IF, (and that's a big if!) It is not already too late, LEARN from those w/o vision, HOW TO SEE BEYOND YOUR EYES!!!! Otherwise, you will remain "BLIND" to what REAL BEAUTY is waiting for you to see!!!

[–] movie80 10 years ago

I agree with you.
Their private life, none of anyone's business.

[–] nkabindean 10 years ago

I personally am happy for her she looks like a wonderful person. I wish I could be her friend. Age is just that. It doesn't change who you are.

[–] newt_jorden 10 years ago

Maybe if people started looking at what & who a person is on the inside instead of just judging the outside

It would be nice if it would be that way. But people nowadays mostly judge other on the outside, and it will probably remain that way.

[–] ginbug1371 10 years ago

All change starts w/ 1 person.

[–] liverpool26 10 years ago

I see what your trying to say this is my first comment on the subject, people do have a point with the age thing he was 19 she was 43 thats 24 years older. lets pretend he was 19 and she was 15 thats 4 years younger Aaron would be a pedophile and go to prison. So how can we say 4 year age gap is too much but a 24 year age gap is ok. I have no problem with their relationship but can see why some people do.

Would you defend a 39 year old dating a 15 year old? At what point does age no longer matter because our ancestors had no problem with 12-13 year olds marrying adults.

[–] christian-koehn 10 years ago

it's actually very simple. if you are 18 it's ok. if your partner is under 18 it's not. how you could link that to the obvious 39 year old pedophile case and present it like one could theoretically get confused when seeing other cases of age difference is beyond me

[–] liverpool26 10 years ago

Its not that simple though your just saying that because the law in your country says 18 but the age of consent varies in different countries and not so long ago it was legal to marry 13 year olds.

You have no problem with 24 year age gap because he was 18 but if she was 18 and he was 15 in most countries that would make her a pedophile despite there only being 3 year age gap.

[–] Irish_Moon 10 years ago

"All change starts w/ 1 person" Amen sister! I knew there was an age differents but I didn't know it was that big. My mind may wander a bit with the who's? what's? and whys? but end the end it's their life. May they enjoy what ever time they have with each other. Who to say what works and why. You can get divorced or break up at any time. From 0 to 60 years in. Enjoy what you have today.