What if she transitioned to African-American?
She would probably no longer be able to get any roles. It would be an outrage and offensive to black people.
But transitioning to a man? Sure, no problem. And men are not allowed to be offended.
How is this not hypocrisy? If we embrace transgendered people then we should also embrace transracial people.
Or you know... just call a woman a woman no matter what is going on in her head.