her controversial quote explained
As I once said: "You know how it is when you know you are really sexy? On nights when I feel great about myself, if I walk into a room and a man doesn't look at me, he's either dead or gay."
What I meant was, sexuality comes from understanding how you feel about yourself. This applies to all women of all ages - and to men, too, actually. If you feel, "Goddamn, I'm sexy right now," well, then - so you are.