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"Obese” is the N word for plus-sized people

posted 2 years ago by DrAnitaBeEtinPhD (33)
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Calling people obese is more abusive and hateful than telling them they're fat. People need to control what goes out of their mouths and the slurs they use. Too many people are fatphobic and discriminatory against big-boned individuals. Being called obese is annoying, embarrassing, and tough to hear. I am a Fat-Affirming Dietician w/ a Ph.D. and I can positively tell you that having excessive body weight is NOT a choice.

So I ask all of you to be more considerate of your words and not to be fatphobic because fat lives do matter!

[–] capuchin (3298) 2 years ago

I know you're only goofing around but nevertheless I'll bite because the sentiments you express may be sincerely held by some people in the world...

Obesity is a widely recognised medical term. Indeed, clinical obesity is categorised as a disease by some organisations. Pretending the word 'obese' is a hateful slur is akin to pretending that 'jaundice' is a hateful slur.

If I were fat, I think I'd find Orwellian euphemisms like 'plus-sized' or 'big-boned' far more offensive (or at least more irritating) than straightforward and accurate language. It's like that old George Carlin routine, isn't it? You know the one? The one about 'shell shock' morphing into Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder?

Changing to softer, more circuitous language doesn't alter the reality of the condition.

[–] DrAnitaBeEtinPhD (33) 2 years ago

Well, maybe it is a term we should consider changing. It's a crude and very offensive word to people of a healthier nature. Calling a person that is thicker than you obese isn't any different than calling the Washington football team Redskins or using a pancake syrup that represents a stereotype that is premised on the idea of Black inferiority and otherness.

[–] Thaistickers (1537) 2 years ago

You have a fine mind and effective writing style. I will have to look up some of your post history to see if you have any more "morceaux savoureux."

[–] PaladinNJ (21629) 2 years ago

Obese is not a slur. It's a medical term.

[–] DrAnitaBeEtinPhD (33) 2 years ago

Obese became a slur the moment we started treating larger people worse than POC in this country.

[–] Octo (217) 2 years ago

STOP BEING FAT.

[–] MovieManCin2 (26342) 2 years ago

Amen!

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[–] Otter (24464) 2 years ago

Several medical terms have been changed because people came to see them as slurs, such as "retard", "mongoloid", or "hysteria". Medical terminology changes over time, because of fashion, or changes in thinking.

If people want to waste their lives railing against a medically descriptive word, it won't be the first time.

[–] Wint3rFir3 (7269) 2 years ago

No, it's not.

Fat people mostly just don't want to be dehumanized because of their size, you know, just like regular people don't want to be dehumanized based on anything regarding their appearance. Calling them obese may be factual to their existence, but if you're saying it to their face out of spite to bully them, as if they don't already know their own weight, then yes it can be demeaning, just like calling a bald person bald, for example. Bald people know they're bald, so there's no need to point it out unless you are in fact their physician and it relates to their health.

[–] DrAnitaBeEtinPhD (33) 2 years ago

The problem lies within the system. Systemic fat phobia tries to weigh down larger happier people. I'll feel much SAFER when I can order food inside a restaurant instead of having to order through the drive-thru because of judgment and discrimination.

Whenever I go to Mcdonald's I like to order a Big Mac combo meal with extra Big Mac sauce, Double Quarter Pounder with Cheese combo meal, 2 Deluxe Crispy Chicken sandwiches w/ BBQ sauce, never spicey because spicey food gives me heartburn, and 3 Apple Pies with a Carmel Sundae on the side. Everything is super-sized with diet cokes of course.

[–] Wint3rFir3 (7269) 2 years ago

I can't tell if you're being facetious or not, but I don't know if I agree that systemic fatphobia has anything to do with feeling safe enough to order food from McDonalds. I don't know anyone who feels unsafe ordering food from McDonalds, regardless of weight.

[–] WandererFromYs (2347) 2 years ago

People need to control what goes out of their mouths

If people could just control what goes IN their mouths there would be no obesity

[–] DrAnitaBeEtinPhD (33) 2 years ago

Skinny women might fit the beauty standard, but I have a bigger heart.

[–] Mrmojo4700 (21602) 2 years ago

So this is a new user’s first post on a movie forum and it’s getting sincere replies?

Come on everyone. Stop replying to this kind of BS.

[–] Stratego (30822) 2 years ago

You are a weird troll.

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78051) 2 years ago

Yup. But then again we’re all a little bit weird😉

[–] DrAnitaBeEtinPhD (33) 2 years ago

I'm sorry if I offended you but maybe the problem is that you are fatphobic.

[–] R_Kane (15828) 2 years ago

Isn’t it ironic that your name is I Need To Be Eating?

There are real health dangers with obesity. For every pound of adipose (fat) tissue we have, our heart needs to pump ONE MILE more through our system.

[–] DrAnitaBeEtinPhD (33) 2 years ago

In light of all that you have stated police shootings affect the plus-sized community substantially more than heart disease since we are both bigger targets and have a harder time running away.

[–] Stratego (30822) 2 years ago

Ah, it seems I offended your trolling skills...again. As I've said before, get out of your mom's basement, D-feet, and get a job.🍆

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78051) 2 years ago

Ha! Is it that waste of life again?

What a piece of shit.

[–] DrAnitaBeEtinPhD (33) 2 years ago

I'm not sure who you think I am, but I can assure you I am not them. I am not here to offend or fight with any members of this forum. Even if you disagree with my introduction, it is not necessary to use violence or hateful words. One can only conclude both of you have deep seeded ill feelings toward plus-sized people.

The heavier community isn't any different than you. We have emotions and feelings that can be hurt just like any other human. No need for name-calling. Once again, I apologize if I offended you.

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78051) 2 years ago

Bullshit.

[–] lud (5933) 2 years ago

Even fat people mock other fat people.

I saw that plenty of times. So, don't feel sorry for them.

[–] DrAnitaBeEtinPhD (33) 2 years ago

If you took my post as mocking larger people then maybe the problem is within yourself. Your reply comes off as very discriminatory and fatphobic. I made a promise to never stop standing up against fatphobic people, but my ankles hurt a little so I’m going to sit down for now.

[–] lud (5933) 2 years ago

I'm not fatphobic.

I was very fat few years ago and I know what I'm talking about.

Now I'm fit and trust me when I was fat plenty of fat people were calling me fat,obese making fun of me.

[–] April-151-CT (10210) 2 years ago

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[–] ShogunofYonkers (78051) 2 years ago

Spot on🎯