If you don't mind, I'm just going to answer your question hypothetically and not address your example in the prompt. Others have given good feedback in that area.
Please don't take my following words as harsh or inconsiderate. Your question presumes that we can change the world around us; that's only partially true. We can however, change who we are. Once this happens, then changing the world would be a whole lot easier because people wouldn't be afraid to be who they are while still treating others with respect and kindness.
Sometimes, even when we're trying to be gentle, generally speaking, we're not always going to be treated the same in turn. Agreeing to disagree is one of the better outcomes here.
This is a pretty deep conversation you have going on with others. And, it's remarkably civil; the back and forth responses and everything.
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