This show was addictive. I watched with my girlfriend and we definitely had different takes on a lot of it. I think that may be expected.
Who do you relate to? Are any of the characters "likeable"? Who's actions are justified?
By Episode 9, I liked all the characters, which kinda surprised me. They grew on me, and I saw them all as deeply flawed, more flawed than most, and people I would steer clear of in real life, but still, I enjoyed watching following the zigs and zags in their lives. I think they're the kind of people you can know in real life who are messed up, but you still harbor hope that they'll work out their issues.
"Whose actions are justified?" I guess I'd say Judy, who's trying to fix things, even if she breaks more things along the way. Her heart is in the right place--if only her life skills would catch up.