Wow deathtopixies - you . are. way . way. off. The movie tries not to preach and to let people think for themselves but man, this just shows just how truly people see things that are unhealthy, dangerous, damaging and plain old immoral, differently from their own context. Some mothers should be locked up for the abuse they inflict and or allow on their children. The children grow up and become narcissistic, self indulgent monsters. Vices and all. Whew. Listen, I respect your opening up about growing up poor with a rough childhood. I had an ex girlfriend who grew up horribly poor and with a mom similar to this one, who was also molested by her dad. But I really disagree with you that you see the girl as "stuck up (really wow?!). She's trying to live an honest, good life and one of faith. That takes guts! Especially in the face of her "hip," "ironic," cynical subculture. Man, that's truly punk. I love her!!!!
Today my ex is best friends with her mom (because she can't open up and have real friends) and her jacked up mom advises her to do illegal, dehumanizing things (like be a sugar baby online to say a few!) and doesn't realize that her mom actually contributed to her unsafe environment growing up. She doesn't want to admit it. Now, she's a heavy, heavy drug user, kicked out when she was a teen and the girl now is a diagnosed sex addict (believe me its real) and does other things that can't be written about here. She's punk and I used to like the goth / punk movement too - but not since I met her. Her environment is so toxic and her childhood was so toxic it will take amazing therapy and a great sponsor to get her into being a productive member of society and not do the things that became normalized to her when she was growing up.
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