I'm Asperger's so I'm the slightly more functional cousin to Autistic, so I can say I see it from both angles.
Yeah, for us, it's NOT a bad thing, because we grow up with it, can cope with it, and live our lives around our quirks and alterations, just like a kid born without a limb or whatever, lives their life around it to the point they don't even imagine a life with that limb.
But for parents or people who don't think like we do, don't relate, don't see the world as we do, it IS a bad thing. A parent is supposed to guide and mould and teach and help their child into adulthood, and when a "normie" parent cannot relate in any way whatsoever to how an autistic child operates it is stressful, and anguishing, because not only is there "in the moment" stress to deal with, but also the stress of foresight, where you have to imagine all the difficulties and problems and potentials ahead of them. Every day becomes a struggle to make sure they adapt and can work properly.
Empathy is one of those things some autistic people can have issue with; just remember that as irritating and awkward and weird as normal people seem to you, it's the same with how they view you.
Functional autism is great, no argument here; but remember that there are still extreme cases around, and those are so horrible for everyone involved, not just the "normies".
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It's me....Bara...it's always bloody Bara!
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