It just does not feel like star Trek

I watched all the Trek show. As a kid my fav was Voyager. I enjoyed all of them, heck even Enterprise had it's moment. But Discovery...It just does not have the star trek feel to it, not even a bit. In all the star trek show within the middle of the season we would get extremely familiar with the crew, we would know their respective roles and each of their character (His the funny one, she's the badass etc..) but in Discovery I feel nothing about that crew. I tried to watch the show several times, thinking maybe I was just tiered when I tried watching it but every time I feel extremely underwhelmed by this crew. I genuinely do not care if they all die. Instead of having crew members I like the most, I have more crew members I hate the least. One character I absolutely cannot stand is the one played by Anthony Rapp, he has zero charisma and his love story comes out as flat and boring, I know they were trying to be progressive but these actors were not the right choice. In my opinion Discovery is a charmless mess and would attract a lot of people that does not like Star Trek in the first place as it does not feel like Trek at all.