Did a lot of people not get the theme?
To me it was about A woman's refusal to let go of the past and move on, and as a result "Diana", a manifestation of the negativity, eventually dragged down and destroyed people like Billy Burke's character, Rebecca's father, the cops, etc. As a result Rebecca suffers the same to a degree of her mother's demons. She can't move on and is stuck in the past, and she almost anchors and drags down her boyfriend. The visual storytelling and color symbolism explain the theme. Both the mother and becca live in dated homes, with vintage and decades old furnishings and amenities, and the colors they wear and the colors around both their homes are pretty dull and lifeless.
The movies about learning to let go, before your demons drag others down and destroy them