Well Isundling, you have to look way beyond your pre-established contemporary view: saying you have to teach both daughter and son what is appropriate conduct is a very good start in the idea...which can very quickly turn into you doing the same mistake so many mother do which to mentally disorient your son.
For exemple my generation grew up with the idea of "bad boy vs nice guy". Abusive mothers were the one repeatedly telling their sons they somehow have specifically respect girls, like they were so kind of higher entity, put on a pedestal. Unfortunately the absolute truth of the situation was that bad boys were the only getting the girl, while nice guy were alone or even manipulated by girls. Which creates a dissonance that then evolves into the current generation of abusive guys because it's only a matter of time or age before most of them realise being a nice guy gets you *beep* while bad guys always get you girls.
In the other hand what we don't teach girl enough, is that men are not that important despite what the whole culture teaches them unlike men, and more importantly that bad, charming, seductive aka "easy" guys (which are the bad boys, *beep* etc...) are *beep* deep inside.
The huge problem is that my generation was very light in comparison to the new one which is growing up with another paradigm "the beating abusive "alpha" male vs the emasculated wimp afraid of rape accusation". This generation is going to be so *beep* up in a few years, because we're teaching them through feminism that if you dare even speak to a women unsolicitedly somehow you're a rapist, which crushed feeble guy's mind into thinking being "nice" is not touching a girl in anyway to "respect" her, until because they need love and realise that girl in turn will never do one single *beep* step towards them, but somehow always go for the guy, you know the *beep* who "abuses" her or even beats her, he'll become worse.
And this is even more difficult with girls, because of the feminist propaganda, which has made most women or girls integrate, that somehow liberation and elevation is attained through "sexual freedom", not respect and achievements, that men are somehow privileged and so women don't have to work or take responsibility because it's "men's fault", but most importantly this constant infantilisation of women, is making them unconsciously integrate that because "it's men's fault", then it mean they are depending on men, and that's when you get false ideas like "he abuses/beats me, because I made a mistake and he likes me" like this movie is depicting.
I won't go further than that, for example last century History is very interesting to explain that, but there's a reason why as of now, this far, for the past 50.000 years of civilisation women have never been put into power, and regularly be deprived of the freedom they have today: to avoid this terrible situation. This is sad, maybe we can evolve past that, but right now feminism has set the deep root causes for the upcoming backlash that will sent us 50 years back.
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