I was shocked, years later, when the jerk who abused me for 4 years told me "Steve, this was 15 years ago, you really need to move on and get over it!"
This guy ruined my life and had the nerve to think it weird that I still thought about the night he and the other guys on the football team sexually abused me.
Whoa. So sorry to hear that. Unfortunately abusers tend to blame their victims. It's a shameful thing! You have every right to be upset even if it happened decades ago.
sharePrimemover, I'm really sorry. I'm guessing you might have some deep issues as a result of your bullying and rape. I was molested and bullied by my father for years and bullied by many other people outside of my family as well - too many to count. And I've found the only thing that has given me any degree of peace is meditation.
I wish the best for you.
I have a hard time believing the football team raped a guy
shareNot to long ago a groups od straight college males stuck ping pong balls up a drunk guy's butt. They all got charged with rape.
shareRape is not about sex, affection, love or any of the things people generally think it is about. It is completely and entirely about exerting control over another using violence. Gender does not matter in the least.
shareThe football team members sexually abused you, and your name is 'Steve' (even if that is an alias, I am assuming you are implying you are male).
My experience is that while those types are often bullies and will sexually assault girls, they are not going to do something that is seen as being homosexual.
Yes, male rape isn't discussed enough in this country. I was forced to orally pleasure 7 members of that football team.
If you take it up the butt,that might degrade your masculinity in the eyes of others-you'll be the fag! But if you force yourself on other men/guys you're even tougher than ever,the one in control and the raped guy is the pussy/girl,the one to be mocked at.
This is how this male rape culture works. They do not rape 'cause they're attracted to the other guy , they do it because overpowering someone in such brutal way gives them sadistic pleasure. Sexual abuse serves that purpose,scarring both mind and body,beating up doesn't.
I was too
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