These people should listen to "The Trailer Song" by Kacey Musgraves
And act like their neighbor is singing it to them and do what it says. Look up the lyrics if you want to see what I mean. http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/kaceymusgraves/trailersong.html
"I'd rather lose for what I am than win for what I ain't"
Kacey Musgraves "Pageant Material"