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Spineless

posted 8 years ago by sunsoullove
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I will probably get hate for this but out of Nick the Dick, Heather the ice queen, Derreck the mysoginist druggie, i still find Sonia the absolute worst! Annoying beyond belief. Every little quirk this girl has grates my nerves. But mostly, as woman i am offended at how spineless she is. She has no voice, original opinions, boundaries. She allows Nick to treat her like sh*t, she basically sets the tone that she comes second. Moving out couldve been a statement to Nick were she assertive about it. But she still goes out on giggly awkward dates, laughs at all his jokes, kisses his a*s and doesnt flat out address the issue or take a firm stance. This is the first month of marriage and hes an a-hole to her. ImAgine 2 years down the line. She is an insecure mess!!! I want to shake her!!!

[–] I_Love_Reality_TV 8 years ago

So tell us something we don't already know.

[–] witchaphrodite 8 years ago

This post just proves that it is a no win situation. A person decides that they don't want to be in a relationship with the person the way Heather did, they get branded an ice queen. If they decide to stick it out, they get called spineless. Of course this is without knowing what happens in the reunion episode next week. It is possible that Sonia decided that things needed to end.

[–] sunsoullove 8 years ago

Heather isnt an ice queen because she ended it. I applaud her for that. Shes just has a holier than thou attitude problem, very icy.

[–] misterbfd 8 years ago

Heather showed who she was before she bailed. And her friend confirmed who she is. Defending her at this point is kind of like rearranging the deck chairs on the Titanic. It's all for naught. We all saw who Heather is (at least based on the few minutes per week we saw her, and as confirmed by her friend's assessment of her).

And yes, Sonia is pretty awful. It is no wonder that she's blown several past LTR's. None of these people are prize catches... none of them. But what should we expect? They are people who agreed to go on a reality TV show and marry a total stranger. So they're either desperate, broken, unusual, difficult, or in it for the money.

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[–] witchaphrodite 8 years ago

In reality, most friends are going to have some harsh things to say about a person if they were to give a genuine critique. If someone you know well only has nice things to say about you, then they are either lying or you are a doormat.

[–] misterbfd 8 years ago

The point is not that the friend had harsh criticism -- that's what the show asked for -- but that the criticisms she gave are EXACTLY the impression that Heather gave during the time we got to see her. The point is that it wasn't editing or a misrepresentation -- her friend confirmed that the icy impression she gave TV viewers is, indeed, Heather IRL.

I don't have a problem with her bailing out. I personally thing a person who signs up for a six week experiment should stay for the whole six weeks. But no, there is no debate that ending it early is actually better for both parties.

The only debate here is whether or not Heather is really icy in real life, and her friend confirmed that she is. So I don't see how it is necessary to defend Heather against that impression when her friend says it's true.

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[–] witchaphrodite 8 years ago

You massively missed the point.

[–] pd3145 8 years ago

Don't worry. Sonia and Nick will be over for good at the reunion show.

[–] chet19 8 years ago

Nope!!!

[–] pd3145 8 years ago

Sonia's nice wrote online that they broke up. So they must have broken up after the reunion show

[–] chet19 8 years ago

I agree with SunsSoul.... I came here to post a similar comment, and I see others have already beaten me to it. It's refreshing to see that other viewers notice the same things I did. A guy who tells you that you're not attractive, and then the next day gets mad that you won't forget about it? Why take him back?