Nicole ,Danielle and Anfisa are 3 types of crazy that you want to stay
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Agree about the first two. Anfisa is not crazy. She is very rational, coldly so, in fact. Girl knows what she wants and how to get it. You may not like her, and indeed it would be good for any guy to steer clear of her if they want any kind of feeling from her, but she is not crazy.
shareI disagree. Being irrational, unstable , very all over the place emotionally, etc ....are NOT the only characteristics of CRAZY. Anfisa seems to have some sort of narcissistic personality disorder. People who are cold, calculated, and very clear in what they want doesn't make them sane. She is pretty cool and confident in what she wants but LOOK WHAT HAPPENS WHEN SHE DOESN'T GET WHAT SHE WANTS! Her behavior is NOT NORMAL for when she is denied something. It would be different if she threw a fit of being disappoint and it lasted 10 minutes or even a couple hours- everyone gets fussy and gets to their last nerve at some point but when her actions or behaviors in responding to not getting her way constantly compromises an individual's functioning and well-being and ultimately has a rather detrimental impact on the lives of both patients and their families. ( jorge).....think about it her "episodes" do not last just a little while then she becomes a RATIONAL HUMAN BEING - she stays irrational- far from what you claim- that she is VERY rational. No. Her episodes cause such dysfunction that it disrupts her and Jorge's quality of life from days on end. I mean one small episode of her narcissism and tantrums take such unhealthy terms that her and Jorge are acting in dysfuntional ways in attempt to resolve issues. thats not normal for Jorge to have to take a couple days off and do irrational things to try to get her to calm down. If this is just the tip of the ice berg on her throwing fits on purses and wedding dresses what is going to happen when they have kids or buy a house together or his family starts being more vocal about her behavior and how they really feel about her and start meddling? I could see Anfisa pulling some evil stuff when issues get MORE SERIOUS.
Anfisas cold, straight forward ways and the fact she isn't like someone like Nicole or Danielle means nothing- if anything Anfisa has symptoms of the WORST KINDS OF CRAZY! The one you can really not tell she is crazy unless you are intimate with her or know her behind closed doors... the ones that blend in with normal society...THOSE ARE THE SCARIEST KINDS OF CRAZY .... the top of the tier as far as mental illnesses go..... Anfisa shows many hints of a SOCIOPATH OR PYSCHOPATH....
Nicole and Danielle are crazy with their emotions. they have a heart, at least and a conscience. Anfisa lacks no remorse or cares for anyone but her self. so she can easily do alot of damage with her evil spirit and fail to get help or give a darn and keep on going ruining everything but getting away with it because she doesn't care and because she doesn't set off the crazy alarms like Danielle and Nicole.
Even Chanel. She is beyond immature. She should wait and grow up a little. She is hiding the info from her family. Look at the face she makes when he says the problem with her parents is because of her. She wanted things to be kept until days away. That girl needs to put her big pants on and take charge. She cowers when her parents speak. Well turns into a 5 yr old confused. She needs to woman up and be truthful with her family from day 1. Pedro didn't want to lie. She needs to take blame because it started with her. Will be interesting to see if she womans up or cowers in front of family.
shareAnfisa lacks no remorse or cares for anyone but her self. so she can easily do alot of damage with her evil spirit and fail to get help or give a darn and keep on going ruining everything but getting away with it because she doesn't care and because she doesn't set off the crazy alarms
I wouldn't agree with this. First of all, this is a tv show, so we don't know if she's playing a character. But let's say that she's real 100% ...
She doesn't give a damn about Jorge because Jorge doesn't give a damn about her. Both of them know that. She is clearly aware of this since she asked him "if I was sick and ugly would you still be with me" (or something to that effect), so because of that she treats him like crap. That doesn't mean that she would do the same to everybody. Sure, she wants from a man to have $$$, but that doesn't mean that she's not capable of loving anyone back.
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I think Anfisa believes that she looks a certain way and so she should have certain things. She sees Jorge as a way to get that. She wants to be a kept woman. It's what she aspires to and doesn't think love and marriage go together. Some women are good at pretending with men to get taken care of but Anfisa doesn't think she needs to. She's sees it like I bring looks to this relationship and you bring money. It's just a business deal. And I do feel like she is somewhat narcissistic because she is cruel and really only sees things through her perspective. She is freaking ugly though so it's kind of crazy to watch. Her lips are botched and she's just average. She's good at pushing what she has though apparently. I think Jorge cares for her more than she cares for him. It he obviously is a guy trying to get something out of his league so he can show it off. His values are off but he's. it cold and I think he would like to at least treat her nicely and have some sort of friendship.
shareShe's sees it like I bring looks to this relationship and you bring money. It's just a business deal. And I do feel like she is somewhat narcissistic because she is cruel and really only sees things through her perspective.
If that's how you see things (and I do agree with you), I don't see how she sees things only through her perspective. She did her part of the "business deal" - she's always well dressed, wears makeup, her hair is well kept, etc. However, he didn't complete his part of the "business deal" - bringing money.
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She has difficulty empathizing. She may be holding up her part of the deal but she is unnecessarily nasty. When two people have a business deal they are at least cordial. But she feels like she is the center of their inverse and other people's feelings don't matter.
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