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I feel bad for the child of dim-witted Nicole

posted 8 years ago by ChaCha44
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She is so desperate for affection and anyone with a brain in their head sees that Azan's only motive is US citizenship. Nicole is stubborn and immature and I fear for her child having her for a mother. Luckily herfamily seems to have more brain cells and can hopefully protect her little girl. She seems to suffer from very low self esteem but there is something about her that makes me want to slap her. She comes to another country and her romantic expectations remained the same even when the cultural differences were explained illustrated her lack of intelligence and maturity. Now back home, she expects her family to indulge her by taking on potential financial and legal responsibilities. It's obvious that they already provide her with supplemental financial support. Please let me slap this nit-wit.

[–] RiseyRisa 8 years ago

Someone please find out and tell me she doesn't have custody. She acts like a child herself. I don't understand the people who say she doesn't seem developmentally disabled. No, she DOES. No grown adult that's just "spoiled" acts like that. Nobody acts like that if that are of normal mental capacity.

[–] I_Love_Reality_TV 8 years ago

ChaCha did you forget Nicole thought Azan lived in Missouri? She'd probably enjoy being slapped. She would finally get the physical contact she craves.

[–] ChaCha44 8 years ago

No, I didn't know that. She doesn't seem educated. There is a part of her that's sweet but she should be spending he money on a therapist instead of an immigration lawyer.

[–] hughjman 8 years ago

I actually thought she came across as smart when talking about the others. She's just somewhat dumb in her own situation, and who isn't in their 20s? (And sometimes beyond). By that I mean, she acted very babyish when faced with someone else's culture but seems to realize that now. I hope she's taking her brain to school and not putting everything on hold while trying to work out this visa situation.

[–] jenweaver31 8 years ago

Did she really just say "bof of us"?? Ugh.

[–] Maya55555 8 years ago

Agreed.

I do not know about Morocco, but in Egypt and more conservative countries, Nicole would be viewed as a whore. She has a child (illegitimate ?) from a former relationship; is therefore NOT a virgin, and has cheated on Azan. She feels that what she did was right, = whore.

She is not respecting to his culture with the ban on displays of PUBLIC affection, dresses improperly and refuses to "get it".

She is very immature and stubborn. She cannot be living off her mother forever.

Not good at all.

PS.....

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I guess Anfisa agrees with my thread.

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[–] kjackson106 8 years ago

And do you love me? Do you really love me? Do you love me a lot? How much do you love me? How much again? Lots and lots?

[–] jeddahgal 8 years ago

Yes, that was pretty pitiful. My dad used to tell us, "if you have to ask someone, 'Do you love me?,' they don't."

[–] celesteceleste 8 years ago

OMG It is so very disgusting, uncomfortable, and embarrassing to American's, especially women, to see her childish behavior. I half expect that she sends him emails that say, "Do you love me? Circle yes or no." like we did in grade school.

He clearly does not love her which makes her clinging to him in public all the more embarrassing.

[–] I_Love_Reality_TV 8 years ago

Maya55555...Maybe they should have placed a big W on her forehead and stoned her in the public square when she was in Morocco.

[–] Maya55555 8 years ago

I love Reality TV

You read like I INVENTED SHARIA.

Wake up! Read the Koran.

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[–] I_Love_Reality_TV 8 years ago

Maya55555 I have studied the Qur'an extensively. Thank you.

[–] Maya55555 8 years ago

Well then you should know that I did not invent Sharia Law, true?

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[–] Bobby Briggs Briganza 8 years ago

Since when is shari’a the law of the land in Morocco?

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[–] Maya55555 8 years ago

BBB

If you were to read my initial thread about Morocco, that should answer your question.

I was concerned about the religious customs of particular muslim countries, as I know some appear to be more liberal than Saudi Arabia.

"A stitch in time, saves your embarrassment." (RIP Ms. Penny LoBello)

[–] jeddahgal 8 years ago

I'm American but grew up in Saudi because of my dad's work.

Maya is right about the preconceived notions observant Muslims have about not just American women but foreign women in general, i.e., that their behavior makes them seem like whores to conservative Muslims. We socialized with Arab friends but when my sister and I were dating dad had a hard and fast rule: no locals... and no Marines from the embassy!

[–] Maya55555 8 years ago

jeddahgal

Thank you so much for your candor and kindness!

"A stitch in time, saves your embarrassment." (RIP Ms. Penny LoBello)

[–] celesteceleste 8 years ago

Now THAT would have been good reality TV.

[–] DarlaKDavis 8 years ago

I realize you are writing about a different country. To me, there are no illegitimate children, only illegitimate parents. Why should an innocent child be labled? It's archaic.

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[–] epb_ezekiel 8 years ago

I'm just happy her mom is standing firm especially when Nicole said she was going to take her daughter if she returns to Morocco. Her mom said absolutely not. Her mom brought up many points that Nicole didn't realize. What Nicole needs to concentrate on is herself and her daughter. She should go to school and start a career and be a good role model for her daughter.
She's too old to be acting child like. Grow up.

[–] jeddahgal 8 years ago

Yes, her desperation is obvious. I hope for the little daughter's sake this does not work out and I also admire her mom's firmness in dealing with the situation. Having a daughter who is so immature and dense for her age must be tough to deal with.

If she and Azan truly want to marry they should buckle down, save their money, and PAY FOR IT THEMSELVES.

[–] Maya55555 8 years ago

Agreed.

"A stitch in time, saves your embarrassment." (RIP Ms. Penny LoBello)

[–] Pgeen 8 years ago

You're so right; there's such a desperation there. She is in love with the idea of being "in love". It's so very immature, but who isn't at her age?

We all, at some point, have to learn life's lessons; it must be very hard when there's the disadvantage of not being able to discern words from actions.

I'm amazed that so many people are okay with HEARING "I love you" rather than seeing EVIDENCE of the love.

When you care and love someone, you covet them; you WANT them to be happy and you're willing to DO things that you know will help them be happy. Not for any reward you may get, but just for the shear pleasure of making your love smile. It doesn't have to be expensive or related to money at all; it may be something as simple as washing/vacuuming their car, or leaving a note on their windshield so they can find it when they get off work.

It's just an action that lets that person know they're appreciated and loved. Anyone can SAY "I love you a lot" but not many people know how to truly show it.

[–] Maya55555 8 years ago

That is "puppy love" when you are 13 not in your 20s.

She refuses to loose weight despite what her family and Azan recommended. Nicole feels that what ever she does is correct,
she does not seem to care about the consequences.

"A stitch in time, saves your embarrassment." (RIP Ms. Penny LoBello)