I just don't see how that is going to work with this. None of them were to be sympathized previously, so are we supposed to feel bad for Gretchen? And, a lot, if not most, people are going to side with Jimmy for not waiting around for her to get better. Remember, it isn't just that he's unable to help, he gets sh!t on when he does try to help.
Feel bad for her? I would have to put myself in the role of actually knowing her. Since it has been maybe 12-14 hours or so (actual episode runtime) I can't exactly say as I'm invested so much that I would put up with her for too much longer.
I have had several girlfriends that have suggested they were manic, clinical and/or bipolar but I think it was just a cop-out so they could act any way they wanted and get away with it. This is the main reason I don't have a very high opinion of people that say they have "depression".
I understand the out-of-balance chemical nature of the disease, but this is basically the mantra of of all "sufferers of depression" that I have met: "You can't fix me!!" They wear it like a badge. Some are even proud of it. It makes them feel like they are unpredictable and for reasons beyond their control. The last thing, in my experience, that a woman wants to be is predictable... death would be better in their eyes than be predictable. Many of them think that "being unpredictable" was a way to not have somebody "knowing" them. But that is predictable in it's own right, to an extent.
So I have been in the unfortunate position of Jimmy on more occasions than I care to count. All I wanted to do was show support, be vulnerable, lend a hand, create an atmosphere of safety, be "the man to her woman"... but that doesn't ever work out. Jimmy has already been having his head turned on a couple of occasions that we know of... it's just a matter of time until his jimmy finds a new hat.
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Move along! There's nothing to see here
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