He was an obnoxious selfish jerk
Lazy jerk who has no ambition and doesn't want to work, makes his wife work, wants his dad to fund him, and then claims its OK because he has to follow his dream, I.e. do nothing. Uneducated, swears all the time, terrible role model and parent.
Wants to live in a fancy house with pool and send kids to private school, typical of so many Americans who live above their means, and looks down upon his brother who's at least trying.