is 'foreignness' a big theme?
My impression was the nuances of cross-cultural expectations played a huge role in the film:
- Both failed marriages were half French and half Iranian. Both seemed to have broken down in large part because of mis-communication between the partners.
- Samir complained that Celine didn't even care (and hadn't cared for a really long time), yet we know by the tear at the end she in fact cared a whole lot. Celine apparently found Samir so distant she long ago concluded the only possible reason was he was having an affair (which is probably what drove him to really have an affair).
- Celine automatically assumes that Samir is especially attracted to women from Iran (i.e. Naima), and that having such women around is very dangerous. Yet Samir married a French woman, and seems to employ Naima simply because as an undocumented immigrant she can't cause him much trouble or exact more pay.
- Marie seems to still have an unresolved attachment to Ahmed, and is still very angry at him (and we eventually find out is pretty effective in exacting her revenge). Yet Ahmed seems to be a very low-key, intelligent, supportive person whose main complaint about the marriage was that Marie didn't support him adequately when he was down.
Both Marie and Celine can never escape the suspicion they're in a marriage "of convenience", that their husbands want to legally stay in the country more than they want any particular woman.
There are other places too where we see the pervasive influence of foreignness:
- Samir needs his passport so routinely that he just leaves it clipped to the back of the visor in his car.
- Naima knows she can't call the police on unruly customers, and needs to flee whenever someone else calls the police.
- Ahmed had so much trouble finding a decent job he finally abandoned his marriage.
- Fouad is already at a very young age behaving like a juvenile delinquent.
In fact it doesn't seem too much of a stretch to say that if nobody had been "foreign", none of the sh** would have ever happened. Yet other threads here don't seem to mention "foreignness" as a factor at all. Am I just imagining it was in the film bigtime and intentionally?