Kyle's love life - Below Deck (2013) Discussion

[–] NikkiFromSiberia 8 years ago

honestly, she might just have

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[–] fiero-49251 8 years ago

It wasn't like she was looking! I don't think she dodged anything! He's a good enough guy regardless of his history it seems to me so far! If anything, I think he dodged the bullet dealing with her! Beautiful and stupid has never impressed me! She's an incompetent & I'm surprised Kate hasn't raised holy HELL on her! 

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[–] DarlaKDavis 8 years ago

Mindthinkr, I agree. I think anyone sexually involved with both sexes is obliged to inform their possible or future partners of their status. I would lose my mind if I learned I had sex with someone who had sex with both genders. Then you know what we have learned about having sex with their partners then their partners, etc., etc., etc.

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[–] DarlaKDavis 8 years ago

Sorry, my comment printed twice and this device won't allow me to delete it.

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[–] mindthinkr 8 years ago

I only saw it (your post) once so maybe it did delete the second time but you can't see that.

I wonder how young ppl handle that these days...discussing their sexual past. Especially when ppl have these apps like Tinder where they can basically just swipe and along comes a willing sexual partner. Ha, I thought it was pretty free in the 60's but I don't remember our generation having all of the STD's that exists now. I have to admire Kyle tho, he was comfortable in his skin and straight forward with his history. Poor Emily looked a wee bit shocked. I have to say however, that none of this has bearing on his being a good deckhand and him doing his job. Kelly gave him a lot of the grunt work (swimming out to bring in the wayward pool) and he just accepted it and followed orders. It does make him more interesting tho; he'll probably have some juicy stories next week when he dresses in drag!

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[–] DarlaKDavis 8 years ago

I edited the second comment to apologize for not being able to delete the duplicate.

A friend of mine says "Remember the seventies when we could go out,do what we wanted, and not worry about getting sick or dying?" Well, I wasn't that free about my life, but these days one must be careful, that is certain. I try not to be judgmental, so I don't hold Kyle's personal life against him, but I do wonder if a person shouldn't be a bit forthcoming about certain information that could put another's health in jeopardy. Not on the first date, but then I would not be free and easy on the first date, either.

Something I do admire about him, I believe I heard him say he had a brief relationship with someone and a child was a result of that. Since then he does support his daughter. Good for him. A lot of men just bail (pun intended.)

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[–] mindthinkr 8 years ago

That's exactly why I don't understand these apps like Tinder. Never been on it. Saw a lead character (Fiona) on Shameless use it with abandon and I'm just waiting for the repercussions...you know there wil be some. I also don't get why women feel the need to give away the best part of themselves if they aren't invested in a relationship. What's left to intrigue the guy? How you fold your laundry? lol

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[–] MattGuyOR 8 years ago

Mindthinkr, I agree. I think anyone sexually involved with both sexes is obliged to inform their possible or future partners of their status. I would lose my mind if I learned I had sex with someone who had sex with both genders. Then you know what we have learned about having sex with their partners then their partners, etc., etc., etc.

Not following.

Why in the world would you "lose your mind"?

Obliged to inform others? Why???

Oh what a day! What a lovely day!

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[–] mindthinkr 8 years ago

Matt, that was somebody responding to my post. I think that you meant those questions for the poster DarlaKDavis. I can't answer for her...but if you have a question for me I'd be happy to answer it. Happy viewing!

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[–] DarlaKDavis 8 years ago

I would lose my mind with worry that I had been exposed to diseases typically passed man to woman, woman to man, AND man to man. My point was, and perhaps I didn't share it clearly, is that any partner who had been freely sleeping around is someone I would be afraid of. Kyle has had sex with other men and with women. Yes, I realize his girlfriend is transgender, but for the moment she is still physically endowed with male genitalia. You know the risks, IF they had unprotected sex. I believe Kyle said he had a one night stand which resulted in the birth of his daughter. That is his admission. So he had unprotected sex at LEAST once with a female. That behavior with his child's mother indicates indiscreet behavior. So, yes, I would lose my mind, until I had the proper tests, with worry about my own health, Still, as I wrote, I wouldn't be so easy about my personal life.

I think you ARE following and trying perhaps to read something into my comment which does not come from me. I am writing about someone having an indiscriminate sex life, which he DID admit to with his child's mother. His girlfriend (Ashley?) should also worry. Do people no longer discuss their sexual health with potential partners?

Just in case you thought I was disparaging a particular lifestyle, I believe one is born so, not a choice. Please don't take me there.

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[–] rgncajun18 8 years ago

Why does everyone think just cos you're attracted to both sexes that you're messy person? Bisexuals are just as likely to be as faithful or unfaithful as heterosexuals and homosexuals.

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[–] DarlaKDavis 8 years ago

"Everyone" doesn't think that, and not one poster wrote that. You made that up by jumping to your own conclusion. You protested an opinion which was never proffered.

My point was, Kyle admitted to a one night stand which resulted in a pregnancy. This indicates unprotected sex, does it not? My concern is not with the gender of one's partners. I have no problem with heterosexuals, homosexuals, bisexuals or transgenders. My concern is folks having unprotected sex with an admitted one night stand. One could not possibly know that person. One cannot assume everyone they meet is consistently using protection. First and foremost, didn't Kyle take a risk with his own health?

Good for him that he is supporting his child with a woman he doesn't know. I wonder how many WOULD do that, but I bet it was not in his life plan,

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