Can't tell by your name if you are a male or female, but let me tell you something. Just because they are just starting out does not mean a female can't handle it many times a day , nor does it mean that she wouldn't want big orgasms. In fact most females in the beginning of their sexual life want it quite frequently. Its something new, and amazing they just discovered and most can't get enough of it. And, no matter where a women is at in her sexual life we always want that BIG O. Sadly, most women don't get that in the beginning because they don't know how to, and the man doesn't really know how to give it to her. Did you know that the majority of women still haven't had a real full on orgasm. A full body, full on orgasm would have them doing what is called female ejaculation or "squirting" if you want to be immature and gross about it. I didn't have a real full on orgasm like that until I was in my mid thirties and realized what I had been missing out on. As a man--sorry Sam is an androgynous name-- assuming you are male, would you want to have nothing but a partial orgasm and not ejaculate every single time you had sex? Women are supposed to be doing that to, but most don't because most men 1. think of their own pleasure, and 2. don't know how to give a woman a full orgasm, 3. most women don't now how to achieve it either. Its not that they don't want the BIG O, its that they have never had it, don't know how to get it, and the men they are with don't know how to give it. So saying they don't want it is a bit idiotic and naive.
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Sam-953-169285
9 years ago
I am very tempted to get too personal for here; this is not the place for that.
I will say that I assume you have never had intercourse with a woman so you can only speak for yourself.
You are projecting your bad experiences into what I said. I said a "woman's enjoyment of sex seems to vary by the individual" but I did not say she does not want it. Note that in fact, what you said is consistent with what I said. You said "most women don't get that in the beginning" and "the majority of women still haven't had a real full on orgasm". However you are highly uniformed (to put it nicely) to think that all women are eager for it. That is just not true.
I think many women would resent the implication that they have not had a "full body, full on orgasm" if they have not ejaculated.
I do not want to make this discussion somewhere that the initiator Moviemanic22 would be uncomfortable to participate, but note that she asks "Is it normal for any woman to want sex everyday?". That seems inconsistent with your implication that a woman just starting out can handle it many times a day and "most females in the beginning of their sexual life want it quite frequently". I am not saying that can't be true and is never true.
You seem to think I don't want women to be eager for it every day. I am not saying that I don't want women to want it every day, I am expressing frustration that not enough do. You are out of touch with reality if you think women want it as much as men.
I think you would be happier if you put more effort into understanding what others are saying instead of spending so much time trying to explain what you think others do not understand.
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