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This might be of interest to some of you


A lifestyle contract and other goodies

http://submissive1.homestead.com/lifestylecontract.html



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Thanks, lilsusieq86.

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My pleasure, I just like to help people that are not familiar with the real world of BDSM letting them know that what they see in movies and the fiction that they read is mostly incorrect and extremely limited for what is true.

The easiest thing i have ever had to do was give my heart.

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I have limited experience with it. I've been to some events for Threshold and met a few people involved in the life. I even knew a dominatrix. The guys were average men with jobs, none were billionaires with a red room of pain, none chased virgins either.

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Please remember that there are fakes every where so please be careful stay away from the men who have on expensive leather pants with the tags still on them and carrying a five hundred foot bull whip.

There are all kinds of Dominants and subs. Ones that use BDSM to add a little kink to their sex lives and then there are the ones that live it seriously for it is so spiritual and on such a higher pain that people can't even imagine it.

I am not into pain, so my Master/Husband showed me how all these implements can be used erroctically. The number one thing to remember is titles mean nothing. Going with strangers is as dangerous as jumping off a cliff.

My Master/Husband was tired of all the fakes and gave it all up until he met me. He wanted someone with a true submissive heart with no real time BDSM experience And a virgin and I wanted a Dominant who was an expert in what I needed and we both gotvwhat we wanted.

You must train to be a Master. It takes years and a lot of practice and studying. So again you and everyone please be careful

My Master is a billionaire LOL

The easiest thing i have ever had to do was give my heart.

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Hi lilsusieq86,

I was at a Threshold event as an employee for a social services organization. I handed out condoms and saw it all; nerdy guys in leather chaps and Indian Jones hats with c*ck rings and very little c*ck, the curious and a few true believers. Some attractive women walked around in little or nothing on but stiletto pumps because they knew they were safe. I even saw senior citizens who had been involved in the lifestyle for years.

My interest was for a manuscript. The manuscript is not about BDSM, but I did write a supporting character who works in a fetish bar in the 1950s. I wanted her to be authentic and I researched it.


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I've found that in the world of BDSM like in the vanilla world a bar is the worst place to meet authentic any things. Research is always good and it helps when you look into more than one source.

The easiest thing i have ever had to do was give my heart.

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I've written about 1950s New Orleans. There was an underground BDSM/fetish scene that took place in sex clubs, a fascinating world.

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It sure sounds like it. I would love to read it.

The easiest thing i have ever had to do was give my heart.

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Always good to be informed.

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