Re; Helping Yourself


When they are discussing what they liked and didn't like about each other's performance he says "you started helping yourself a little bit". What does this mean? As I've never heard that expression before.

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I believe this is referring to when a woman, during intercourse, touches her own genitalia at the same time for supplementary pleasure (position permitting, of course).

I've only see this movie once but I recall he felt he was having to compete with her to get her 'off', and/or that she needed to help herself get off because he wasn't doing a good enough job. Meanwhile I think she saw it that men should enjoy seeing a woman touch herself, rather than be insecure, and it's just bonus pleasure.

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Oh right that also explains the bit where he says he felt like he was being "benched".

Thankyou ;-)

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