Yes, that is exactly what I'm saying. There are thousands of accounts of adult survivors of child sexual abuse not recognizing what happened to them, particularly ones who are drugged. Take for instance all the cases we see in the news recently of teenage girls getting blackout drug or getting drugged at parties and not knowing they were raped until they saw pictures or videos of the assaults online.
Pain is only a small factor when it comes to recognizing one was raped. Many 12-year-olds don't know what rape is in the first place. Society has us teaching children about stranger danger and the fact that most rapes are committed by people the victim knows goes unnoticed until older teens or twenties. They were in the home of a trusted adult, and an officer of the law. We teach children that the police are there to help us, to protect us, not to rape us. Why should they have any suspicion? If there was pain (of course, the more often they were raped the less pain they'd feel) it could easily be explained away as growing pains, menstrual or premenstrual cramps, or gastrointestinal distress from the alcohol and junk food.
Even if they did notice something was happening, there might not be a lot of reason for them to want to tell. Outside of the shame rape survivors normally feel, if they knew they were being raped by the police they'd have even less reason to report. Who could they report it to? How could they know a police officer they reported it to wasn't one of the ones who raped them? How could they even trust the law to take care of them? At least 60% of rapes go unreported. Some studies have even estimated as many as 84% of rapes go unreported.
So, yes, a rape survivor might not know something happened, and even if they did know something happened they very well might never say a word.
I still believe that peace and plenty and happiness can be worked out some way. I am a fool.
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