Am I crazy?????


Guys and Gals....
Please take a moment of your time and help me out.
If the general consensus is that the Dark Tower fans here would like me to leave this board, please chime in.
Sometimes I don't know if I am being too abrasive or hot-headed.
If you guys/girls want me to leave the board I will happily do so. I don't want to be the person that ruins everyone's good time.
I feel like the majority of my recent posts have been made in defense or retaliation of negativity.....but maybe I am being the negative one???
I just don't know anymore.

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I don't involve myself in these things, but since you asked..

Relax. It's fine. I don't why you guys continue to engage with this kid. It is clearly why he is here. Look at all the attention seeking stuff he has posted today. Ignore, don't feed.

I don't know what happening in pm's. None of my business , but that whole suicide thing just fed their fire, Let it go, and enjoy yourself.

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I know I keep feeding the main Troll... even tho I'm really just trying to understand him. I'm going to try to not feed the Trolls anymore.

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I enjoy your presence here :) Tyler just likes baiting you, try not to let it get to you so much wolf 

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You gotta stay Wolfie. Lets focus on the movie and not on the negative trolls here.

Books are a uniquely portable magic. ~Stephen King

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Just sit your @$$, bud! Don't let 'em get to you. I know that can't be difficult at times and Tyler is choosing to attack you with homophobic slurs, but your better than any BS Tyler swings at you. If you gotta take a day or two to center yourself, fine. But don't disappear on us, Wolf! We enjoy conversation with you.

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Oh, Wolf, of course we don't want you to leave. Honestly, let it go. You haven't done anything wrong other than engaging a hostile. Buddy, when you do that, it does nothing but stresses you out and, frankly, I find it exhausting. There's an ignore feature you should feel free to use... liberally if you must! Personally, I just like to meet the hostility with a level head. No matter how nasty they get, I keep it as calm as possible. And if gets too vicious? Ignore! It's easy. Stay aboard Just tap the threads that interest you and you feel you can contribute to. We'd hate to see you go!

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No, you're not crazy, wolfdamage lol. I understand how frustrating it can be at times just to have a simple conversation on this board when you're constantly having to try to reason with or talk around the Negative Nancys, meanies, and trolls. Even though I try my best to stay civil, I've gone toe-to-toe with a couple of people here myself, and for some of the very same reasons you have. But please, don't let them drive you away. I can't speak for anybody else, but I enjoy seeing comments from every friendly, reasonable* person I've talked to here, and I'd hate to see any of you leave. Besides that, the reasonable people here help provide balance, which is a good thing.

So with all that said, please stay! :)


(*Side note, because I know certain people are thinking it: When I say "reasonable," I don't necessarily mean "someone who agrees with me;" I simply mean "someone who can hold a civil conversation, regardless of whether or not we agree with each other." Just wanted to be clear on that.)

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Don't give in to tyler's gaslighting. Don't let him make you feel bad for having the reaction you do to what he's saying. Just ignore it, I say.

I don't know if you're aware of this but I've already changed things. I killed Ben Linus.
--Sayid

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I really do love all of you guys and girls here. Thank you for the nice comments.

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So no one is going to even slightly criticise that he wished death on three people, ok then. At least we know that just anyone can do that on this board and it's fine.

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No. He shouldn't have said that. That was bad on him. Tyler shouldn't have said what he said either. If they were going at each other privately, they shouldn't have done that either. Immaturity on a message board? Imagine that.

I don't think you are really offended. Rather you are looking for ammunition against people who don't share your opinions.

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I don't think you are really offended. Rather you are looking for ammunition against people who don't share your opinions.


Precisely.

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No criticism from you Wesker? I'm sure if someone against the film had said something similar about one of the little group of defenders you'd be just as quiet on the subject. Because you're not full of sh*t at all...

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You only made it an issue when you didn't have a leg to stand on (deflect, divert, and dumb down). I wonder how long you're going to be able to hobble along before you topple over under the weight of your bratty "No True Soctsman/Fan" bull.

By the way, since your memory is so selectively short, here's my stance on what he's said in regards to you and bodily injury/death (hint: it hasn't changed) -> http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1648190/board/flat/261973749?d=261981337#261981337

October 3rd, 2016

Seeing as he is someone that is intimately familiar with such behavior, he is correct. Shame on ya, wolf.


Ready when you are .

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Well done genius, you got the wrong thread. Go to the thread titled 'DeadOrAlive...' . He wishes death in fire and suicide on 3 people, something you conveniently missed.
Funny how your objection to such comments didn't stretch to that one.

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Ah, the time honored "playing obtuse to draw out the argument" tactic. Okay, i'll bite.

Here's my statement on any and all future comments about wishing death on others ->

"When it comes to a work of entertainment, no one should ever wish death on a person when it comes to a disagreement. Not only is it morally unsound, but it doesn't lead to a place of understanding."

Feel free to take a screenshot of that. Hell, quote it if you like. And, if the mood should strike you, print it out and frame it...or wipe your ass with it.

Point is, i'm now on record. Don't worry...if you happen to forget, it won't be an issue: this thread will be periodically bumped so you can't retreat and feign selective amnesia.

Now, are you going to own up to your own words, or will you yet again pull off your best politician impersonation by whipping out another diversionary tactic?

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Lovely statement, but such bullsh*t. If someone against this film had said things like wolfdamage said you would never stop bringing it up. You think people don't notice how your morals and open mindedness on casting only come into play when they suit you, but it's blatantly obvious.

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Sure, i can see how odd it looks that a lot of us have rallied around wolf after what was said. And i do think it was a terrible thing to say, just as much as the attacks on people's personal lives by other posters. Tbh i was baffled that you were brought into it when it occurred as i hadn't seen you post around that time (plus i think this is not the first time you have been on the receiving end of this). Clearly tyler was antagonising wolf within an inch of his sanity and whatever happened in PM, who knows but it doesn't look good if it's true, and i also haven't seen you carry on like that either.

You have a thick skin (i also don't think you are personally offended), but sure thick skin or not it doesn't make it ok. But i disagree that you are looking for ammo against people, i think you're fed up with Wesker replying to all of your posts with what you once said about wishing harm on people involved in the movie. So in that case, fair enough - you're totally justified in that it should be laid to rest now.

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So in that case, fair enough - you're totally justified in that it should be laid to rest now.


If he wants to double down and affirm that he stands by what he said or genuinely and explicitly apologize for statements which are a hair's breadth away from a child's temper tantrum...especially in a fanbase I once thought was full of adults, i'd be all for it. Thing of it is, he never will, because either* implicates him and takes away from his power to keep foisting the "PC"/"shill" conspiracy theories on this board while attempting to put on the appearance of a superior/"true" fan.


(* That folks should lose their jobs and/or be in accidents in order to prevent this film from hitting the theaters.)

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You're not stupid wesker, do you really think pushing someone like spider into a corner is going to have the desired effect? May as well castrate him while we're at it. Not going to happen, not with that tactic anyway, it's patronising.

Has he ever reiterated these sentiments? If so, there's more to it than a knee jerk reaction (like what wolf had), and i'll change my tune.

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It's rather simple: "No, of course I didn't really mean what I said about people needing to lose their jobs or suffer accidents because of this "attempt" at a "The Dark Tower' film. Only children or the very short of temper do. That was a mistake on my part."

Every time he wants to act high and mighty...as if he's the Uber-Fan...he's going to get it.

Has he ever reiterated these sentiments?


He doesn't have to. He stated them, we read them. He hasn't changed his tune or amended what he stated...and his continuing attitude surely doesn't help to dispel the notion. All I have to go on is that he really still means what he put forth to everyone here.

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Guess what fool, you can't use that against me if you aren't going to continually criticise wolfdamage for his comments. I know you struggle with consistency but since you don't realise. It exposes just how little your moral stand against offensive comments means when you ignore worse.

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Now that that's out of the way...

What was your excuse for being this evasive on the issue of your own cruel fanatical desires before wolfdamage made his inflammatory comments? Y'know...the temporal period which preceded those comments?

Hm?


Take your time. We've got a good, oh, eight months .

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Adios . Have fun continuing to not own up to your statements...until the next instance you go on a rant or slight people simply willing to give this film a fair shot.

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I take this to mean that spider just acknowledged he has made offensive comments in the past, and considering the usage of morals in his post i'm assuming he no longer condones whatever it was he said exactly but won't retract it while the hypocrisy of other posters saying worse is deemed acceptable on the board. Good enough for me. 

I think i can see what your trying to do Wesker, and in a lot of ways i respect it. I see this board as 60% defenders/optimists, 20% detractors, 10% fencesitters and 10% hit and run haters. As far as DT boards go that's a damn good ratio, the optimistic crew make this a good board for discussion and i respect you trying to keep it that way. Spider has a pretty strong (and often rational) voice here as a detractor and i can see the possibility regarding some of his points swaying the fencesitters AND turning the hit and run haters into stay and bitch posters. This would make for a pretty ugly argumentative board if it was a 60/40 rather than the current 60/20. Your arguments/debates with the detractors are articulate and usually humorous, hey you even likened me to Coral Thorin which gave me a laugh as i can see why you would and it was a funny sledge that i didn't take personally. Buuuut this one point with spider... technically i think he's right for being able to cry the moral high ground, heck, wolf didn't even mention why spider was dragged into it (I don't think he'd even posted for a while). At least some kind of explanation was offered with tyler and deadoralive.

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I take this to mean that spider just acknowledged he has made offensive comments in the past, and considering the usage of morals in his post i'm assuming he no longer condones whatever it was he said exactly but won't retract it while the hypocrisy of other posters saying worse is deemed acceptable on the board. Good enough for me.


You're not his spokesperson and he's a big boy. If he wants to refute what he said, he can say it. If he wants to stand by what he said, he can say it. Zero ambiguity is the only way to go here.

By the way, bear in mind that this became an issue once he began badgering the ever-loving-christ out of people by insinuating or outright claiming that their taste/intellect/status as a fan/etc is inferior simply because they are willing to give this film a chance.

Giving legitimacy to folks such as he...methods such as his...is not conducive to a healthy forum.

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Just to chime in.....I stand by what I said.....not literally wishing death upon something. That was me being impulsive and acting purely on emotions. But I have no tolerance for people who go out of their way to bring such a horrible attitude towards other people here. I don't buy into this finger-pointing game of tattle-tailing and pissing contests for whoever needs the most attention. I originally came here to be apart of something that we all share a common love for. I am completely tolerant of anyone's opinion that doesn't parallel mine.....but the racists and homophobes are too much for me to tolerate. I admit I said some horrible things. Will those who I have retaliated against own up to their own parts?? I don't know. And I don't really care. I come here in peace and only wish the best for the people who are here to enjoy themselves with good intentions.

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I have never private messaged anyone on this site. Wolfdamage has no arguments, only hatred. He tells people to "shut their mouths" and "commit suicide" because I mentioned that this clearly isn't the Dark Tower series that they are making.

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Apologies if it seemed what i stated was fact. It isn't. You were accused of something and immediately denied it, you shouldn't have to deny it again.

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